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Nikkygold, Lagos (2025)

02/02/2019

A true friend sees the good in everything and brings out the best in the worst of things....
Who is your friend?

27/10/2018

People who seem the strongest are usually the most
sensitive.

• The people who exhibit the most kindness are the
first to be mistreated.

• The people who take care of others before
themselves are usually the ones who need the care
the most.

• The people who smile the most don't always have
a perfect life. You need to look closely behind the
smile to see the pain.

• The three hardest things to say are "I
Love You" " I am Sorry " and " Help me "

Be Thankful for those people who try to make a
difference in your life.

22/08/2018

You may have had a negative history, but please understand; you don't have to have a negative future. What's is important is not where you've come from, what matters is where you are going.

18/07/2018

Here's to the people who always have a smile on their face and no matter what they're going through, they put others before them.
For a person to really truly have peace on the inside they have to be willing to show it even when times are turbulent. Showing good manners, and being kind are hard things to do when you are being provoked, but when you continue to act in a manner that shows light no matter how dark it is, you prove that you are truly an enlightened individual.
In becoming who we hope to become we have to stand by the principle that living a life for others is the only way to make real value out of your life. Though there are some who will try to bring you down because they themselves are miserable, we have to be willing to fight against this and be the kind, gentle leaders that we all have the capability of being. No one will follow you if you can't be a beacon of light in everything that you do, life just doesnt work that way.

29/06/2018

THE KINDS OF SLEEP YOU MUST NOT SLEEP

1. Don't sleep when your enemy(devil) is awake.
2. Don't sleep when poverty is awake.
3. Don't sleep when there is danger.
4. Don't sleep when your helper is busy looking for you.
5. Don't sleep when you suppose to think big.
7. Don't sleep when you suppose to plan.
8. Don't sleep when you suppose to build.
9. Don't sleep when you suppose to inhabit.
10. Don't sleep while climbing to your mountain top. (This is very disastrous).
11. Don't sleep while there is fire on the roof.
12. Don't sleep the sleep of the sleepers (Laziness), but the sleep of the awakners (Diligence), future minders and visionaries.

17/06/2018

WHEN TO BE SILENT.in 20 situations. The Bible says:-

1. Be silent In the heat of anger - (Prov 14:17)

2. Be silent When you don't have all the facts - (Prov 18:13)

3. Be silent When you haven't verified the story -
(Deut 17:6)

4. Be silent If your words will offend a weaker
person - (1 Cor 8:11)

5. Be silent When it is time to listen - (Prov 13:1)

6. Be silent When you are tempted to make light of holy things - (Eccl 5:2)

7. Be silent When you are tempted to joke about
sin - (Prov 14:9)

8. Be silent If you would be ashamed of your words later - (Prov 8:8)

9. Be silent If your words would convey the wrong impression - (Prov 17:27)

10. Be silent If the issue is none of your business (Prov 14:10)

11. Be silent When you are tempted to tell an
outright lie - (Prov 4:24)

12. Be silent If your words will damage someone else's reputation - (Pro 16:27)

13. Be silent If your words will damage a friendship (Prov 16:28)

14. Be silent When you are feeling critical - (James 3:9)

15. Be silent If you can't say it without screaming it - (Prov 25:28)

16. Be silent If your words will be a poor reflection of the Lord or your friends and family - (1 Pt 2:21-23)

17. Be silent If you may have to eat your words
later - (Prov 18:21)

18. Be silent If you have already said it more
than one time - (Prov 19:13)

19. Be silent When you are tempted to flatter a
wicked person - (Prov 24:24)

20. Be silent When you are supposed to be working instead - (Prov 14:23)

"WHOEVER GUARDS HIS MOUTH AND TONGUE KEEPS HIS SOUL FROM TROUBLES" - (Prov 21:23).

May the grace of the Lord grant you & me understanding.
Remain blessed

09/06/2018

LOVE SHOULD BE SHARED NOT FORCED

We must keep in mind that we cannot force anyone To love us the way we want. We should not beg someone to stay when they want to leave. That is what love is All about FREEDOM. Moreover, the end of LOVE is not The end of LIFE. It should be the beginning of an understanding that LOVE SOMETIMES LEAVES FOR A REASON, BUT NEVER LEAVES WITHOUT A LESSON.
If someone truly loves you, they will never give you a reason to doubt it. Anyone can come into your life and say how much they love you, but it takes someone really special to stay in your life and prove how much they LOVE YOU.
Sometimes it takes a while to find The right person, but the right person is always worth The wait. Do NOT rush my friend, just take it slow. You will find someone who will love you the way you are... Just be patient and cry no more!..

