02/02/2022
I donāt have to be soothsayer to know that some persons here will accept a proposal by Feb 14th and will eventually go ahead to say āI DOā at a later date. I congratulate you in advance. Enjoy the day if you must, however, these are some of the things you should take note of.
Posted ⢠Even as you love him or her, please let that love be the force that pushes you to ask these EXTREMELY IMPORTANT questions. This list isnāt exhaustive. This just provides you with the basic things to find out. Thereās more.
So then, what should you find out? Find out about:
1. His or her genotype: You do not want to bring forth a child with sickle cell disease, right? The stress and exhaustion; physical, emotional and even spiritual that comes with bringing up a sick child is so much...
2. Fertility: How fertile? Does he have problem(s) with achieving an er****on? Low s***m count? Does she have a blocked Fallopian tube? What are your s*xual preferences. You would only get to know some of these by going for the required tests.
3. Blood group- Rhesus positive OR Rhesus negative? Very important particularly for you ladies because as a Rhesus negative lady married to a Rhesus positive man, if proper care isnāt given to you after your ever first pregnancy, subsequent pregnancies will be at risk of miscarriages.
4. Check for STD. Yea, STD; HIV, Hepatitis B and Hepatitis C. Find out if youāre positive or negative. Very important. Are you aware already? Let him or her know.
5. Psychological examination- Is he or she alright psychologically?
Knowing all these can help rule out SOME of the headaches that comes with marriage and raising children.
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