Intimacy Clinic

Intimacy Clinic First Clinical Couples Counseling & S*x Therapy Clinic in Africa. It is an error if your relationship/marriage is part of your headache at this time.
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A lot has been, and still going on in the world and you have so much to deal with already, as an individual. This is a time to lean on the shoulder of the one that loves you and draw strength from your union. At Intimacy Clinic, we understand that intimate relationship is a major part of your mental well-being and functionality, and we understand how devastating it could be when something sweet suddenly turns sour. With a minimum of 20hours client sessions weekly, Dr Tolu has been in the business of building homes and fixing relationships for more than one decade now. She uses therapeutic interventions and clinical counseling skills in her serene and no-judgement zone office. You too can join her league of happy clients and make the most of your union, irrespective of your location, culture or belief. Before things get out of hands, before you develop mental health issues from unresolved emotional issues and before you throw in the towel... Let’s help you, it can be fixed! Contact Intimacy Clinic: +2348184575377
www.intimacyclinic.org

For years, I’ve guided women and counselors through transformation, helping them heal, find clarity, and reclaim their p...
29/01/2026

For years, I’ve guided women and counselors through transformation, helping them heal, find clarity, and reclaim their power. But I began to see that purpose and healing are not just for professionals; they are for every woman who is ready to evolve.

That’s why I created EvolveHer,a sacred space for women to find themselves, break barriers, and live fulfilled. Not another class. Not another group. A movement of women becoming.

Click here to join: https://intimacyclinic.org/evolveher-the-tribe-for-women-becoming/

Inquiry: +2348184575377

29/01/2026

I’m 27 years old, and the pressure to get married is getting louder every day.
Friends are settling down. Family members are asking questions.
Sometimes, even silence feels like judgment.
Growing up, my father was a good dad to us.
He was present. He provided. He showed up for his children.
But he was not a good husband to my mum.
He cheated on her, and one of those affairs resulted in another child.
So while living in our home, I knew I had a brother somewhere else,a brother we rarely saw and never spoke about.
There was emotional abuse in our home.
Sometimes physical.
And a lot of pretending that everything was fine.
As children, we learned to adjust.
To stay quiet.
To manage emotions instead of expressing them.
Watching my parents’ marriage shaped me more than I realized.
Now, at 27, every relationship I enter feels wrong.
Not because the men are terrible, but because something about them reminds me of my father.
Some are controlling.
Some raise their voices.
Some think apology comes after damage.
I want to get married before 30.
I want companionship, love, and partnership.
But I am afraid.
Afraid of choosing a man who will love his children but hurt his wife.
Afraid of repeating the same mistakes my mother made.
Afraid of mistaking familiarity for love.

Marriage does not change character.It reveals it.If you are already minimizing your pain to keep peace,marriage will not...
28/01/2026

Marriage does not change character.It reveals it.

If you are already minimizing your pain to keep peace,
marriage will not bring relief, it will demand endurance.

Choose clarity over pressure.
Choose emotional maturity over promises.

📩 Premarital & couples counseling available.





27/01/2026

Good afternoon ma. I need your advice because my heart is confused.
When we started dating, he told me something that made me trust him completely.
He said he wanted us to wait till marriage before sex,not because of fear, but because he wanted to “do things right.”
He talked about values.
He talked about the future.
He talked about building something different from his past.
I respected him deeply for it.
I even admired his self-control.
Whenever temptation came up, he reminded me,
“Good things are worth waiting for.”
One evening, while making my hair at a salon far from my house, a woman sat beside me and kept glancing at me.
After a while, she smiled and asked if my name was familiar.
Then she said something I wasn’t prepared for.
“I’m surprised you’re with him,” she said calmly.
“He doesn’t like waiting.”
I laughed it off.
I told myself she was an ex trying to poison my mind.
I convinced myself that people change.
But from that day, something shifted.
His calls reduced.
His excuses increased.
Two weeks later, the truth surfaced.
She was pregnant.
And he was the father.

25/01/2026

Good evening ma.

Please I need your advice.
We had been dating for almost two years.
Not the noisy kind of relationship. No constant fights. No cheating accusations. No drama.
He was consistent.
Called every morning. Checked on me at night. We planned trips we hadn’t even taken yet. He talked about “our future” like it was already signed and sealed.
That was why I never doubted him.
One afternoon, while I was at work, a friend called me.
Her voice was calm, too calm.
She asked casually,
“Are you aware that your boyfriend is engaged?”
I laughed.
I even joked that she should stop believing social media gossip.
She paused… then sent me a picture.
It was him.
Standing beside another woman.
Family members around them.
Engagement decorations behind.
My chest went cold.
That evening, when I confronted him, he didn’t shout.
He didn’t deny it.
He didn’t even act surprised.
He just sighed and said,
“My parents arranged it. I didn’t know how to tell you. I was hoping things would sort themselves out.”
Two years, ma.
While I was planning a future, he was attending family meetings.
While I was loyal, another woman was being introduced.
He said he still cared about me.
He said he was confused.
He asked me to “understand”.
Ma…
How do you heal from a breakup you didn’t even know had already happened?