20/05/2018

Benefits of bitter kola:

1. Cures Impotence: Impotence is a malfunction in male ge****ls caused by a failure in maintaining an er****on during a s*xual in*******se. By increasing the blood flow to the ge***al area, bitter kola can be used as an effective remedy for ED or erectile dysfunction.

2. Improves Sexual Performance: For people with a low libido, bitter kola can be your savior. Bitter kola increases s*x drive and improves the s*xual performance of men who consume them. For increased effect, you need to chew the kola for at least 2 minutes before in*******se. This is one of the reasons that bitter kola gained its fame in the past few years.

3. Promotes Male Fertility: Meanwhile, many adult male problem is on their s*xual organ. Further, for married men it is just so important to keep and maintain, in order to please their couple. Thus, you may found some medicine to improve fertility yet bitter kola is the best alternative if you want to improve you performance in bed with your lovely ones.

4. Prolonging Life: Many African people believed that consuming bitter kola will prolong their lives significantly. While this belief is not scientifically accurate it might be true to some extent. As we can see in above texts, there are just so many healthy benefits of bitter kola, that could positively contribute to a better, healthier life. By improving our lives, our longevity would surely increase, because many studies report that normally, healthy people live longer than unhealthy ones.

5. No Side Effects: This might be the best feature from bitter kola plethora of benefits. Many medical experts around the world confirmed that consuming bitter kola has no side effects at all to the human body, which is amazing considering most drugs possess a negative side effect in the long run when consumed periodically. This shows that bitter kola can be used as a natural, alternative remedy to the generic drugs that are chemically manufactured.

6. Medicinal Significance: As a traditional medicine for many countries in Africa, bitter kola has purgative, anti-inflammatory, antimicrobial, and anti-parasitic properties. These medicinal properties has been scientifically approved and raised bitter kola status as a significant ailment against many sickness and diseases.

7. Anti-Poison: Recent studies said that bitter kola is a potent antibiotic with many detoxification abilities. Chewing bitter kola will prevent any infection or poison that might happen when you accidentally ate something contaminated by bacteria or poison.

8. Improve Immunity System: The high amount of antioxidant found in bitter kola can help your body to increase its immunity levels, so your body can withstand better against foreign contaminants and bacteria.

9. Cold Remedy: Bitter kola also can be used in alleviating sore throat and as a remedy for cold symptoms. Healers in Africa has been using it to treat people coughing and sneezes for hundreds of years effectively. It also helps to relieve the sore throat effects that may come as one of the symptoms of cold.

10. Relieve Arthritis: In July 2008 issue of the Journal of Orthopaedic Surgery and Research, it is revealed that Garcinia kola reduces joint inflammation and pain caused by osteoarthritis. Osteoarthritis is one of the most common forms of arthritis, normally caused by aging, obesity, or a joint injury. It is characterized by swelling, pain, and inflammation in the joints, causing reduced movement. The antioxidant properties of bitter kola provide a significant analgesic or anti-inflammatory effects which significantly counters the effect of osteoarthritis.

11. Weight Loss Treatment: Chewing bitter kola could suppress the hungry feeling and makes your body wants to drink more water. In this case, it can be used to prevent any bad eating habit such as late night snacking, binge eating, etc. and by keeping your body hydrated, improved your digestive system as well. Bitter kola is also known to reduce glucose level in your blood.

12. Throat Clearing: If you have a problem with swallowing due to swelling or dry throat, you could try to chew bitter kolas. Experts said that it stimulates the mucus production along the vocal tubes to reduce the swelling and dryness in the throat.

13. Improves Lung Function: Some researchers reveal that bitter kola could improve lungs by strengthening fibers in the lungs tissue. This would dilate the alveolar ducts and sacs in the lungs, thereby improving the respiratory system. The 2008 Internet Journal of Pulmonary Medicine performs a series of experiments on mice which shows an improvement over the mice’s respiratory function after 28 days of bitter kola usage.

