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This page is created with the sole purpose of grooming and educating young minds on the rudiments of relationship and how to discover the will of God in marriage.

ARE YOU READY!RELATIONSHIP AGLOW NETWORK INC.with The Olayemispresents:INTERACTIVE SESSION THEME: AM I LOVING RIGHT?This...
20/04/2026

ARE YOU READY!

RELATIONSHIP AGLOW NETWORK INC.
with The Olayemis
presents:

INTERACTIVE SESSION

THEME: AM I LOVING RIGHT?

This is not just another talk…
It’s a life-transforming conversation designed to: ✔ Heal from heartbreak
✔ Address real relationship challenges
✔ Help you understand love from God’s perspective
✔ Reposition you for a healthy, fulfilling relationship aligned with God’s perfect will.

🗓 Date: Sunday, 26th April 2025

⏰ Time: 8:00 PM (Nigeria Time)

🌍 Same time applies in: Ghana, Liberia, UK, USA, South Africa, Cameroon, Ethiopia, Kenya, Rwanda, Uganda, Tanzania

📍 Venue: WhatsApp Platform

🎯 Join Live:
📞 Call or WhatsApp:
08130539995 | 07031106076

Host:
The Olayemis
Relationship & Marriage Therapists

How to Communicate Your Needs Without Starting an Argument ❤️Most relationship problems aren’t about love, they’re about...
14/04/2026

How to Communicate Your Needs Without Starting an Argument ❤️

Most relationship problems aren’t about love, they’re about poor communication.

Here’s a simple step-by-step way to express your needs calmly and clearly:

Step 1. Get clear on what you actually feel
Before talking, ask yourself: “Am I hurt, ignored, or overwhelmed?”

Step 2. Choose the right time
Don’t bring it up in the middle of an argument. Pick a calm moment.

Step 3. Use “I” statements, not blame
Say: “I feel unappreciated when…” instead of “You never…”

Step 4. Be specific about your need
Don’t be vague. Say exactly what you want: “I’d like more quality time on weekends.”

Step 5. Listen without interrupting
Communication is not just talking, it's understanding.

Step 6. Stay calm, even if it gets emotional
If things escalate, pause instead of reacting.

Step 7. End with appreciation
Let them know you value the relationship: “I’m sharing this because I care about us.”

Healthy communication builds strong relationships.

Save this for later and share

© The Olayemis

HOW TO APPROACH A SINGLE LADY ONLINE AND ONSITE This is how to get the attention of the lady you like and will like to m...
14/04/2026

HOW TO APPROACH A SINGLE LADY ONLINE AND ONSITE
This is how to get the attention of the lady you like and will like to marry.

Some brothers don't know how to approach some sisters in their inbox
Here is Appraoch made easy

1. Make a little research about the lady

Go through her social media platforms, read her posts and the things she share on her wall.

It will give you a clue about her person, interests and the things she is passionate about.

Get to know a bit about her.

Education, business, career, family, fashion, gender equality, women advocacy, women empowerment etc., are all areas of interest and passion

Take note of these. Her personality, interests and passions are good areas to strike up a conversation with her.

2. Don't start using endearment names

This is a turn off for many ladies. Be responsible. Endearment names are for those in a relationship.

You just met a lady and you have started calling her sweet sweet names. E. G Baby, Babe, Sweetheart, Darling, Angel, Angle, egbon... It's angle 90 ni...

3. Chat her up

After you have gathered enough information about her Spiritually, physically etc. Then, chat her up.

Don't enter into a lady's DM and be asking her, "Can I know your name?" "Where are you from" "Where are you chatting from" etc.

You are not serious...ask her about the names of her ancestors too.

👉DM her and be polite.

👉Exchange pleasantries

👉Introduce yourself

👉Then, bring up a conversation with her based on what you observed on her wall.

You can ask her a question

You can compliment her on what she is doing

You can encourage her

You can offer to support her in whatever capacity you can, that's if she needs any support

All these are based on what you noticed on your wall.

4. Keep checking up on her

Don't state your mission yet

Try making her your friend.

Till and water the ground.

You don't sow a seed on fallow ground.

Be calming down small small, my friend.

👉Make it a point of duty to communicate with her frequently

👉Chat her up always, call her if she gives her contact, check up on her, how she's doing, how her day is going, what challenges she's facing and how you can be of help to ease the situation, how her day went etc.

