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01/02/2026

Some people hide behind “I’m healing” to excuse bad behaviour.

They use it to justify ignoring your feelings, hurting you, or acting selfishly.

They say they are growing, learning, or processing the past, but in reality, they are avoiding responsibility in the present.

Healing is not permission to mistreat someone. Real growth shows in how you treat people while you work on yourself.

If someone constantly uses “I’m healing” as a shield, it is not growth, it is an excuse.

Pay attention to actions, not words.

Someone who truly values you will work through their healing without hurting you along the way.

If they cannot do that, they are not ready for a real relationship.

01/02/2026

Not everyone deserves access to your growth.
Some people only loved you when you were easier to control.

01/02/2026

Just because someone loves you doesn’t mean they are the right person for you.

Love is powerful, but it is only a feeling, one that can surge intensely in the moment and then fade when life grows difficult.

It has a way of blinding us, causing us to ignore warning signs and convince ourselves that passion alone can sustain a future together.

History is full of relationships that began with overwhelming love, only to dissolve years later into bitterness, constant conflict, or quiet regret.

What truly holds a relationship together over decades is not the intensity of emotion but the strength of character.

You need a partner who possesses integrity, self-control, and a moral compass, someone who respects you even in moments of anger, who isn’t driven by greed, and who honors commitments when the initial excitement has worn off.

01/02/2026

A man who survives failure carries quiet confidence. He no longer trembles at laughter, because he knows tomorrow can still answer today. Mockery expires, experience remains.

So let people laugh. Let them talk.
The ground you fell on is the same ground you will rise from.

Raise children who know this truth early.
Falling is human.
Staying down is optional.

01/02/2026

A woman can be a terrible wife and a good mother. A lot of women fall in this category. A good wife is usually a good mother. You are first a wife, before being a mother. Humans are multidimensional in personality.

29/01/2026

Genuine loyalty is a deep sign of strong character.

Anyone can stay when things are easy. Anyone can smile when bills are paid and life is soft. That is not loyalty. That is comfort.

Real loyalty shows up when there is pressure. When there is temptation. When leaving would be easier than staying.

A loyal person does not move based on what they can gain. They move based on who they are. Their values do not change with weather or money.

That kind of loyalty is rare. It is built from discipline, self respect, and a clear sense of right and wrong.

This is why loyalty is not something you beg for. It is something you screen for. You either have it, or you do not.

Money can test loyalty. Power can test loyalty. Options can test loyalty. Character decides the outcome.

If someone is loyal only when it is convenient, they were never loyal.

29/01/2026

You should be concerned about the loyalty of a woman that’s yet to experience financial breakthrough.

Not because she is evil. Not because women are bad. But because poverty changes behavior.

When someone has never tasted ease, never had steady money, never felt safe, survival becomes louder than love. Bills shout. Pressure speaks. Fear drives choices.

A woman who has never had financial peace may not be loyal to you. She may be loyal to escape. Loyal to comfort. Loyal to whoever looks like the fastest way out.

That is how many relationships break. Not from lack of love, but from lack of options.

Today she loves you. Tomorrow someone shows up with money, stability, and answers to problems she has been praying about. Now loyalty is tested.

This is why money matters in love. Not because it buys affection, but because it reduces desperation. Financial peace calms the mind. It allows people to choose with clarity, not panic.

This does not mean rich women do not cheat. They do. This also does not mean broke women cannot be loyal. Many are solid. But pressure bends people. Hunger shifts values. Survival rewires priorities.

Love grows best when both people are not fighting to breathe.

If you want loyalty, do not ignore context. Do not build romance in chaos and expect peace to survive it.

Love is sweet. Stability keeps it standing.

29/01/2026

Starting your life in Nigeria today with a man earning 500k monthly can actually be a smarter, more strategic choice than going for someone earning 1.5 million at 38. Here’s why:

1. Growth Together: At 26 and 28, you’re both in the early stages of building your careers and wealth. Starting together means you can grow as a unit, set financial priorities, and build a solid foundation. With discipline and vision, that 500k can compound over time, often faster than relying on someone else’s existing wealth.

2. Energy & Compatibility: A closer age and life stage means aligned energy, ambitions, and intellectual compatibility. You’ll be making decisions, facing challenges, and learning together, this shared journey strengthens relationships far more than money alone ever can.

3. Learning & Mistakes: Being with someone younger allows you to make your own mistakes, recover, and learn without the pressure of living in someone else’s past experiences or expectations. You become an architect of your shared future rather than a passenger in someone else’s established life.

Truthfully: Wealth can impress, but shared growth, aligned energy, and mutual learning create a life of sustainable happiness and achievement. With the right mindset, that 500k today could lead to far more than 1.5 million tomorrow.

My two kobo.

25/01/2026

Let me guess

You date to marry
You don’t do casual
Your body count is 2
Your ex was toxic

🤣🤣🤣Same script different person

25/01/2026

Young men looking for a wife to marry, let me teach you how to do a bit of filtering from a woman’s perspective;

1. She bills you first or second week of talking, BLOCK

2. She has no job or business, BLOCK

3. You ask her on a date and she wants you to buy her a dress or pay for her hair, BLOCK

4. You ask her, “so where do you see yourself in the next 1yr” and she replies with “I don’t know o,” BLOCK

5. Her money is her money, your money is our money, BLOCK

6. Always buying new expensive things without a clear source of income, BLOCK

7. You buy her a gift on her birthday but you didn’t get a gift on yours? BLOCK

8. Always asking you for money, BLOCK

9. Only you do the calling, she doesn’t call you, BLOCK

10. She doesn’t want kids, BLOCK.

Never let money take the front seat in your approach to her.

If money can buy her affection, someone richer will take her away from you.

Be generous, not a simp.

A woman liking you is one of the easiest things to tell.

A woman ready for marriage is the second easiest thing to tell.

24/01/2026

One day someone will tell your kids “you’re just like your father” it’s up to you to make sure that’s not an insult.

24/01/2026

Fixing a dying relationship in 3 steps:

Stop pretending everything is fine. relationship dies faster when both people lie to themselves. Say the hard truth. Admit what is broken. Silence and avoidance will finish what love started.

Fix yourself first. Stop pointing fingers. Look at your own behavior. Change what you can control. A calm, honest partner can reset the whole relationship.

Act, don’t promise. Sweet words don’t save relationships. Daily actions do. Respect. Effort. Consistency. If both people don’t act, let it go with dignity.

Some relationships can be fixed. Some are already over. Wisdom is knowing the difference.

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