24/01/2026
There are women who lose good men - not because the men failed, cheated, or stopped trying but because those men were taken for granted.
This is a hard conversation, but it needs to be had.
And the most dangerous part?
Many of these women are not wicked.
They are simply self-centered without knowing it.
They are so focused on what they want, what they feel, and what they believe they deserve, that they stop seeing the sacrifices happening quietly in front of them. They normalize effort. They treat consistency as entitlement.
Over time, appreciation dies.
And when appreciation dies, love starts bleeding slowly.
To the men reading this:
Be intentional about the kind of woman you date and marry.
Choose a woman who has your best interest at heart, not just her comfort.
A woman who understands urgency vs importance.
Marry a woman who can grow with you, think with you, and create with you.
A woman who understands seasons.
Because if you build with someone who lacks these qualities, this is what often happens:
You will give your youth.
You will give your strength.
You will give your peace.
You will give your resources.
And one day, you will realize you are exhausted… and unappreciated.
You will be remembered for what you failed to provide, not for what you sacrificed to provide it.
Love is not only about being loved.
It is about seeing, valuing, and protecting the one who loves you.
The man you take for granted today may not leave.
But the version of him that loved you effortlessly will eventually die.
Choose wisely.
Build consciously.
Appreciate intentionally.
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