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12/01/2021

Worship mood

12/01/2021

Music is life 😀

03/01/2019

2018 seriously UNDER REVIEW!!

Going down Memory Lane. The yr 2018 has come & gone. And no doubt was a vry daunting one for us as a Nation since d return of democracy.
The yr witnessed a lots of unnecessary preventable blood letting! & dis killings has continued unabated.
Our Economy keeps dwindling & unemployment has skyrocketed.

- Foreign Airlines are either closing up deir Nigrn Roots or reducing deir Flight Shuttles.
- Banks are either laying off their permanent Staffs or Replacing dem wit Contracts Staffs to cut down on wage Bill.
- Poor economic Statistics stirring us on d face, Yet Apc led federal Govermt. Is directly insulting d Sensibilities & intelligent of Nigeria's.
...It's sad!!! dat things has degenerated 2 dis level. Imaging Police laying siege & ambush on innocent Citizens & more so on opposition camp Senators. Honestly Speaking & Without any reservation, dis is a Show of Shame on d paths of Nigeria police force.

Over d past few months, d Nigeria Military has continued 2 lose his officers & Men to d cold hands of d Bokoharam insurgents & bandits which d PMB govmt. Claims 2 hav decimated.
The events in the last couple of days are vry worrisome & called for concerns & deep soul Searching by every meaningful Nigerian.!
While d Service Chiefs were all busy attending Political rally in Abuja, to showcase deir so called achievement, Officers & Men of d 157- Taskforce battalion in Methalebo Boronu State were overran & rounded up by Bokoharam, leaving over 50 Officers & Men almost d entire Battalion killed including its Commander, A lieutenant cornel.!!!

Military hardwares were scattered away in dis similar attack. These same battalion, suffered a similar faith last month & yet it did not make any Front-page headlines in d media why d Prsdnt Muhammadu Buhari (PMB) govmt. & Military Stayed Silent Wit no official Statement. Instead, dey were all carried on like nothing happened with deir political Campaigns in full Swings. And d government even promising 2 take us to d next level. Hummm, which level i ask?, dis is indeed a vry perthetic debts which we hav song as a Nationa.

But.. b/4 I close, i want to ask this vry important questions to Mr. Prsdt Buhari.

1- Where is d formal SSG Babashalawan?
2- where is Mina?
3- where is d formal DSS Boss.?
4- where is d formal Finance Minister Kemi Adiosun?
5- what happened to Ikoyi gate? ...
Since PMb Slogan is on Anty-Corruption . These Questions must b Answered before 2019. General Election. My Voters Card is stil with me bcoz, My Vote is my Power.!

24/02/2018

It is very inspiring.

28/01/2017

28/01/2017

HOW TO BE IN
CHARGE OF YOUR
OWN HUSBAND -
OPINION
Too many married women today are tired of
the conduct and behaviours of their husbands.
They’ve tried all they can to keep him faithful,
loyal and honest but keep failing. Many have
tried ‘love’, threat, blackmail, embarrassment,
harassment, nagging and even reporting him to
relevant authorities, yet he’s refused to
change.
Many have tried prayer and fasting and are
tired, the guy appears to be getting worse. At
the end, many wives have given up and come
to the conclusion all men are like that; you
can’t ‘tame’ or make them behave well, so
they let them be and just focus on themselves
and the children.
Dear sister, your marriage is between you and
your husband not you and the children. You
have every right to enjoy your husband and to
enjoy your marriage. You’re supposed to be in
it forever so you might as well not give up and
do the needful to find your happiness, fulfilment
and peace in your own husband.
There are two fundamental truths many women
do not know or have refused to accept about
men. In as much as they keep rejecting these
facts, they’ll keep struggling with their
husbands. These facts are as follows:
1. Men are emotionally weaker than women.
Men are physically stronger, but
emotionally weaker than women. A man
can marry and put four women in the same
house; sleeping with them and all having
babies for him. The women have the
emotional stamina to handle it, some even
love and care for their step children. But
I’ve not seen that man who can
emotionally share his wife with another
man; all living in the same house and the
woman birthing babies for all the men! I
don’t suppose any man has the emotional
capacity to handle that; I don’t think your
husband can, he will kill somebody
(laughs). Men are emotionally weaker than
women.
2. Men tend to marry whom they really want
and like. Most men choose, they are not
compelled, their bride is their choice. Hence,
they are more genuine and truthful when
they claim