👉Crack sensible jokes. This depends on how free she is with you. This is just to make her happy.

She will be getting the message small small.

Give her enough attention.

5. State your mission

After you have done your homework, after you have tilled, watered and saturated the ground, plant your seed.

Depending on how she relates with you now, if she's free with you now, then ask her out. Shoot your shoot. 😎😎🤣

She may fall or she may not because she's yet to approve of you..

Continue with number 4.

These are just few ways to get a lady's attention.

Stop harrasing ladies in their DM with your manhood and endearment names!

Be responsible! And be sensitive in the spirit.
And grab your copy

They won't teach you this in school.

Oya, come and pay your tithe single brothers 😎😎😎😎😎

Dear Esteemed Ministerial Partner,Grace and peace to you in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.We write to you with a dee...
24/03/2026

Dear Esteemed Ministerial Partner,

Grace and peace to you in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.

We write to you with a deep sense of purpose and a burning passion for souls as we prepare for our Easter Retreat Program (ERP) 2026, themed “Jesus – The Way of Life.” This divine gathering will take place from March 3rd – 5th, 2026 in Calabar, Nigeria.

As part of this retreat, the Lord has laid it strongly on our hearts to carry out a One-Day Mission Outreach on Wednesday, March 4th, 2026 (Day 2) at 5:00 PM. This outreach is designed not only to preach the Gospel but to demonstrate the love of Christ in action by reaching out to the community through tangible acts of kindness.

🌍 Our Mission

We are committed to:

Reaching souls with the saving message of Jesus Christ

Extending hands of love through distribution of relief materials (in-kind support)

Ministering hope, healing, and restoration to individuals and families in the community

💰 Outreach Budget

To effectively carry out this mission, we have projected a budget of:

₦500,000 (Five Hundred Thousand Naira)
≈ $333 USD (estimated equivalent)

📊 Proposed Budget Breakdown

Food Items & Relief Materials (Rice, Garri, Oil, etc.) – ₦250,000

Clothing & Basic Needs Support – ₦80,000

Evangelism Materials (Tracts, Bibles, Follow-up materials) – ₦50,000

Logistics & Transportation – ₦60,000

Public Address System & Setup – ₦30,000

Miscellaneous / Contingency – ₦30,000

🤝 Why Your Support Matters

The Gospel is most powerful when it is both preached and demonstrated. This outreach is an opportunity to:

Win souls into the Kingdom

Show the compassion of Christ in practical ways

Impact lives that may never step into a church building

Partner in eternal rewards through kingdom advancement

Scripture reminds us:
"He who wins souls is wise" (Proverbs 11:30)

Your partnership—whether through financial support, materials, or prayers—will go a long way in making this mission a success. Together, we can bring light, hope

Food for Thought “Stop Calling It Love When God Didn’t Send It”Not every open door is from God.Some doors are tests of y...
18/03/2026

Food for Thought

“Stop Calling It Love When God Didn’t Send It”

Not every open door is from God.
Some doors are tests of your discipline.

Just because they pray… doesn’t mean they are sent.
Just because they quote scripture… doesn’t mean they carry God’s heart.

Many people don’t fall into the wrong relationship because they are bad.
They fall because they are impatient.

You said you are waiting on God…
but your emotions are rushing ahead of His timing.

Truth you must accept:

God will not bless what He did not build.
And He will not sustain what you forced.

If you cannot hear God clearly when you are single,
you may ignore Him completely when you are in love.

Because feelings are loud…
but the voice of God is often gentle.

Ask yourself:

Is this relationship drawing me closer to God…
or making me compromise quietly?

Do I have peace… or just excitement?

Am I led by the Spirit… or by loneliness?

Loneliness has made many people call a distraction “destiny.”

Do not trade your calling for companionship.
Do not rush into what God has not confirmed.

It is better to be single and aligned with God…
than to be in a relationship and out of His will.

The right person will not compete with God for your heart…
they will lead you closer to Him.

Wait wisely. Pray deeply. Discern carefully.

© The Olayemis

MEN, MARRY A WOMAN WHO CAN APOLOGISE.Never you marry a woman who finds it very difficult to say sorry.Listen dear men, P...
10/03/2026

MEN, MARRY A WOMAN WHO CAN APOLOGISE.

Never you marry a woman who finds it very difficult to say sorry.

Listen dear men, Pride destroys homes, but humility builds them.