14. Prevents Glaucoma: A high eye pressure could lead to glaucoma, a condition of the eye that, if left untreated, could result in permanent blindness. Bitter kola has proven itself to be an amazing remedy for the eye. Lagos University Teaching Hospital has a journal which showed us that when you use bitter kola at least twice a day, it could successfully reduce the eye pressure.

Please share your experience if you have been using it.

15/05/2018

Ask yourself if What you're doing today is getting You closer to where you wanna be tomorrow...

Always learn to push yourself, no one else is gonna do the pushing for you...
And don't forget to make someone happy today.
Remain blessed.

07/05/2018

Emergency Medical Tips just received from a Friend

Keep a syringe or needle in your home to do this...

It's amazing &an unconventional way of recovering from stroke, read it through it can help somebody one day.
This is amazing.
Please keep this very handy.
Excellent tips.
You'll never know, ones life may depend on you.
My father was paralysed and later died from the result of a stroke.
I wish I knew about this first aid before.
When stroke strikes, the capillaries in the brain will gradually burst. (Irene Liu)
When a stroke occurs, stay calm.
No matter where the victim is, do not move him/her because, if moved, the capillaries will burst.

Help the victim to sit up where he/she is to prevent him/her from falling over again and then the blood letting can begin .

If you have in your home an injection syringe that would be the best.

Otherwise, a sewing needle or a straight pin will do.

1. Place the needle/pin over fire to sterilize it and then use it to prick the tip of all ......10 fingers.
2. There are no specific acupuncture points, just prick about an mm from the fingernail.
3. Prick till blood comes out.
4. If blood does not start to drip, then squeeze with your fingers.
5. When all 10 digits is bleeding, wait a few minutes then the victim will regain consciousness.
6. If the victim's mouth is crooked , then pull on his ears until they are red.
7. Then prick each earlobe twice until two drops of blood comes from each earlobe.
After a few minutes the victim should regain consciousness.

Wait till the victim regains his normal state without any abnormal symptoms then take him to the hospital.
Otherwise, if he was taken in the ambulance in a hurry to the hospital, the bumpy trip will cause all the capillaries in his brain to burst.

If he could save his life, barely managing to walk, then it is by the grace of his ancestors.

'I learned about letting blood to save life from Chinese traditional doctor, Ha Bu Ting, who lives in Sun Juke.

Furthermore, I had practical experience with it, therefore, I can say this method is 100% effective.

In 1979, I was teaching in Fung Gaap College in Tai Chung.

One afternoon, I was teaching a class when another teacher came running to my classroom and said in panting,
'Ms Liu, come quick, our supervisor has had astroke !'. I immediately went to the 3rd floor.
When I saw our supervisor, Mr. Chen Fu Tien, his colour was off, his speech was slurred , his mouth was crooked -all the symptoms of a stroke.

I immediately asked one of the practicum students to go to the pharmacy outside the school to buy a syringe, which I used to prick Mr. Chen's 10 fingers tips.

When all 10 fingers were bleeding (each with apea-sized drop of blood),after a few minutes, Mr. Chen's face regained its colour and his eyes' spirit returned,

But his mouth was still crooked . So I pulled on his ears to fill them with blood .
When his ears became red ,
I pricked his right earlobe twice to let out two drops of blood .
When both earlobes had two drops of blood each ,a miracle happened .
Within 3-5 minutes the shape of his mouth returned to normal and his speech became clear.

We let him rest for a while and have a cup of hot tea , then we helped him go down the stairs, drove him to Wei Wah Hospital .
He rested one night and was released the next day to return to school to teach.. Everything worked normally.
There were no ill after effects.
On the other hand, theusual stroke victimusually suffers Irreparable bursting of the brain capillaries on the way to the hospital.
As a result, these victims never recover.' (Irene Liu)
Therefore, stroke is the second cause of death.
The lucky ones will stay alive but can remain paralysed for life.

It is such a horrible thing to happen in ones life.

If we can all remember this blood letting methodand start the life saving process immediately, in a short time, the victim will be revived and regain 100% normality.

