Married and Useful

05/11/2025

💬 The Problem is the Problem

🧩 The husband is not the problem.
🌸 The wife is not the problem.
⚡️ The problem itself is the problem.

Instead of asking,
❌ “Who is to blame?”
Let’s ask:
🙏 “What is really wrong?”
🔍 “Where is this coming from?”
🤝 “How can we solve this together?”
❤️ “Where did we get it wrong?”
🌱 “What led to this?”

Because healthy couples look for solutions, not scapegoats. 💑✨

📖 “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” — Proverbs 15:1 💬
📖 “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor.” — Ecclesiastes 4:9 🤍
📖 “If one falls down, his friend can help him up.” — Ecclesiastes 4:10 🫶
📖 “Let all that you do be done in love.” — 1 Corinthians 16:14 ❤️

Remain married and useful 👌 ☺️ 😉 🙂

22/10/2025

🌙 J*ust Before You Sleep…*
*Think about this* 💭:

❤️ *Love isn’t enough*
💡 *Mutual respect keeps the desire, joy, and fun alive in marriage* 💃🏽🕺🏽💑.

💍 *Building Marriage on Mutual Respect* 💞

1. 🤝 *Respect is a Two-Way Street*
👫 Husband and wife should value and honor each other equally — in words 🗣️, actions 🛠️, and everyday decisions 🧠.

2. 📖 *Guided by Scripture* ✝️
“However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.”
— Ephesians chapter 5, verse 33 📖🙏

3. 🗣️ *Show It in How You Speak* 💬
💖 Use kind words, truly listen 👂, and avoid insults 🚫 or harsh criticism 😠.

4. ❤️ *Respect Builds Trust* 🤗
When both partners feel respected 🤝, love deepens 💓 and emotional intimacy thrives 🔥💏.

5. 🙏 *Reflect God’s Design* 🌈
A marriage rooted in mutual respect 🌱 mirrors God's plan for unity 🤍, peace 🕊️, and lasting joy 🎉.
*Good night lovelies* 😘
Have a peaceful night rest 😴

💌 *Remain married and useful.*
💐 *Stay blessed and deeply connected.*

19/10/2025

🎉✨ *Married and Useful @ 10*
*A Decade of God's Faithfulness!* ✨🎉

*Hallelujah!* 🙌🔥
Today, *Married and Useful clocks 10 amazing years* a full decade of divine help, purpose, and unshakable faithfulness! 💃🏽🕺🏽💥

What started as a vision has become a vibrant family — strengthening homes, building marriages, and restoring lives all to the glory of God! 🙏💖

“The Lord has done great things for us, and we are filled with joy.”
Psalm 126:3 📖✨

We had plans for a beautiful get-together celebration 🥂🎊, but just when we were ready to rejoice — the enemy struck 🛑🔥.

Yet, we say boldly:
We are still standing! 💪🏽🕊️
Still here. Still useful. Still married. Still favoured.
Because God is our help, our keeper, our defender! 🛡️👑

💐 A Heartfelt Thank You 💐

To our incredible:

*Administrators* 🧑🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻

*Supporters* 💞

*Prayer partners* 🙏🏽🕯️

*Pastors* 👨🏽‍🦳👩🏽‍🦳

*Families* 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

You have stood with us through the years.
You prayed when we were weary, supported when things were tough, and believed in the vision through every season. 🌿⏳

We say:
THANK YOU! 🌟❤️
God bless you richly and reward your labour of love! 🙌🏽🌈

“God is not unjust; He will not forget your work and the love you have shown Him as you have helped His people and continue to help them.” Hebrews 6:10 📖✨

🔥 Looking Ahead 🔥

This is just the beginning!
The next 10 years will be greater, deeper, and more impactful. 🎯🚀
The fire still burns. The vision is alive.
We move forward with fresh oil and new grace. 🕊️🪔

“Being confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”Philippians 1:6 📖💫

🥳 Let’s Celebrate! 🎊

Though our physical gathering was paused, our praise is louder than ever! 🎶🙌🏽
Let every home touched by this vision lift a voice of thanksgiving today. 🎤🙏🏽

Let the heavens know: EBENEZER! 💥 Thus far the Lord has helped us!
To Him alone be all the glory — yesterday, today, and forever! 👑

🎉💍 Happy 10th Anniversary to Married and Useful! 💍🎉
We are still standing. Stronger. Grateful. Useful. Blessed.




🙏🏽

12/10/2025

Mrs. Yinka Adekunle travelled to Lokoja on official duty. She was supposed to spend 5 days there, but as fate would have it, the programme wrapped up in just 3️⃣ days. Due to phone issues 📵, she couldn’t reach her husband to inform him, so she decided to return home — unannounced. 😏

As she stepped into the house 🏡, her children ran to her excitedly, chatting away. Then one of them innocently said,
"Mummy, Daddy has a visitor... Aunty has been staying here since you left!" 😳

Her heart skipped a beat.
"Visitor?? Aunty?? Staying here??" 😤

Trying to stay calm, she asked where the woman was.
"In the visitor’s room," they said.

She tiptoed quietly and peeped 👀...

Lo and behold! The lady was there, cool and relaxed, even tying Mrs. Adekunle’s own wrapper 😮‍💨

Her anger started boiling 💢... but she held it in. Instead of reacting, she calmly walked to the kitchen 👩🏽‍🍳 and set her very large kettle on the fire 🔥.