A woman who cannot admit wrong or say “I’m sorry” is a ticking time bomb in marriage. Look for a lady who takes responsibility for her actions, listens to feedback, and makes effort to change.

She won’t see your correction as an attack but as a tool for growth. Marry someone who values peace over ego, who knows reconciliation is more important than always being right.

Her heart will become a healing ground, not a battlefield. So please while searching for a wife, make sure she is someone who does not find it difficult to apologise.

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FOOD FOR THOUGHTTHE WEIGHT OF BEING A WOMAN Lately, I have been deeply occupied with taking care of my children. In the ...
12/02/2026

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

THE WEIGHT OF BEING A WOMAN

Lately, I have been deeply occupied with taking care of my children. In the simplicity of everyday motherhood, I encountered a powerful lesson.

Whenever I am with my baby girl, my baby boy, Adura, immediately comes close. The moment I attempt to carry the baby, he climbs onto my lap as well. I noticed that subtle spark of jealousy in him. It was amusing😅. I laughed and thought to myself, a boy child can be this jealous?

Yet beyond the laughter was a revelation.
What I was witnessing was not rivalry, but bonding, attachment, and emotional formation. And in that moment, I understood again that the home is the first nation, and the woman is its builder.

Women are home builders by divine design.
We nurture emotions, stabilize relationships, and create safe spaces where identities are formed. We are the support system to our husbands, caregivers to our children, and the unseen managers of life’s daily rhythms.

Family is demanding. It requires time, intentional presence, sacrifice, and sometimes the postponement of personal ambitions. There were seasons I desired to pursue studies and opportunities outside my country. The doors were there, but family responsibility narrowed my options. Not because capacity was absent, but because stewardship was required.

This is why I say to single women: build capacity early.
Learn. Grow. Acquire skills. Read widely. Pray deeply. Develop yourself intentionally. Family life is beautiful, but it will demand your time, focus, and energy. Capacity built before marriage sustains purpose within marriage.

Below is the meaning of WOMEN:

W — Womb of possibility: carrying life, vision, and future.
O — Order keepers: bringing structure and stability to homes.
M — Multipliers: expanding whatever is entrusted to us.
E — Economists: managing resources wisely and sustainably.
N — Nurturers of nations: shaping character before the world does.

I have learned this: a woman may pause her personal pursuits for a season, but she never stops building. Quietly, faithfully, intentionally, she builds nations, beginning from her home.

© Dr. Mrs. Benita Joshua

FOOD FOR THOUGHT Alignment vs Attraction, Knowing the DifferenceAttraction is powerful, but it is not prophetic.It can ...
16/01/2026

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

Alignment vs Attraction,
Knowing the Difference

Attraction is powerful, but it is not prophetic.
It can draw you in quickly, make you feel alive, and convince you that something must be right simply because it feels good. But attraction speaks to the eyes and emotions, while alignment speaks to purpose and destiny.

Alignment is deeper than chemistry. It is the quiet agreement of values, faith, vision, and direction. Two people may be attracted to each other yet be walking in opposite spiritual directions. Attraction asks, “How do you make me feel?”
Alignment asks, “Where are we going, and can we get there together?”

Attraction can exist without God; alignment cannot.
You can be attracted to someone who weakens your prayer life, confuses your convictions, and pressures your boundaries. But alignment strengthens your walk with God, sharpens your obedience, and brings peace rather than anxiety.

Attraction is often loud and urgent. Alignment is calm and confirming.
Attraction rushes decisions; alignment is patient. Attraction focuses on the present pleasure; alignment considers the future responsibility.

Here is a truth many learn too late:
What you are attracted to can excite you, but only what you are aligned with can sustain you.

Before committing your heart, ask yourself:

Do we share the same spiritual values or just the same feelings?

Does this relationship push me toward God or pull me away from Him?

Are we aligned in purpose, or am I hoping love will fix the differences?

Attraction may open the door, but alignment determines whether the relationship will last.
Choose alignment over attraction, because destiny is too expensive to risk on feelings alone.

© The Olayemis

Food for Thought11 Attributes Men Should Not Ignore When Choosing a WifeMarriage does not repair character; it reveals i...
14/01/2026

Food for Thought

11 Attributes Men Should Not Ignore When Choosing a Wife

Marriage does not repair character; it reveals it. A man must choose wisely, not emotionally. Who you marry will either build your destiny or battle it. Love is important, but character is essential.
Below are 11 attributes a man should not overlook in a relationship

1. A Woman Without the Fear of God
When a woman lacks reverence for God, values become negotiable. The fear of God is the foundation of loyalty, humility, and wisdom in marriage.

