MY Secret That Matters

MY Secret That Matters An Outstanding Global Organization where people come to seek advice and counselings based on their individual Relationship, Marriage, Sex, Health issues..

My Secret Matters is the fastest growing, most interactive and biggest Social plat form online with over 70,000 members around the Globe. My Secret Matters is a plat form to help address People's Relationships, Marriages, Sex, Health Issues and Secrets Kept Alone. The Page Updates Almost 24/7 because of its request and solutions seeking for, in different part of the world. For Sponsors, Adverts or Partnership on our page. To get more info about what we do. Please call +2349080088117

Hi Lovers“WHEN YOU CHASE S*X, YOU DELAY SUCCESS”(How lust keeps men distracted and broke)Let’s tell the truth a lot of m...
05/05/2025

Hi Lovers

“WHEN YOU CHASE S*X, YOU DELAY SUCCESS”

(How lust keeps men distracted and broke)

Let’s tell the truth a lot of men won’t admit:

It’s not village people holding you back — it’s va**na.
You’re not broke because of bad luck…
You’re broke because you keep trading focus for pleasure.

Every time you chase s*x, you’re pushing success further away.

Let’s break it down like men:

1. S*x Is the Most Expensive Free Thing

You think it’s just “ordinary” s*x?
No problem.

But check your life…

Since you started jumping from woman to woman, what has grown?
Your goals?
Or your excuses?

You’re wasting time, money, and mental space trying to impress women…
While your destiny is stuck on pause.

2. Lust Makes Men Lazy

You were meant to build.
You were born to conquer.
But now you’re just h***y, hungry, and distracted.

Instead of chasing purpose, you’re chasing panties.
Instead of building skills, you’re building body counts.

No great man was ever built in a woman’s DM.

3. Every Round Is a Round Lost

Every round of s*x you’re having with women you don’t love, don’t respect, and don’t plan to marry…

You’re losing time, clarity, and ambition.

Your mates are investing in business — you’re investing in waist.
They’re building empires — you’re building libido.

This is why you’re always tired. Foggy. Empty.

You’re draining your greatness in hotel rooms with nothing to show for it.

4. The Most Dangerous Woman Is the One Who Feels Like “Escape”

She’s soft. She’s sweet. She listens. She rubs your back.
You feel like a king in her arms — but you wake up with nothing.

That’s not a woman. That’s a distraction with makeup.

She’s not building you. She’s draining you.
And you’re addicted to the illusion of comfort.

5. Women Are Not the Problem — Your Discipline Is

S*x is not evil. Women are not the enemy.

But lack of control? That’s your downfall.

You can’t blame women when it’s your zipper that won’t stay up.
You can’t blame seduction when it’s you that keeps answering “Come over.”

You don’t need more women. You need more focus.

6. You Can’t Plant in Every Soil and Expect a Harvest

Your energy is like seed.

And you keep planting it in toxic soil — broken girls, unserious women, emotionally damaged distractions…

And you expect to reap success?

No sir.

You’ll reap confusion. Poverty. Setbacks.

Every or**sm with the wrong woman is a step away from your purpose.

7. Great Men Aren’t S*x-Addicted — They’re Purpose-Addicted

Want to rise in life?

Start saying NO to cheap pleasure.

Start saying YES to late nights building.
Early mornings grinding.
Weekends learning.

Your mates are focused. You’re h***y.

That’s why they’re succeeding… and you’re just scrolling, chasing, and struggling.

Final Word:

S*x will always be there. But opportunity waits for no man.

You must decide:

Will you chase the temporary rush of s*x — or the long-term reward of success?

Because you can’t serve two masters.
You either build… or you keep begging.



By *About That Street*

HiSecret Lovers, From Our Doctor Desk: A MUST READ💕👩‍🔬👨‍🔬UNTIMELY TOOTS😏🤔 Yep, FARTING DURING S*X IS A THING THAT HAPPEN...
26/02/2025

Hi
Secret Lovers,

From Our Doctor Desk: A MUST READ
💕👩‍🔬👨‍🔬

UNTIMELY TOOTS😏🤔
Yep,

FARTING DURING S*X IS A THING THAT HAPPENS

— Here’s Why

So this is... normal?

S*x can be awkward at the best of times, whether it's being intimate with a new partner or having s*x again after a dry spell. Then when you factor in everything from queefs to leg cramps to being on your period, s*x can also be hella awkward and uncomfortable at the worst of times.

A couple lies on a bed, smiling and playfully engaging with each other. Soft bedding and a relaxed a...
Georgijevic/Getty Images
S*x can be awkward at the best of times, whether it's being intimate with a new partner or having s*x again after a dry spell. Then when you factor in everything from queefs to leg cramps to being on your period, s*x can also be hella awkward and uncomfortable at the worst of times.

Let's not forget about farting.

Maybe you ate too many cruciferous vegetables at dinner or are experiencing a bout of bloating. However you got here, you should know that experiencing a case of the untimely t***s while getting down is a real-life experience that can happen to anyone.

