25/10/2019
*Cheating while married, is relative*,
*It could be Pre caused or post caused*
*While courting they are something things worth trashing out than overlooking them all in the name of being peaceful, or avoidance of being a nagging partner, nevertheless, Some guys goes into marriage with someone they are not emotionally attracted to*,
*Note, Compatibility in some certain areas is damn Paramount*,
*I made mention of being married to someone you are not emotionally attracted to, yes, Some guys get married because of the girls profession, she being a Nurse , Dr ,Lawyer , Celebrity , model,while some goes for the girl because of her family social/financial status , and others, because she is fair, tall, slim ,the way she walks, ETC*,
*and same is applicable to the girls, over reasons they chose their spouse,
Meanwhile, the question is , what affair is marriage, secular, competitive, stage managed or emotional affair,? Well , I will leave you to answer that.
When sustainable compatibility and of course emotional entanglement isn't sincerely found among spouse, cheating is inevitable.
Secondly, some men/ women are asexually and spiritually possessed that they don't have any atom of control to their Doggy Libido , here prays comes in,
my dear,
Getting married is a big work load that has a great synergy with self discovery.
Discover who you want to be , then trace it down to your type of woman or man.
"Ones Professions , height, tribe, skin color ,slim, plump, family status and family surname isn't a Need while and when preparing to settle down.
*Cheating is relative,
let's plan right and save that which we can, Gods Grace.
*NEBO SAMUEL EBUBE*