HAPPY HOME FAMILY

05/12/2025

Ah, the magical wonder of a credit alert😄

That glorious sound that transforms your day from "What will I eat?" to "Where will I shop?"

A notification that humbles even the strongest stress and makes your heart sing praises louder than a choir on Sunday morning.

Credit alert doesn’t just bring money, it brings hope, confidence, and the courage to finally tell that hawker, "Give me three instead of one."

To everyone in need of that life-saving "chime" this week, may your phone vibrate with good news.

May the heavens align to surprise you, and may your testimony begin with, "You won't believe what happened to me.

This is my prayer for YOU and for Myself 🙏🙏

05/12/2025

In whatever condition or situation you find yourself, do not give up, for life can change its course in just a moment.

05/12/2025

To Whom Life Was Given, Death is Promised
Help More, Care More, Love More, Do Good And Stay True.

05/12/2025

After the divorce, my ex-wife suddenly showed up at my house wearing a thin, revealing outfit. She sat confidently on the sofa and said,.....👇

From the day we got married, my wife insisted that we must have both a house and a car before she would agree to have our first child. She was also a skilled communicator who helped me advance in my career. I knew my wife was both beautiful and capable, and I should have felt lucky to marry her. But everything completely collapsed when I discovered she had been unfaithful.

Even more painful, she cheated with a man who was far wealthier and more talented than I was — though he was not young like me. After securing a relationship with this rich man, she decided to divorce me. I had no intention of keeping a woman who betrayed me, so I agreed to the divorce. Still, the pain of betrayal lingered in my heart for a long time. She was someone I had once loved deeply; you can’t just forget that easily.

For three years after the divorce, I quietly kept track of her life. She lived in luxury and seemed completely satisfied with her wealthy older husband. Because of that, I never imagined she would one day come looking for me.

After the divorce, I never changed the locks on my house. I also didn’t think she would still have her old key and walk into my home as if nothing had happened. One day, when I returned home, I was stunned to see my ex-wife sitting on the sofa waiting for me. She was wearing a thin, seductive nightgown. She smiled, then gently walked toward me and wrapped her arms around me. Whispering softly, she pleaded with a question that made my heart pound:....👇👇
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05/12/2025

After so much pressure, she has given the name of the man she wants to marry to her mum who has passed it on to clerics. Now, the clerics have returned to say she shouldn't go ahead with the relationship.

She knows to go with her heart but is confused about disobeying her mum, also she's scared of the religious implications of not listening to the clerics.

What would you do if you were in her shoes?
What do you think she should do?

05/12/2025

(1) Marry a man that has sense enough to know that paying your bride price is not equal to buying you.

(2) Marry a man who has sense enough to know that marrying you is not doing you a favour.

(3) Marry a man that has sense enough to know that you pose to have cramps and mood swings during your monthly circle, and shouldn't use it against you.

(4) Marry a man who has sense enough to know that as a woman you also have a right to say "NO" to s*x at times and if he must have his way he should at least try to make you happy and put you in the mood.

(5) Marry a man who has sense enough to know that after childbirth you are posed to have stretch marks, big stomach, sag b***s and not too good shape, and he shouldn't because of that compare you to a sweet 16, your sag b***s or stretch marks is a sign of motherhood. (Although you can work it out and be back to shape which is proper.)

(6) Marry a man who has sense enough to know that there are times you are just too tired to cook, and him taking you to the eatery to eat dinner or him fixing the meal that day to save you the stress is not a taboo.

(7) Marry a man who has sense enough to know that you have a right to voice out your frustration, a right to agree and disagree, a right to air your opinions.

(8) Marry a man who has sense enough to know that you deserve to hear "sorry" from him and he's obliged to plead and ask for forgiveness when he errs and not use his headship as a means to escape saying "sorry"

(9) Marry a man who has sense enough to know that hitting a lady is a crime against humanity.

(10) Marry a man who loves your soul not just your body, marry a man who enjoys talking to you even without touching your body, not someone who cannot talk to you without touching you.