14/12/2016

FALLING IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE YOU CAN'T HAVE

In a perfect world we would only ever fall in
love with a person who would reciprocate.
Unfortunately, we do not live in a perfect world
and for this reason we often tend to fall in love
with people who are unavailable to us, either
emotionally or for some other reason. There
are a million reasons why a person might not
be available to us and no matter what the
reason is the outcome is usually the same,
walking away with a broken heart. But, is there
a way to deal with something like this and
make it a bit easier on yourself? Some people
believe there is and others just believe that you
must go through your heartaches and see
them through to the end. However, there are
some ways that you can avoid situations in
which you may fall in love with a person you
cannot have.
LEAN TO REMOVE YOURSELF FROM SITUATIONS FAST.

This is one very effective way to avoid having
your feelings hurt. You can usually tell when
you are becoming attracted to someone right
away. If the object of your affection happens to
be married or attached to your best friend then
the best thing for you to do is to avoid this
person like the plague until you have overcome
whatever desires you may be feeling. This is
not an easy thing to do because human nature
tells us to go after what we want regardless of
the price we will have to pay. However, this is
also what separates us from other animals.
We, unlike wild animals can determine the
difference between right and wrong and if
something feels wrong then we must use our
morals and values to remove ourselves from
the situation no matter how painful it may be
at first. Keep in mind that the deeper you get
into a situation the harder it will be to walk
away from. For this reason you should run at
the first sign of trouble, so to speak.

DO NOT REVEAL YOUR FEELINGS.

If you know that a person is not available
because he or she is either married or in a
relationship with another person, it will not be
a good idea to open up a can of worms by
revealing your feelings. Why complicate
matters further? Yes there is a good possibility
that the person you have your eye on will
return your feelings but do you really want to
be the person who breaks up a relationship?
Chances are if you take some time to consider
this question you will take the high road. It is
very messy getting involved with someone who
is already involved with another person. Not
only will this cause another person to feel
heartache but you must always remember that
the way you obtained your significant other
could be the same way that you lose him or
her. This means that if you got your lover by
stealing him/her from another person then you
may as well count on him/her leaving you one
day for another person because people usually
repeat the same patterns. Is this something
that you want to live with? By keeping your
feelings to yourself you will be able to avoid
temptation and walk away with more ease.
You Cannot Make a Person Return Your
Feelings
People love who they love and you cannot
make a person feel something that he/she is
not feeling. Either a person wants to be with
you or he/she does not. There is usually no
middle ground where love is concerned. If you
have set your sights on a person who has
made it clear to you that he/she does not
share your feelings then you should walk away
from that situation right away and move onto
something that is meant for you. Everyone has
someone out there for them and the key is in
knowing the difference between shared love
and one sided love. There are no tactics and
tricks when it comes to matters of the heart.
No matter how much you may read on the
subject from advice columns and internet sites,
you can forget about it. If a person does not
want you then move on to the next person and
cut your losses before you find yourself living
an emotional nightmare.

GEOGRAPHICAL CURES.

In some cases you may be in so much turmoil
over a person that you might need to consider
drastic measures such as picking up and
leaving the entire area in order to put distance
between you and the one you love. A
geographical cure does not work well for things
like drug addiction or other psychological
problems but when it comes to removing
yourself from the presence of a person who you
are in love with but cannot have, this is an
excellent solution. Even if your move is just
temporary, distance and time have been known
to work wonders together in healing a broken
heart. Chances are when you get to your
destination it won't be long before someone
else comes along to help you forget the person
you have been pining over.
The truth of the matter is falling in love with
someone you cannot have is going to be hard
on you no matter what you do to try and
remedy the situation. However, the most
important thing to remember is that feelings do
fade with time and if you can remain strong
and exercise a little bit of will power then you
will get through the experience. In fact, you can
consider situations like this as learning
experiences. Some say there is no pain like
that of a broken heart and most of us know
this to be true. Fortunately, this is also the
type of pain that can heal with minimal scars if
we just focus on ourselves and doing what is
best for us. Not to worry because what
typically happens is that the moment you stop
looking for your soul mate is the moment he or
she flies into your life.

BY COLLEEN CRAWFORD