04/02/2026
When children are labeled as “aggressive” or “defiant,” the conversation often jumps straight to punishment 😫 But behavior is rarely the full story — it’s usually a signal to something deeper ⚠️
Anger and aggressive behavior doesn’t come out of nowhere. It can be a response to what’s happening around them — the system that they live in.
If we want real change, we need to look beyond punishment and control — and pay attention the child’s system and healing the system itself 🫂