09/12/2025
Dear meeKapadhi
I am a 36 years old man get married months ago to my 10 years relationship partner. The problem is that this woman look too much down on me which in most cases through our little arguments, she can openly boast about other men who she dated before we get married despite she is now a wife and I am a husband, she says they are better than me, they drive good car than my shikorokoro car. She sees my family as poor and prizes her family alot, that they are better off and I'm nothing compared to them, She insults me to such an extent that she can mention my own mother too.
Well I'm an introvert person working on my own feeding my family (kids including her) she is working too. I'm paying rent and buy basic needs and wants for the whole family as a husband supposed to do i guess, she never felt hunger in my hands but despite all these efforts she didn't respect me. She hides the fact that we get married, I remember having posted photos of our wedding on FB and WhatsApp statuses, she immediately claimed that I must delete them off and things started escalating between us a result.
I talked to her couple of times about how I feel when she boast about other men, insulting me and being disrespectful but she keeps the same character up to date.
Please I need your advices and public opinions by fellow men, is this what you guys living with your wives out there ? What can I do to handle this situation as a husband without being violent?
Women are welcome to comments too.
