Educating Nigerian Girls In New Enterprises. (ENGINE)

23/07/2020

LADIES, PLEASE LISTEN......

"PREPARING FOR MARRIAGE" Written by Pastor Dollapo Adelaku.

Anchored by "Apostle ISAAC Okoh"

1.
Do not marry EMPTY HANDED.
It takes two hands to wash a cloth clean. Every promising young man is looking for a helper. If you do not add any value to your home other than s*x, you have become a l***r.
Before you get married, go and learn money making skills. Don't let the load be too heavy for the man. This also boosts your confidence psychologically. Insults come when you are not capable.
While waiting to get married, get busy with financial stuff.

2.
Do not marry EMPTY HEADED.
Go to school. There are a lot of part time and weekend courses. There are uncountable online courses if situations around you are not favourable to attend a regular school.
It will help your psyche in a marriage. We have seen a lot of broken marriages where the man left because to him, the woman was no more a good image maker for him.

3.
Do not marry into a culture you do not understand.
Marry with a sound mind making sound judgments. Know where you are going before you head for it. Don't get married and begin to fight every cultural demands from your in laws. Shine your eyes before you enter.

4.
Do not give birth to the number of children you cannot take care off.
Some children have become psychological misfits courtesy of their parents inability to care for them. Ladies, times have changed. Take responsibility for the number of children you can handle with the help of God. That adage..... it is God that takes care of children is no more Internet compliant. It is now offline. No data!
Go and do family planning before you become a ridicule among your peers. We had a gateman who had 7 children and when his wife delivered the 8th one, he was excited telling everyone. I shook my head. Feeding eight children with 30k salary?
I heard of this young girl who married an 'okada' rider who already had 23 children. The guy died at the age of 31 leaving behind wives who ha

15/05/2020

30/08/2019

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19/06/2019

If you are a single lady, please I beg you to listen to me loud and clear. Please stop taking pills and injections when you are still dating. How could you involve yourself in sacrilegious family planning when you are still single? Don't you know that family planning is for only married couples who are no longer interested in having more children.
Some ladies take pregnancy preventing pills and injection that last one year, one thing you don't know about these drugs is that they are meant to kill your eggs and immobilize your hormones and it weakens your circle. If you would believe me that since you started taking it, you notice that anytime you are to see your me**es, it won't be as regular as it used to be, sometimes these drugs will hold your mensuration for up to three or four months before it normalizes again (You know exactly what I am saying).
I know some ladies may have been living this kind of life for 6 to 10 years now. You are single or still in school, but you prefer going into family planning that will ruin your life. My dear sister, you are calling yourself into serious barrenness to come and to take your life in the future. When that your chewing gum boyfriend that you love so much won't be there for you again, by then he will be going home with his beautiful wife and children, while you will be running from Church to Church, hospital to hospital, herbalist to herbalist just to have a child. If you don't have any other way of preventing this future disaster from coming to you then stay away from s*x until you get married. Period!!!
Even as I am writing this now, there are still millions upon millions of single Nigerian ladies who are carrying Family planning ropes or other pregnancy prevention stuffs inside their womb right now. Hmmm! (what a disaster you are calling upon yourself) just because you want to keep enjoying that useless and worthless lifestyle that will ruin your life completely in the future.
My dear sister, such a life does not last, because it will definitely ruin your future tomorrow (take or leave it). I am only telling you the truth with no biases against women. Finally my dear sisters, I advice you today to save your future.
Protect your eggs!
Protect your womb!
Protect your future!
A word is enough for the wise..

God bless y'all.....

13/06/2019

22/01/2019

THE STORY OF ADÉGBÖRÒs

In those days, ADEGBOROs left Ibadan for Lagos in search of greener pasture. He chose to be carrying loads (Alabaru) on his head at Oyingbo market to earn a living.

Few years after, he bought a cart from his savings and this eased the pain of carrying loads on his head for commercial purposes. The Cart also increased his income and he was able to acquire 6 more of its kind which he rented out to others.

Exactly 8 years in this cart pushing business, Adegboro bought a van which many called BOLEKAJA and learning how to drive, he handled the business by himself. 4 years into the Bolekaja business, Adegboro had been a proud owner of 6 Vans.

Being a bonafide Ibadan son, (omo bibi ilu Ibadan) ADEGBORO built a magnificent building at OJA OBA where the Olubadan Palace was situated when it was time to put a roof on his head.

Many people at this period approached Adegboro to show them the secret behind his success. He simply asked them if they could carry loads on their heads in the market to earn income (alabaru)? And their response had always been "NEVER".

