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Your love is your life, Lagos (2026)

02/02/2023

A Nurse Is Going Viral For Her Photo Shoot In Scrubs

02/02/2023

Your candid advice is urgently needed.

02/02/2023

If there is such a thing as a good marriage, it is because it resembles friendship rather than love.
Marriage should be carried on the shoulder of friendship, respect, regard and care, love should come in after these has been achieved.

12/05/2020

I have been in relationship and I have found out that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person, after all, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner.
In fact, Loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with any other person.

Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart, It's works out because of emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline.
You see, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, intelligent, s*xy, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.

In those time, Love will not help you, Self control will help you, Emotional intelligence will help you, commitment will help you.
No matter how you feel for someone, The person you're committed to ranks first in your life.

You think married people don't see better people than the ones they married? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings?
They do. But understanding that commitment is a greater arsenal to destroy that impulse. You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them. It takes more than Love.
We are too fond of loving when it's convenient, when it's sweet.

We are too fond of loving when love is there but that can
only last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship. After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped, It's now your responsibility to make it work, not love's responsibility.

Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream. It's always tough, it will sometimes be so bitter but you can make it work. Everyone falls in love, it takes no effort to do that, but staying in love? Building a relationship? Only few do that.
That's why we must find one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself, bridle your emotions.
Because relationships cannot be already made.

20/02/2020

It May Not Always Work As You Plan, Let Your Partner Know About It Too.

If you already know that going to club or going drinking with your group of friends late at night will displease your partner, then you should either,

1. Not do it OR
2.Tell your partner beforehand so as to reassure him/her.

Don’t be careless about this sort of matter because your partner is only going to be extra worried or extra suspicious, and of course, very upset, because you are putting him/her in a position where he/she feels extra powerless/lacking in control.

Also, It could be easy for you to fall into the trap which you, unconsciously or not, set up for yourself by “hanging out” with a girl or guy from your past who has been flirting with you.

You need to recognize the dangers before entering into the situation. Don’t just listen to your heart.
Listen to your mind too.

14/02/2020

We always think of valentine's day
Birth day
Father's day
Mother's day
Children's day
Our day
Workers day
Farmer's day
Teacher's day
Boxing day
Christmas day
Sallah day
Independance day
This day
That day, Day in Day out
Have you ever thought of JUDGEMENT DAY, is it going to be a day of celebration or condemnation for you ?
If you're safe, what about your friends and your loved ones. Show them love by telling them about and JUDGEMENT DAY......

If you can't say to your friends, family and love ones HAPPY JUDGEMENT DAY there won't be need telling them HAPPY VALENTINES DAY.....

13/02/2020

People think that intimacy is about s*x, but that's not true, intimacy is about truth, when you realise you can tell someone the truth, when you can show yourself to them, when you can stand in front of them and their response is "You're safe with me".- That's intimacy.

03/02/2020

When u get sick, he calls, when he gets sick, he still calls.
you have Airtime He calls, u don't have airtime he still calls.
Your birthday He buys u a Gift, His birthday he still takes u out.
He sends u money, and still calls to confirm if you've received an alert, u only flashed Him and u re already scolding him to know y he hasn't called back.
He invited u for a lunch, took care of your bills, u only dressed better than him, but u couldn't afford your transport.
He met u with your friends u sounded rudely, you met him with his friends he was Caring & polite.
He secretly borrowed money to give u, u always told him the money is too small.
Things turn around for him for good and he became very rich, he left u, Too late, You re now ready to love him and u are shedding tears, deceiving other women saying; u were there for him when he had nothing, all guys are same..
Your impact in a relationship would determine if a man will marry u, and not your presence.

25/01/2020

SILENT TREATMENT TO YOUR SPOUSE IS ALSO AN EMOTIONAL ABUSE, See why"

1. IT DEMEANS YOUR SPOUSE
It shows your spouse that he/she is not worth speaking to. Hurting him/her in the process

2. IT SOLVES NO ISSUES
Silent treatment means that issues never get addressed, in fact, they escalate, draining emotions of the both of you

3. IT MAKES THE HOME COLD
It makes both of you edgy and uncomfortable, killing emotional connection and intimacy

4. IT ABUSES THE CHILDREN
Children suffer the most when their parents give each other silent treatment, they sense that something is wrong and makes them worry and panic. Children love mom and dad the same

5. IT MAKES YOUR SPOUSE EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE
Giving your spouse/partner silent treatment makes him/her overthink, wondering what is going on and feeling powerless because you are not communicating

6. IT PUTS YOUR SPOUSE IN PRISON
Silent treatment is like putting your spouse/partner through solitary confinement where you cut off access to you. Forced imprisonment is abuse

7. IT SIGNALS THE DEATH OF YOUR BOND
No relationship can thrive or survive without communication. Silent treatment plants seeds of the end is near, tormenting your spouse/partner

8. IT PUSHES YOUR SPOUSE AWAY
Silent treatment makes your spouse/partner feel locked out, your spouse/partner withdraws because he/she doesn't know where your heart stands to walk with you in agreement

9. IT COMES BACK TO HURT YOU
Your spouse might in return decide to also give you silent treatment which will hurt you especially when eventually you want to talk but your spouse has gotten used to silence

10. IT BREEDS FEAR, LEAVING ROOM FOR ASSUMPTIONS
Silent treatment denies your spouse/partner a space for peace, it makes him/her restless, assuming what happened and what will happen

11. IT MAKES YOUR SPOUSE FEEL REJECTED
Someone who ignores you, rejects you. Silent treatment makes you ignore your spouse/partner, making him feel replaceable and unwanted.

Communication is one of the most important aspects of every relationship, learn to communicate with each other regardless of the situation.

Say no to silent treatment.
Say no to keeping grudges.
Say no to verbal abuse.

Marriage is the beauty of creation.

17/01/2020

Young girls and ladies of our time may have forgotten that ....

1. Beauty attracts men but wisdom keeps them.

2. Elegance catches their attention but intelligence convinces them.

3. Nagging irritates men but 'constructive silence weakens them.

4. The 'boy' in everyman pumps out occasionally, your ability to handle this, is a woman's truest maturity.

5. Men have secret struggles and silent pains, should you ever find them out exhibit the greatest maturity.

6. In the long-run your 'words' matters more to a man than your 'looks' so invest the right words.

7. Earn a man's respect and he will consider you the yard stick for all his action.

8. Learn to mould the moods of your man.

9. Men will naturally give u their futures if they can recall your maturity in yesterday's issues..

10. Women are every where but queens are scarce.

Let the queen in you come alive and he will hold you in high esteem....

13/01/2020

LADIES PLEASE TAKE NOTE!!!!!
Men attend to Women for two reasons, S*X, and LOVE, but in most cases, men do not Marry for S*x or for Love, they marry for STABILITY.

Let me explain:
A man can Love you and not Marry you.
A man can have s*x with you for years without marrying you. But immediately he finds someone who brings stability in his life, he marries her.

What I mean by Stability is "Peace of Mind"
I have seen some guys who made this statement "I love this lady but I don't think I can spend the rest of my life with her." Men are visionaries when they think about marriage, they do not think about wedding dresses, bridesmaids, anything that most Ladies thinks is fanciful.

They think whether this woman can build me a home,Can she take care of my kids and I,Can she give me PEACE of mind?. Men don't like Ladies who gives them discomfort, This is why a man can stay with a woman for years and meet another in a month, then get married to her.
It's the comfort of having Peace of Mind they want.

S*x is a pleasure, love is an affection, RESPECT is Stability ♥️

31/12/2019

There's time and season for everything under the sun..... Time to let go and Time to nurture.

What time is this? 👇

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