IF POSSIBLE PLEASE FORWARD THIS AFTER READING . YOU NEVER KNOW IT MAY HELP SAVE A LIFE FROM STROKE

04/05/2018

SIMPLE WAYS TO SHOW COURTESY.
1. Don't break up with someone over text messages.
2. In case you miss a call, drop a message as soon as possible if you're unable to call.
3. Pay back borrowed money as soon as possible no matter how little the amount is. Don't assume that they don't need it and never make them ask you for it.
4. Turn the volume down when you're watching a video, playing music or playing a game on your phone in a public place or better yet, use headphones.
5. Don't press your phone or use headphones when someone is having a conversation with you. Unplug the headsets from your ears even if nothing is playing and give them your undivided attention.
6. When using someone else's phone or computer, Don't go through their stuff without permission.
7. Always leave the last piece (of meat) for the person who bought it unless they insist they won't eat it.
8. Don't use speaker phone to have a two person conversation unless your hand are unable to hold the phone.
9. When someone else cooks for you, offer to help clean the kitchen.
10. If you stay the night at someone's
house, make the bed or fold the blankets when you leave.
11. Don't let your arguments escalate in public. Find someplace else to continue arguing where others won't feel uncomfortable or interested.
12. If you ask your friends for help with some house work, feed them as payment.
13. When someone buys you food or coffee, try to return the favour within a week (if you can)
14. When you borrow someone's car, fill up the tank as a way of saying 'thank you.'
15. Don't smoke when someone around is Feeling uncomfortable.-(so wrong)
16. Make sure you don't forget to return that book you borrowed.
17. When someone gives you a gift, no matter how small it is or the way it was presented, even if it wasn't up to your Expectation, Just say 'Thank You'.
18. When you have someone older than you who's friendly and makes himself free with you, Speak to them with respect.
19. Don't Feel too big to be corrected or reject good advice because you feel it's your life...
Life is a ring...The next blow can come anytime..
Share for other friends to learn.

27/04/2018

DO YOU KNOW THAT NOBODY REALLY CARES ABOUT YOUR CERTIFICATE?

The educational system has blinded a good number of young people. If I were you, I would take this article seriously.

When I see students engaging in examination malpractice and visiting illegal websites to access leaking question papers, I just shake my head in pity. All these for good grades?

The system has made these students think that a good certificate is the greatest achievement in their career. This is why we keep producing graduates who can not defend their so called distinctive results.

I beg to break the bad news.
In reality, nobody really cares about your certificate. When I say REALITY, I mean after you graduate from school because you may likely not notice it when you are still a sophomore. Until you become a graduate, you may never realize this bitter truth.

Well, this doesn't mean that getting good grades is bad. In fact, it's beautiful to become the best graduating student but can you defend the result practically?
Sorry, I didn't put the question right.
This is a better question 👇
Are you busy chasing grades such that you've failed to develop yourself into an irresistible person of value?

Oops!
I rather put it this way 👇
What can you bring to the table that would amaze people to the extent that they strive to hire you at all cost?

It's pathetic that there are a lot of Computer Science graduates who can not develop a website. Tell me, which organization will hire you to handle their digital jobs when you only learnt theories by just reading to pass or bribing your way through distinctions?

I think I need to share this here.
I've worked with people who almost thought I studied Literature in the University. They never cared about my Accounting certificate when hiring me to write for them.
When people sign up for my writing courses, nobody really cares if I have a certificate in English Language.

Funnily enough, some English Language graduates have not thought of writing a book for once.
When I draw commissioned art works, nobody really cares about the fact that I have no certificate in Fine Art.

Don't let certificates blind you.
People do not really care about your title or certificate; they care about your ability to solve their problems.

If you are a young person, I advise you to develop yourself into an asset who can solve real life problems because dumping faint theories in your head is hazardous.
If you are still an undergraduate, strategically think of how you can become a solution to real life problems while you passionately study hard for good grades. Stop wasting your energy on malpractices, it makes your brain dull.

Can I shock you?

You sharpen your brain when you allow it think instead of looking for an easy way out. That's how to become creative.

The society has placed so much importance on certificates to the point that students no longer see the need to be useful in the society.
If that's the system you see in your country, you should choose to be wise before you fall among jobless youths blaming the government for everything.

Use your head; most importantly, USE YOUR HANDS.

You are all you need to stand out.
Don't become a liability trapped in some filthy mediocrity.

