12/07/2024
Do you want your girl child to be thrown back home to you because of your jealousy?
Some women in Polygyny marriage are so gullible minded that they are the ones that destroys their life and the future of their child. Why and how?
You make your girl child the surveyor in the house. Anytime you are going out, you will tell her to watch your co wife and she must report whatever goes on in your absence. Immediately you get home, you start the questioning.
What did ummu lagbaja do today?
Who came to visit her?
What did they discuss?
What did she cook?
What did she say to you?
When did your father come home?
Did he enter her room?
Did he stay long?
Etc
And the innocent soul will begin to reveal what she saw which you will be happy about. It will get to a stage if what you want to hear is not forthcoming. Because you yourself knew what you wanted to hear. Then you start to beat and abuse the child to do more.
At this junction, if your child hears nothing and sees nothing, she will then begin to form stories by herself in order to give you a story when you come home out of fear of being beaten by you. She then becomes a *prof* She will outsmart you. She will become more than what you bargain for and the destruction wil take another level and degree.
Before you know it, problems have started arising in the home and most especially in your life. This child has been well trained by you about how dubious, cunning and tricky one can be. She has been trained on how to manipulate situations so has to suit one's interest.
Both of you will then become the problem in the house. And when she finally gets married, she will act according to how she has been trained. And do you think that kind of life will be acceptable by the husband and his family? What will then happen at the end ? She will be returned to you.
But, don't be so fooled again by saying orogun iya re lo n se o( is your cowife evil doing.) 😁 O tan ara re. In fact it won't even happen because your girl will narrate to you how she gets to that stage of throwing her out.
What next? YOU WILL BECOME HER GREAT ENEMY. WHY? BECAUSE SHE WILL REALISE WHAT SHE HAS BEEN INTO FOR THE PAST YEARS WHEN SHE BECOMES THE VICTIM.
THINK TWICE. LIFE IS NOT FOREVER.
DON'T DESTROY YOURSELF BECAUSE OF YOUR GENDER.
NOBODY'S LIFE IS WORTH LOSING MINE.LAYE.
Bint Ajao