If your words turn them off faster than your clothes come off, we need to talk. Bad s3x isn’t always about the body, som...
25/01/2026

If your words turn them off faster than your clothes come off, we need to talk. Bad s3x isn’t always about the body, sometimes it’s the mouth.

Men did we say your mind or leave something out?

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If your words turn them off faster than your clothes come off, we need to talk. Bad s3x isn’t always about the body, som...
25/01/2026

If your words turn them off faster than your clothes come off, we need to talk. Bad s3x isn’t always about the body, sometimes it's the mouth.

Men did we say your mind or leave something out?

******ng

23/01/2026

Good afternoon ma,

please I need your sincere advice.
The proposal was beautiful.
Family members were there. Friends screamed. Phones were out. Pictures everywhere.
Everyone kept saying, “Finally!”
I smiled. I laughed. I even cried small.
But ma… that same night, when we were finally alone, something shifted inside me.
As I lay on the bed staring at the ring on my finger, fear entered my heart.
Not excitement. Not peace. Fear.
All the things I had been pushing to the back of my mind suddenly came rushing forward.
His temper, how small issues become big arguments.
His controlling nature, how he wants to decide what I wear, where I go, who I talk to.
How I am always the one apologizing, even when I know I did nothing wrong.
I remembered the times I told myself, “It’s just stress.”
The times I said, “Marriage will calm him down.”
The times I convinced myself that love means endurance.
Ma, that night I couldn’t sleep.
Everyone was celebrating my engagement, but my heart was heavy.
Now I keep asking myself one question that refuses to leave my mind:
What if marriage doesn’t change anything… and I’m walking into something I already see clearly?
Ma please, tell me the truth.

Is love supposed to come with this much fear?

21/01/2026

Good morning ma.
Please I need advice.
I’ve been with this man for 7 years.
Seven good years.
We met when we both had nothing. I supported him through school, NYSC, job hunting, everything.
Now he is stable. Well respected. Doing well.
But marriage talk? He avoids it like a plague.
Anytime I bring it up, he says, “Let’s enjoy what we have first.”
I’m no longer enjoying anything. My mates are naming children. I’m still naming anniversaries.
Ma, please tell me…
How long is too long to wait for someone who says they love you?

When last did you really feel each other as a couple? Not rushed conversations, not survival love, not “we’re fine.”Coup...
20/01/2026

When last did you really feel each other as a couple? Not rushed conversations, not survival love, not “we’re fine.”

Couple Up is The Intimacy Clinic’s signature monthly intimate get-together designed exclusively for couples who desire more than routine love, couples who crave depth, laughter, safety, sensual reconnection, and emotional intimacy.

In the midst of busy schedules, emotional fatigue, and unspoken distance, love can quietly slip into survival mode. Couple Up gently pulls couples out of autopilot and back into presence.

Expect activities like intimate couples games, eye-opening, honest relationship truths, rejuvenating connection exercises, deep bonding without pressure or therapy and so much more…

Very Limited slots available. Call +2348184575377 to register or visit: https://intimacyclinic.org/upcoming-event/

18/01/2026

Good evening ma. Please I really need your advice.
I’ve been in this relationship for years. Not months, years. I invested my time, my emotions, my youth, and my plans. My family knows him. His people know me. Everybody already sees us as husband and wife.
But ma… I am tired.
Not tired of him beating me. Not tired of insults.
I’m tired of pretending I’m okay when I’m not.
Some days, I look at him and ask myself, “Is this it?”
We don’t fight, but we don’t connect either.
We talk, but nothing deep.
We exist together, but I feel alone inside it.
The scary part is this:
I don’t know life without him anymore.
Starting over feels like punishment.
Explaining myself again feels exhausting.
Watching my mates move on while I’m single again scares me.
Sometimes I tell myself, “At least you’re not alone.”
Other times, I ask, “Is this how people die inside slowly?”
Ma, please tell me the truth…

Too much s3x does not make the vi wider nor does lack of s3x make it tighter, hormones, lubrication, reaction to medicat...
15/01/2026

Too much s3x does not make the vi wider nor does lack of s3x make it tighter, hormones, lubrication, reaction to medication, etc are some of the factors that can affect vj elasticity.

The fact that she's tight doesn't make her a good girl and vice versa, this belief is rooted in ignorance. There's a full article on this on www.intimacyclinic.org

Do you believe that the more s3x you have the “wider” your vj?

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