Womenin4counselling

27/11/2025

He warned her, don't do that o, guess she thought she's the baddie 🤣🤣🤣

25/11/2025

24/11/2025

I once sat across from a woman who whispered something most women are afraid to admit:

“Coach… I want to submit, but I don’t feel safe with him.”

She wasn’t rebellious.
She wasn’t stubborn.
She wasn’t trying to “be the man.”

She was simply tired.

Tired of carrying a relationship on her back.
Tired of being led by someone who had no direction.
Tired of being called “disrespectful” for asking for the bare minimum, consistency, effort, accountability.

So I asked her a question that changed everything:

“Has he earned the position he’s demanding?”

She went quiet.

Because submission is not magic.
It doesn’t appear just because a man says “I’m the head.”
Leadership isn’t a title, it’s a responsibility.

A woman naturally submits to a man who leads with integrity, not authority.
A man who listens, not controls.
A man who protects, not manipulates.
A man who provides stability, not excuses.

The truth is simple but uncomfortable:

Some men don’t deserve submissive women, because they haven’t earned leadership.

And no woman should feel guilty for refusing to shrink herself just to make a man look bigger.

A real leader doesn’t demand submission.
He inspires it.

Yes submission is the duty of a woman but you've to show leadership as a man.

17/11/2025

Seeking clarity in matters of the heart? You’re not alone.
I’m CoachChidimma, a Mental Health Psychologist & Family Life Therapist, passionate about guiding individuals, couples, and families toward healing, understanding, and emotional wellness.

Whether you’re navigating relationship struggles, emotional confusion, or just need a safe space to breathe — I’m here to walk the journey with you. 💬🧠❤️

Let’s work together to create a healthier you and stronger connections.

📍Marriage Counselor | 💼 Mental Well-being Coach | 🧘🏽‍♀️ Emotional Clarity Advocate

14/11/2025

12/11/2025

What sort of society are we living in? 😱

This page doesn't support violence, it's for educative purposes only

07/11/2025

It always starts beautifully.
He calls every morning.
He says you’re “the one.”
He moves fast, so fast that you mistake urgency for connection.

But then, slowly, you start to notice
his compliments come with control.
His love feels conditional.
His warmth turns cold when you ask for space.

In therapy, I often tell women:
love bombing isn’t passion, it’s pressure.
It’s an attempt to make you emotionally dependent before trust can truly form.

Real love doesn’t need to rush.
It respects your pace, your boundaries, and your peace. 💛

📩 Book a session if you’re ready to unlearn unhealthy attachment and build relationships rooted in safety, not intensity.

03/11/2025

It’s not love alone that keeps a marriage strong, it’s emotional intelligence.

Emotionally intelligent couples don’t avoid conflict, they handle it with calm, empathy, and accountability.

The goal isn’t perfection, it’s awareness and growth.

Save this post to practice emotional awareness this week, your relationship will thank you later. 💌

Which one do you want to start working on first?