© Eno Sam

27/04/2018

ONKA LEDE YORUBA(1-20,000).
1 – Ookan
2 – Eeji
3 – Eeta
4 – Eerin
5 – Aarun
6 – Eefa
7 – Eeje
8 – Eejo
9 – Eesan
10 – Eewa
11 – Ookanla
12 – Eejila
13 – Eetala
14 – Eerinla
!5 – Eedogun
16 – Eerindinlogun
17 – Eetadinlogun
18 – Eejidinlogun
19 – Ookandinlogun
20 – Ogun/Okoo
21 – Ookanlelogun
22 – Eejilelogun
23 – Eetalelogun
24 – Eerinlelogun
25 – Eedogbon
26 – Eerindinlogbon
27 – Eetadinlogbon
28 – Eejidinlogbon
29 – Ookandinlogbon
30 – Ogbon
31 – Ookanlelogbon
32 – Eejilelogbon
33 – Eetalelogbon
34 – Eerinlelogbon
35 – Aarundinlogoji
36 – Eerindinlogoji
37 – Eetadinlogoji
38 – Eejidinlogoji
39 – Ookandinlogoji
40 – Ogoji
41 – Ookanlelogoji
42 – Eejilelogoji
43 – Eetalelogoji
44 – Eerinlelogoji
45 – Aarundinlaadota
46 – Eerindinlaadota
47 – Eetadinlaadota
48 – Eejidinlaadota
49 – Ookandinlaadota
50 – Aadota
51 – Ookanlelaadota
52 – Eejilelaadota
53 – Eetalelaadota
54 – Eerinlelaadota
55 – Aarundinlogota
56 – Eerindinlogota
57 – Eetadinlogota
58 – Eejidinlogota
59 – Ookandinlogota
60 – Ogota/Ota
61 – Ookanlelogota
62 – Eejilelogota
63 – Eetalelogota
64 – Eerinlelogota
65 – Aarundinlaadorin
66 – Eerindinlaadorin
67 – Eetadinlaadorin
68 – Eejidinlaadorin
69 – Ookandilaadorin
70 – Aadorin
71 – Ookanlelaadorin
72 – Eejilelaadorin
73 – Eetalelaadorin
74 – Eerinlelaadorin
75 – Aarundinlogorin
76 – Eerindinlogorin
77 – Eetadinlogorin
78 – Eejidinlogorin
79 – Ookandinlogorin
80 – Ogorin/orinn
81 – Ookanlelogorin
82 – Eejilelogorin
83 – Eetalelogorin
84 – Eerinlelogorin
85 – Aarundinlaadorun
86 – Eerindinlaadorun
87 – Eetadinlaadorun
88 – Eejidinlaadorun
89 – Ookandinlaadorun
90 – Aadorun
91 – Ookanlelaadorun
92 – Eejilelaadorun
93 – Eetalelaadorun
94 – Eerinlelaadorun
95 – Aarundinlogorun
96 – Eerindinlogorun
97 – Eetadinlogorun
98 – Eejidinlogorun
99 – Ookandilogorun
100 -Ọgọrun
110- Adọfa, àádọ́fà
120- Ọgọfa
130- Aadoje
140- Ogoje
150- Adọjọ, àádọ́jọ
160-Ọgọjọ
170-Adọsan, àádọ́sán
180- Ọgọsan
190-Mẹwadinigba
200-Igba
210- Ẹewalerugba
220- Ogunlugba
230- Ọgbọnwolerugba
240- Ojulugba
250-Aadọtalerugba
260-Ọtalerugba
270- Aadọrinlerugba
280- Orinlugba
290- Aadọrunlerugba300-Ọdunrun
400-Irinwo, irinwó tabi Erinwo
500-Ẹdẹgbẹta, ẹ̀ẹ́dẹ́gbẹ̀ta
600-Ẹgbẹta, ẹgbẹ̀ta
700-Ẹdẹgbẹrin, ẹ̀ẹ́dẹ́gbẹ̀rin
800-Ẹgbẹrin, ẹgbẹ̀rin
900-Ẹdẹgbẹrun, ẹ̀ẹ́dẹ́gbẹ̀rún,
1,000-Ẹgbẹrun, ẹgbẹ̀rún
1,100-Ẹgbẹrunlelọgọrun
1,200-Ẹgbẹfa, ẹgbẹ̀fà
1,300-Ẹdẹgbeje
1,400-Egbeje, egbèje
1,500-Ẹdẹgbẹjọ
1,600-Ẹgbẹjọ, ẹgbẹ̀jọ
1,700-Ẹdẹgbẹsan
1,800-Ẹgbẹsan, ẹgbẹ̀sàn
1,900-Ẹgbadinọgọrun
2,000-Ẹgbàwá, ẹgbẹ̀wá, ẹgbàá
2,200-Ẹgbọkanla, ẹgboókànlá
2,400-Egbejila
2,500-Ẹgbẹtaladinlọgọrun
2,600-Ẹgbẹtala
2,800-Ẹgbẹrinla
3,000- Ẹgbẹteedogun, ẹgbẹ́ẹdógún
3,500-Egbejidilogun-din-ọgọrun
4,000-Ẹgbaji, ẹgbàajì
4,500-Ẹgbẹtalelogun-din-ọgọrun
5,000-Ẹdẹgbata, ẹgbẹ́ẹdọ́gbọ̀n
5,500- Ẹgbẹtalelogbọn-din-ọgọrun
6,000-Ẹgbata, ẹgbàáta
7,000-Ẹdẹgbarin, ẹ̀ẹ́dẹ́ɡbarin
8,000-Ẹgbarin, ẹgbàárin
9,000-Ẹdẹgbarun, ẹ̀ẹ́dẹ́ɡbàárùn
10,000-Ẹgbarun, ẹgbàárùn
16,000 – Ẹgbajọ, ẹgbàájọ
20,000: Ẹgbawa, ẹgbàawǎ tabi ọkẹ́ kán