As the water was heating up, guess who drove in?
Mr. Adekunle himself 🚗💨

He strolled straight to the visitor’s room like a movie scene and called out loudly:
“My love, I’m home!” ❤️

Mrs. Adekunle heard that and said to herself:
“Today... I must show this man pepper!” 🌶️🌶️🌶️

She picked up the boiling water — very hot water o! 🥵

And used it to make eba 😄

Yes o! She made eba for three:

One for herself 🍽️

One for her darling husband 🥰

And one for her sweet mother-in-law who had also come visiting 😂

You sef, don’t dull — your plate is ready too! 😋
Come and join the party! 🏃🏽‍♂️🏃🏽‍♀️💃🏽🕺🏽

*Happy Sunday, lovelies* 💖
*May your week be filled with peace, laughter, and hot eba (not hot drama)!* 😄🙏🏽
*No visitor will collect your wrapper this week, in Jesus’ Name*🙌🏽🔥

*Remain married and useful.* 👌🏽😉

29/09/2025

Love isn't enough

> 💍✨ Love alone won’t run a marriage — it’s just the fuel! ❤️⛽️
The car still needs wheels of commitment 🚗, an engine of communication 🗣️, headlights of trust 🔦, and a dashboard of respect 💛.
Add forgiveness 🤗 as your shock absorber and shared goals 🗺️ as your GPS.
Only then will your marriage cruise smoothly — not just run on fumes of love! 💕😂🚀

“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor.” — Ecclesiastes 4:9 (KJV) 📖🙏💒

27/07/2025

🌄 Monday Morning Prayers 🙏
My Prayers for You Today:

Good morning, beloved.
As you step into this new week, may the light of God's presence go before you.
May your heart be filled with peace, your hands with productivity, and your path with favor.

📖 “The Lord will open the heavens, the storehouse of his bounty, to bless all the work of your hands.” – Deuteronomy 28:12

Today, I pray for:

🌟 Clarity in decisions
🌟 Grace for every task
🌟 Open doors of opportunity
🌟 Protection from harm and error
🌟 Peace in your heart and home
🌟 Joy that strengthens your soul

You will not labor in vain. You will not cry in pain. You will walk in victory and return with testimonies.
Have a blessed Monday and a fruitful week ahead! 💼💐✨

22/07/2025

22/07/2025

🌼 *My Prayers for You This Tuesday*🌼

*Good morning, lovelies* 😘
*As you step into this Tuesday, my heart prays for you:*

🙏 May the Lord go before you and make every crooked path straight.
🙏 May peace surround your heart and joy overflow in your home.
🙏 May your hands find profitable work and your efforts be crowned with success.
🙏 May divine favor locate you, and no evil shall come near your dwelling.
🙏 May your marriage, your children, and your dreams flourish in Jesus’ name.

📖 Bible Verse:
"This is the day the Lord has made; we will rejoice and be glad in it." – Psalm 118:24

*Have a fruitful, peaceful, and blessed Tuesday.*
💐 *Stay joyful, stay hopeful, stay married and useful.* 💕

04/07/2025

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💕 Rainy Day Romance Styles – Just You & Bae 💑

1. Snuggle & Stare (Face-to-Face Love) 👩‍❤️‍👨✨
Lock eyes 👀, hold hands 🤝, and enjoy slow, meaningful movement. Say sweet things like, “You’re my forever cuddle buddy” 💬💓. Romance starts with connection, not speed!

2. The Warm Spoon 🍲 (Side-by-Side Snuggles) 🛌❤️
You’re the big spoon 🥄, they’re the little one — all cuddled up under the covers 😍. Perfect for lazy rainy mornings ☕💤… with no rush, just hush.

3. Lap of Love 🪑🔥
Sit and straddle, face-to-face 💃🕺. Wrap your arms around each other and sway slowly — it's like a private love dance with no music needed 🎵💘.

4. Touch Me Softly (Foreplay Focus) 💆‍♀️💋
Explore each other without pressure… slow kisses 😘, back rubs 👋, forehead kisses 🥰, and giggles in between 🫣. Rain outside, fire inside 🔥.

5. Window Waltz 💃🌧️ (Standing Romance)
Stand up, hold each other tight 🤗, and sway by the window like it’s your wedding night again 💍. Raindrops + romance = magic ✨.

💬 *Couple Goals Checklist* 💑✅

Flirt often 😜

Laugh a lot 😂

Pray together 🙏

Touch with love 🤲

Cuddle without words 🤱

Say “I love you” like you mean it 💌

💕 *Love isn’t always wild… sometimes, it’s quiet, slow, and soaking in the moment together.* ☔💞

01/07/2025

🎉 *Happy New Month, July 2025!* 🌺

*Welcome to the second half of the year!* 🌞
May this new month bring a fresh wave of joy 💃🏽, peace 🕊️, and growth 🌱 into our homes and marriages.
Everything we couldn’t achieve in the first half, grace will make possible in this second half 🙏🔥.
Let love continue to dwell richly in our hearts 💕 and may unity remain our strength 🤝💪.
We speak new beginnings, divine favour, and unshakable testimonies into this month! 🗣️🌈

Remain Married and Useful! 👑💑