He too would spontaneously say "ENI TI O LE SE ALABARU L'OYINGBO, KO LE SE BI ADEGBORO L'OJA OBA" - this is a replica of the adage also in Yoruba land that says; "ÌSASÙN tabi IKOKO TI YIO J'ATA (OBE), IDI RE A KOKO GBONA". (A pot that wants to consume a palatable soup must have its bottom burnt or heated with fire first).

In Life, to endure is to achieve. No short cut is sustainable. Wealth is built over time in a small bit but in a persistent way!!!!!!
Our children must learn from this true life story. They must shun the get-rich-quick syndrome that's affecting most youths today, many have entered into traps of human traffickers, sold into s*x slaves, drugs, prostitution, and what have you, in desperation for get-rich-quick green pastures. Today, many are still being auctioned for sale in LIBYA.

Sit your children down and teach them the meaning of the popular poem by J.F. Odunjo:

ISE NI OOGUN ISE (Work is the antidote for poverty)

Ise l’ogun ise
(Work is the antidote for poverty)

Mura s’ise ore mi
(Work hard, my friend)

Ise la fi n’deni giga
(Work/Labour is the major tool for elevation)

Bi a ko ba reni feyin ti
(If we do not have anyone to lean on)

Bi ole la’nri
(We appear indolent)

Bi a ko ba reni gbekele
(If we do not have anyone to support us)

A tera mo’se eni
(We simply work harder)

Iya re le lowo lowo
(Your mother might be rich)

Baba re le lesin lekan
(Your father may have a stable full of horses)

Bi o ba gbo’ju lewon
(If you rely on them)

O te tan ni mo so fun o
(You are close to shame and disgrace, I tell you)

Ohun ti a ko ba ji’ya fun,
(Whatever one does not work hard to earn)

Se kii le pe lowo;
(Usually does not last)

Ohun ti a ba fara sise fun,
(Whatever gain one seriously labours for)

Nii pe lowo eni.
(Usually lasts with one)

Apa lara
(Your arm is you relative )

Egunpa niyekan

(your elbow is your sibling)

B’aye ba n’fe o loni
(If the world loves you today)

Bi o ba lowo lowo
(If you have money)

Aye a ma fe o lola
(The world will still love you tomorrow)

Tabi ki o wa ni’po atata
(Or if you are in a prestigious position)

Aye a ma ye o si terin-terin
(The world will celebrate you with smiles)

Je k’o de’ni tin rago
(Wait till you become poor)

Aye a ma yinmu si o
(The world will grimace at you)

Eko si’nso ni d’oga
(Education also elevates one to higher positions)

Mura ki o ko dara dara
(Ensure that you acquire it well)

Bi o si r’opo eniyan
(And if you see a lot of people)

Ti won f’eko s’erin rinrin
(Making mockery of education with laughter)

Dakun ma f’ara we won
(Please do not emulate or keep their company)

Iya n’bo fun’omo ti ko gbon
(Suffering beckons for the unwise child)

Ekun n’be fun’omo to nsa kiri
(Tears are due for the truant child)

Ma f’owuro sere ore mi
(Do not toy with your early years)

Mura si’se ojo’nlo
(Work hard; time waits for no one).

Half a word is enough for the wise.

16/11/2018

If you don't put your talent to use, it will eventually waste away. The longer it stays unused, the more it decreases.

04/10/2018

Set goals to fulfill your dreams
Dreams are not what you see in sleep….Dreams are the things that do not allow you to sleep.

12/09/2018

DON'T FORCE A RELATIONSHIP THAT WAS NOT MEANT TO WORK.
Sometimes it’s better to move on than to hold on to a person who doesn’t understand you. Sometimes your absence will teach what your presence cannot.
You need to stop breaking your heart in trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn’t meant to work. You can’t force someone to care about you. You can’t force someone to be loyal. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be.
Truth is - Sometimes the person you want most is the person you would be best without. We just never realize. You have got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay.
In all you do to show love, Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what should never even have been there even before. You can’t get the relationship you need from someone who’s not ready to give it you.
You have got to feel the same. And I know it’s hard when your heart feels that's the person you could spend forever with. Start to accept that there are not that person you thought they need to be.
And no matter how much you hurt & cry,after you heal & get better & find your match,your future will now bring understanding of why things didn’t work out. It is better to be alone & be happy than to be in a relationship & miserable.
If they see you as an option,then they don't deserve to be a priority in your life. Never keep awake thinking about someone who is deeply in love with someone else. Never just stay a minute thinking about someone who can't spend a second thinking about you.
Leave that person who takes your love for granted & doesn't love you back the way you do, Love should be balanced not based one side. Its better to be single than being in an ugly relationship that will make you miserable. It's just not worth it..be patient, be prayerful, remember better is not good enough but the best is yet to come.
God bless you all
Good morning friends...have a blissful day