25/04/2018

Life is a gift that has been given to you. It is in your hands to make the best out of it--dare to believe that you can. Through the ups and downs, you'll find a lesson to learn that will make you a better person. Each experience good and bad makes you grow.
Get along with life and surely, things will become easier for you. Live for today and enjoy every moment. Capture the best that life has to offer you.
Remain blessed

29/01/2018

English Mistakes we make
You're taking it personal❌
You're taking it personally ✔

He is matured❌
He is mature ✔
He has matured ✔

The reason is Because ❌
The reason is that ✔

My stuffs ❌
My stuff ✔

Night vigil ❌
Vigil ✔

Traveling bag ❌
Travel Bag ✔

As at when due ❌
As and when due ✔

Be rest assured ❌
Rest assured ✔

I'm hearing you ❌
I can hear you ✔

My names are ❌
My name is ✔

All manners of ❌
All manner of ✔

She delivered a baby boy ❌
She was delivered of a baby boy ✔

Lacking behind❌
Lagging behind ✔

Crack your brain ❌
Rack your brain ✔

Return it back ❌
Return it ✔

Nigeria comprises of 36 states ❌
Nigeria comprises 36 states ✔
Nigeria is comprised of 36 states ✔

Wake keeping❌
Wake keep ❌
Wake ✔

Exercise patience ❌
Be patient ✔

Barbing saloon ❌
Barber shop ✔

I forgot my phone at home❌
I left my phone at home✔

Borrow me your pen ❌
Lend me your pen ✔
May I borrow your pen ✔

More grease to your elbow❌
More power to your elbow ✔

Funny enough, I've never liked him❌
Funnily enough, I've never liked him✔

My body is scratching me ❌
My body itches ✔

Letterhead paper ❌
Letterhead ✔

I'm not your mate ❌
We're not mates ✔

You're mannerless ❌
You're ill-mannered ✔

Horn at the car in front❌
Honk at the car in front ✔

Happy birthday in arrears ❌
Happy belated birthday ❌
Belated happy birthday ✔

I will sleep at 10pm❌
I will go to bed at 10pm ✔

Just when I thought I have seen it all❌
Just when I thought I had seen it all ✔

First come, First serve❌
First come, First served ✔

Please dash me ❌
Please hand it on to me ✔
Please give me ✔

I have a running nose ❌
I have a runny nose ✔

I have a running stomach ❌
I have a runny stomach ❌
I have an upset stomach ✔

Addy=Address
Happy birthday in addy =Happy birthday in address ❌❌❌

Working Experience ❌
Work Experience ✔

28/01/2018

THINGS THAT CAUSE REGRET AT OLD AGE

When younger we make various choices without the future in mind. Sometimes those choices bite us in our mid-life. These are some of the things one might regret when they're older.