May you not miss it in marriage.
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05/12/2025

The effect of a father on his daughter:

Women with WEAK fathers want to CONTROL their men.
Women with STRONG fathers want to SUBMIT to their men.

Pay attention, brother

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05/12/2025

SALARY IS GIVEN TO YOU TO FORGET YOUR DREAMS.
At first glance, the statement feels cynical—almost accusatory. And yet, many people read it, sigh, and quietly acknowledge that it hits close to home.
Why does this sentiment resonate so deeply? Perhaps because it exposes a tension at the heart of modern life: the space between survival and self-actualization, between what pays the bills and what feeds the soul.

THE PSYCHOLOGICAL TRAP OF COMFORT
A salary is, fundamentally, a promise of security. It provides structure: monthly income, predictable expenses, and a sense of stability. While there is nothing inherently wrong with this—security is a human necessity—it can also become a psychological trap.

Comfort replaces ambition.
Predictability replaces curiosity.
Routine replaces experimentation.

Over time, the very stability we sought can turn into inertia, making it harder to break free and pursue what once felt meaningful. Many dreams fade not because they were impossible, but because comfort reduced the urgency to chase them.

HOW WORK CAN QUIET THE INNER VOICE
Jobs can be demanding—not only physically or mentally, but emotionally. Hours blur together, responsibilities pile up, and the mental bandwidth that once fueled creativity dwindles. After a long day of delivering on someone else’s goals, working on your own dreams can feel exhausting.

Dreams don’t die loudly.
They fade quietly, drowned out by deadlines, commutes, and meetings.

What remains is a muted inner voice whispering, “There was something else you wanted to do, remember?”

NOT ALL SALARIES ARE SHACKLES
Of course, a salary is not inherently a tool of suppression. For many, it is empowering. It funds education, safety, and even the pursuit of long-term ambitions. Some people build their dreams from within their careers; others use their income to support passion projects, investments, or entrepreneurial ventures.

The danger lies not in the salary itself but in surrendering agency—mistaking employment for destiny, or stability for fulfillment.

THE REAL QUESTION: WHO BENEFITS FROM YOUR ENERGY?
Every hour of your work fuels something—either your dreams or someone else’s. Salaried work often means channeling your talents into systems built by others. That is not inherently negative, but it becomes problematic when it entirely replaces your own vision for your life.

The sentiment challenges us not to reject salaried work, but to remain conscious:

Are you building something that matters to you?

Are you trading your potential for comfort?

Are you postponing your dreams indefinitely?

Reclaiming Your Dreams Without Rejecting Reality

You don’t need to quit your job to reclaim your dreams. What you need is intention.

Protect time for your own goals, even if it’s just an hour a week.

Invest part of your salary into learning, creativity, or ventures that align with your ambitions.

Stay curious, and keep revisiting what excites you.

Build slowly, but build.

A salary can fund your dream—or replace it. The difference is whether you forget what you truly wanted in the first place.

FINAL THOUGHTS
The statement “a salary is given to you to forget your dreams” is not a rule—it’s a warning. It asks us to wake up, to question the trade-offs we make, and to remember the passions that once lit us up. A dream doesn’t vanish unless you let it. And a salary, no matter how stable, should never cost you the future you imagine.
KAYODE GBENGA VICTOR HAPPY HOME FAMILY

05/12/2025

Immediately You Tell An African Woman That You Love Her... She Becomes Phoneless, Dataless, Moneyless, Hopeless, Homeless😂
TRUE or FALSE?

05/12/2025

As a married woman I can’t stop seeing my ex.
Look at me and my ex boyfriend and tell me where I have wronged by husband.
My husband came home to see me holding my ex playing with him just like we used to play before he snatched me away from him .
my husband started accusing me of cheating as if he see us doing something new.

Ladies support me and tell my husband to stop behaving like a child. I know some women are facing same pressure from their husband because of their ex but if my own husband doesn’t want to respect me, I am going back to my papa house where I can have enough peace to wait for a better man to come and marry me.
I am still young and I don’t need stress.