2. Disrespectful and Dishonouring
A woman who constantly belittles, insults, or talks down on you will eventually drain your confidence. Respect is not optional; it is oxygen to a man.

3. Emotionally Unstable or Manipulative
Mood swings used as weapons, emotional blackmail, and constant drama will turn marriage into a battlefield rather than a home.

4. Unfaithful or Attention-Seeking
A woman who thrives on male attention, flirts excessively, or lacks boundaries will struggle with faithfulness. Marriage requires loyalty, not competition.

5. Lacks Compassion and Empathy
A woman who is cold, uncaring, or indifferent during your difficult seasons will leave you emotionally alone. Marriage demands partnership, not selfishness.

6. Lazy or Allergic to Responsibility
Marriage requires effort from both sides. A woman who avoids responsibility, growth, or contribution will turn partnership into pressure.

7. Financially Reckless
A woman who spends impulsively, lives above her means, or lacks financial discipline can destabilize a home, regardless of how much love exists.

8. Gossiping and Loose with Words
A woman who cannot guard her tongue will expose your weaknesses, secrets, and family matters. A wise wife protects her home with her words.

9. Controlling or Overbearing
Control masked as care will eventually suffocate leadership. Marriage thrives on mutual respect, not dominance.

10. Refuses Growth or Correction
A woman who cannot be corrected, advised, or taught will stagnate the marriage. Humility keeps love alive.

11. Visionless and Purpose-less
A woman without vision will struggle to support yours. Purpose aligns partnership and gives direction to the home.

© The Olayemis

FOOD FOR THOUGHT 11 Attributes Young Ladies Should Not Marry or Ignore in a RelationshipMarriage is not sustained by lov...
13/01/2026

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

11 Attributes Young Ladies Should Not Marry or Ignore in a Relationship

Marriage is not sustained by love alone but by character, compassion, and responsibility. What you overlook in courtship often becomes your daily reality in marriage. Wisdom is knowing not just who to love, but who not to marry.

1. A Man Without the Fear of God
When a man does not fear God, he lacks moral restraint and spiritual direction. A man who does not honor God will eventually dishonor you.

2. A Man Who Is Not Caring, Especially During Pregnancy and Childbirth
A man who shows little concern for your health, pain, emotions, or well-being during vulnerable seasons is not ready for marriage. Pregnancy and childbirth reveal true character. If he is emotionally absent or careless, then you will suffer alone when support matters most. Marriage should not make motherhood lonely.

3. A Chronic Liar
Lies destroy trust. A man who lies easily will manipulate truth and emotions. Marriage cannot thrive where honesty is missing.

4. Violent or Abusive Tendencies
Abuse often starts with words, control, and intimidation before it becomes physical. Anger left unchecked becomes torment in marriage.

5. Irresponsible and Financially Reckless
Love without responsibility breeds hardship. A man who avoids accountability will transfer the burden to his wife.

6. Addicted to Po*******hy, Drugs, or Alcohol
Addiction enslaves the mind and destroys intimacy. A man bound by addiction cannot fully lead, love, or protect.

7. Disrespectful to Women, Especially His Mother
How a man treats his mother and other women reveals how he will treat his wife. Disrespect is a warning sign, not a joke.

8. Emotionally Immature
A man who avoids communication, correction, or growth lacks the emotional capacity required for marriage.

9. Manipulative or Controlling
Control disguised as love will eventually suffocate you. Love gives freedom; manipulation steals identity.

10. Unfaithful or Excessively Flirtatious
Faithfulness is not seasonal. What he cannot control before marriage will not change after marriage.

11. Visionless and Purposeless
A man without vision will drain a woman with vision. Purpose gives direction, stability, and growth in marriage.

Marry well!
© The Olayemis

09/01/2026

I prophesy to you: this is your year of blessings and supernatural takeover.
Every delay is turning into speed, every closed door is opening, and every limitation is breaking.
You will not struggle this year—you will walk in favor, increase, and divine takeover.
Receive it in Jesus’ name. Amen. 🔥🙏

Happy New Year family! This is your year of unlimited and unstoppable breakthroughs.
01/01/2026

Happy New Year family! This is your year of unlimited and unstoppable breakthroughs.

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