1. Marrying the wrong person

When you're young, check your motives for marrying. Don't marry to copy your peers, or for social standing or out of pressure. Marry for love and companionship, marry the right person, marry your best friend. For if you marry the wrong person or for the wrong reasons, you will have to put up with that person the rest of your life. Things might get worse between you two; then depression, physical abuse, affairs, pain, shame, court cases, bitterness will define your mid-life years all because you chose the wrong one. Things will get worse when children are involved. Make the right choice of a spouse when you are young.

2. The opportunities you did not seize

When you are younger many doors will open, you will get many chances. Many young people let these opportunities go because of fear, laziness, or pride; yet well younger and with more energy is the best time to start a venture and a name for yourself. Some think the opportunities are too big for them. Take advantage of them or one day when you're older you will want to go back and grab those missed chances.

3. The bridges you burned

When we are younger, we care little for relationships, what most think about is getting money and moving up the ladder of success at all cost. Many use and trample on people to progress, they take relationships for granted, messing up bonds, sleeping with people for personal gain. But these bad actions will catch up with you ahead. When you will realize how empty life is without love and friends. When you will have success but no one around you or no one to trust you.

4. The child you aborted

You are a young lady, you get pregnant and you are scared. You take the aborting option quickly thinking of that moment then. But when you are much older, you will look back and wish you kept that baby. When you will be rich and successful you will wish that child you gave up on would be around to enjoy the fruits of your hard work. Being a single mother doesn't mean you can't make it in life or you can't find a man in future.

5. The child you rejected

Young man, you impregnated a woman, she told you she's pregnant with your child. You rejected her and the baby and ran. But years later when you're 50 something, you will wish you were responsible, you will wish you manned up and became a father to that child. You will see that child excel and become an adult but will have no claim to that grown child who you rejected from the beginning. You will regret being a Dead Beat Dad by choice

6. The marriage you destroyed

So you get married to your good fiance; the first months in marriage were good but shortly after, with your money and charm, you started having affairs. You became unfaithful. Your spouse begged you to stop, your children started hurting, your marriage was collapsing. One day when you are older, it will hit you how foolish you were to destroy the good marriage you had began to build for mere temporary thrills in affairs that did you no good. You will realize the damage you caused to your children and spouse.

7. The God you disowned

When you are much older you become wiser, God becomes more real as you see life in a more meaningful way. But don't wait to get older to start enjoying a relationship with God. Know God when you are young, build your future with God. Don't be a young rebel who runs back to God when age catches up.

8. *The body you messed

You have only one body to live with all your life. The ci******es, the alcohol you are abusing, the drugs you are taking, the unhealthy food you're consuming; all that will destroy you slowly. When you are 50 and lifestyle diseases catch up with you, you will wish you took care of your body when younger, that you exercised more; but now the damage is done.

9. The time you wasted

The time you are wasting when younger in worry, wrong relationships, laziness, being a couch potato, giving excuses and pursuing meaningless things; you will never get it back.

10. The dreams and talents you shelved

Are you talented when young; are there things you love to do and you are good at them? Nurture those talents, exploit them, don't give up even if you encounter set backs, don't give up on your dreams. If you give up, when you're older you will look at your peers who stuck to what they love and made it and think to self, "That could have been me". Pursue a career, study a course you love. Don't waste years of your life in a field that doesn't fulfill you.

11 The name you defamed

When you are older, a legacy is very important, the value of your name is crucial. You will ask yourself what is your reputation, what are you leaving behind? Your legacy is a sum total of your actions since youthful days. We write our biography by how we live life everyday. When you look back your path and you see the mud you threw at your own name, the shame you attracted and the little value you have added to the world; you will regret.

12. The wealth you threw away

Are you riding on good money during your productive years? Earning good money? Don't throw away that money in clubs, reckless living and wasteful shopping. Invest with that money, widen your revenue stream, make that money work for you and keep it safe to take care of you in your older years. Leave an inheritance for your loved ones so that you will never say "I wish I knew better"

13. The good love that got away

Is there that great person in your life loving you good? Don't push that person away, or else that person will walk out your life and you will never ever find someone that incredible and who connects with you all your life. It will torment you to grow older with thoughts of "What if I was still with that person?"

14 The parents you despised

When younger, it is easy to show contempt to your parents; what do your parent's know? They are old-fashioned, shady and small -minded. But your parents are still your parents whether you agree with them or not, whatever their style. Don't let your parent die or age separated from you, reconcile and make up. When you get older, you will realize why your parents wanted to be close to you. The older you get, the more you see the value .

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