Though it can be embarrassing and awkward, farting is a natural bodily function, and as recent surveys have shown, couples who are open enough to fart in front of each other may have stronger bonds and better emotional health as a couple.

Whether you find it humiliating or hilarious, letting one rip during a hot and heavy bedroom session is (mostly) normal. If you're wondering how many is too many t***s, and if there are ways to control the urge to pass gas while being passionate, below are some expert tips on what you need to know about farting during s*x.

Is farting during s*x normal?
Yes, farting during s*x is super normal.

There are various reasons explaining why you might fart during s*x. The first of which, she says, is increased abdominal pressure since s*x involves movement and pressure on the abdomen, which can push gas out of the intestines or re**um.

Another common reason? The food you're eating prior to s*x: "The foods consumed before s*x can play a role. Foods high in fiber, sodas, and dairy (for those lactose intolerant like me) can cause excessive gas production, making it more likely to be released during intimate moments,"

What are the best positions to avoid this?

Menu

Untimely T***s
Yep, Farting During S*x Is A Thing That Happens — Here’s Why
So this is... normal?

by Brianne Hogan
Feb. 18, 2025
A couple lies on a bed, smiling and playfully engaging with each other. Soft bedding and a relaxed a...
Georgijevic/Getty Images
S*x can be awkward at the best of times, whether it's being intimate with a new partner or having s*x again after a dry spell. Then when you factor in everything from queefs to leg cramps to being on your period, s*x can also be hella awkward and uncomfortable at the worst of times.

Let's not forget about farting.

Maybe you ate too many cruciferous vegetables at dinner or are experiencing a bout of bloating. However you got here, you should know that experiencing a case of the untimely t***s while getting down is a real-life experience that can happen to anyone.

Though it can be embarrassing and awkward, farting is a natural bodily function, and as recent surveys have shown, couples who are open enough to fart in front of each other may have stronger bonds and better emotional health as a couple.

Whether you find it humiliating or hilarious, letting one rip during a hot and heavy bedroom session is (mostly) normal. If you're wondering how many is too many t***s, and if there are ways to control the urge to pass gas while being passionate, below are some expert tips on what you need to know about farting during s*x.

Is farting during s*x normal?
Yes, farting during s*x is super normal.

According to s*xologist Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn, there are various reasons explaining why you might fart during s*x. The first of which, she says, is increased abdominal pressure since s*x involves movement and pressure on the abdomen, which can push gas out of the intestines or re**um.

Another common reason? The food you're eating prior to s*x: "The foods consumed before s*x can play a role. Foods high in fiber, sodas, and dairy (for those lactose intolerant like me) can cause excessive gas production, making it more likely to be released during intimate moments," Suwinyattichaiporn explains.

Pelvic floor and a**l sphincter control may be another reason, says Suwinyattichaiporn, since the pelvic floor muscles play a big role in controlling bowel movements and gas release. If these muscles weaken or relax during in*******se (especially in penetrative s*x), it can cause the unintentional release of gas.

And people who have IBS, eat a high-fiber diet, are lactose intolerant, or have weaker pelvic floor muscles are also more susceptible to releasing gas during s*x.

What are the best positions to avoid this?
If you've eaten some Taco Bell takeout and you're worried that some tooting is definitely in the cards, Suwinyattichaiporn says there are a few positions that are good for fart prevention.

She recommends spooning since, in this side-lying position, "both partners face the same direction, reducing pressure on the abdomen and allowing for more controlled muscle engagement."

Also, she suggests a relaxed missionary position with minimal deep thrusting and pressure on the stomach, which can help avoid unnecessary gas movement.

If you're concerned about positions to avoid that would encourage farting, Suwinyattichaiporn advises against doggy style, which can put pressure on the stomach and intestines, increasing the chance of farting. The same goes for any deep pe*******on positions. "Positions with deep thrusting can stimulate the intestines, shifting trapped gas," she explains.

What can you do to prevent farting during s*x?

Number one tip to prevent farting during s*x is to focus on your diet first. "Eat a moderate amount of natural foods that don't cause gas and bloating before s*x or have s*x before lunch or dinner," she suggests. Basically, skip the bowls of chili and high servings of broccoli and ice cream before heading to the bedroom.

Swallowing a lot of air, such as eating or drinking quickly or chewing gum, can also increase flatulence. "Try taking your time while eating and drinking, and don't chew gum before s*x," Suwinyattichaiporn advises. If you want that fresh breath feeling, "opt for mints instead!"

Constipated? Then, you're more likely to fart during s*x. If you struggle with constipation,
Suggests trying fiber supplements to help with your daily bowel movement or seeking advice from your doctor for a long-term solution.

Address

Wuse II
Abuja

Alerts

Be the first to know and let us send you an email when MY Secret That Matters posts news and promotions. Your email address will not be used for any other purpose, and you can unsubscribe at any time.

Contact The Practice

Send a message to MY Secret That Matters:

Share

Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on LinkedIn
Share on Pinterest Share on Reddit Share via Email
Share on WhatsApp Share on Instagram Share on Telegram