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Extraordinary Woman, Owerri (2025)

20/10/2022

THAT GUY IS NO MORE INTERESTED IN YOU!

Why do ladies like to suffer heart breaks before they learn a simple lesson and move on? Don't attach yourself to a man who is obviously no longer interested in you or has put a full stop to your relationship with him. Here are the signs that guy is no longer interested and wants to dump you:

1. HE'S AVOIDING YOU: A man doesn't joke with his time and money. He won't waste his time on anything that won't profit him. If he feels there is nothing to gain in your relationship or he doesn't see you in his future. He starts avoiding you. Get the signal and move back.

2. HE STOPS PICKING YOUR CALLS: No more explanation.

3. HE ALWAYS ABUSES AND INSULTS you anytime you are with him. He is fed up, your presence drives him crazy. He is enduring you, he doesn't want to see you anymore.

4. HE SHAMELESSLY FLIRTS: get the signal. He wants you to get jealous and get out of his life.

5. USE A LADY'S PICTURE AS HIS PROFILE PICTURE: She's not a relative and who is she? A new flame, a new found love? He is double dating, dump him!

6. HE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOU ANY MORE and what the hell are you doing in the relationship?

7. HE STARTS DEMANDING FOR S*X. Some ladies are very stupid! In fact, extremely stupid! Any woman with half a brain knows that when a man hits you for s*x, he doesn't value you one bit. He threatens to end the already dead relationship if you don't give him s*x and you are shaking like a leaf? Chai! Don't you have any value for yourself? Tell that lustful guy to get out of your life if he can't wait for s*x. Dump him with speed!

8. HE COMPARES YOU WITH HIS EX: he should go right ahead and marry his ex if he misses her that much!

9. HE ACCUSES YOU OF THINGS YOU DIDN'T DO and wouldn't listen to explanations. So what are you still doing there? My friend, end that relationship!

Listen, your life is not defined by a man. Don't hang your dignity somewhere and roll in the dust because you want to get married.

Don't allow any man rubbish you. Don't allow men treat you like a pile of s**t. Treat yourself with respect and dignity. Develop the spirit of discernment to know who you are to marry so you won't be going into wrong, abusive relationships and be suffering unnecessary heartbreaks!

Work on your brain so you can think with it. Work with your hands so you can earn your own money. Work on your body and look fabulous so you won't think you are ugly and any man who wanna marry you does you a favour!

Hey, know thy worth! You are a favour carrier! Any man who is fortunate enough to marry you automatically marries favour! "He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from the Lord!" When a man knows the moment you enter his life, his fortune has emerged, he will treat you like gold. Are you gold? Men will treat you the way you treat yourself.

Yes Don't be proud, arrogant or rude! Be humble but add dignity, sound self esteem, fire proof self worth and rock hard value to yourself. Men will treat you like gold.

May you not end up with the wrong man. In Jesus name. Love you loads. Kisses!
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20/10/2022

BEFORE YOU BECOME A WIFE!

1. HAVE SOUND VISION FOR YOUR LIFE
You are more than a cook and baby factory. You are on a earth for a purpose. What is your vision, what is your mission? What is your reason for existence?

2. HAVE A SOURCE OF INCOME
If you have no job or business you are doing and you are looking for an ATM man to dump all your financial responsibility on, you will end up a leech, not a wife, a sucker, not a giver, a liability, not an asset, a burden not a burden bearer! Get a job!

3. TAKE CARE OF YOUR BODY
Some ladies are in their twenties and they look close to their graves, why? How many children have you had? Why are you not firm, smart, healthy and attractive? If you have health issues, darling, pray for healing before you get married. With faith you will be healed. If you eat junks, stop the trash and eat healthy food. Too much sugar, red meat, chocolates are not good for you. They are waiting to affect your body in future.

4. LEARN HOW TO ADDRESS A MAN
You don't talk to a man like your errand boy or primary school mate. You talk to him as your head with respect and honour. If you can't respect a man and regard him as the leader in your relationship, forget about marriage darling or you may end up divorced.

5. LEARN HOW TO COOK
See, men don't joke with their stomach. Learn to cook different types of food and soup. Routine food eventually becomes tasteless and uninviting. Men love adventure. Children love adventure. Cooking different types of soup/ food make your husband stay at home and have no need wandering into bukaterias, cafeterias, eateries etc where daughters of Jezebel may seduce and sn**ch him from you!

6. LEARN ABOUT S*X
Not by practicing for God's sake, you are not yet married. Few months/weeks to your wedding, learn about your s*xual anatomy, s*xuality, reproductive organs, ge****ls, etc. Be familiar with your body and prepare for quality s*x IN MARRIAGE. I get too many chats from naive, ignorant brides and it gets to me. Some even stay off s*x for weeks or months on end after wedding. What's the meaning of that nonsense? If you know you will ma******te or fornicate if you will learn about your s*xuality then wait at least 2 weeks to wedding and read! Take a mirror and look at your va**na, l***a minora, l***a majora, cl****is, va**na entrance, some say if you look close enough you will see your h***n. Each part has its functions in marriage. Get EVERY WOMAN and read. It will help you understand your body better as a woman.

7. BE A PRAYER MACHINE!
A woman who cannot pray is not ready for marriage! Your husband has a great destiny to fulfil, you have a great destiny to fulfil, your children has a great destiny to fulfil and the devil won't fold his arms and watch protect your family by soaking them in prayer! If you are a lazy spiritual bum as a single lady, your prayer life will end up a sorry case after marriage!

Before you become a wife, prepare well so you do not end up a failure in your husbands house. May the Lord grant you understanding.

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!
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20/10/2022

25 REASONS WHY MARRIAGE IS GOOD

1. You get to have someone to come home to and share company with

2. You get to have someone with whom you can have as much s*xual pleasure as you both want

3. You get to have someone to look after and who looks after you

4. You get to walk with someone who is your best friend long term, at a time when even friendships don't last

5. You get to build a future with someone who knows you as an adult. Our parents know who were as children, our spouse knows who we truly are as adults

6. You get to have someone to raise and guide the children with, collective effort

7. You get to have someone who won't give up on you just because of an argument

8. You get to have someone who has your best interest at heart and looks out for you, warns you, corrects and challenges you to be better

9. You get to have someone who shares in your success, your sorrows, your struggles, your good and bad days

10. You get to have a companion. You are not alone, no loneliness. Someone to laugh with and open up to without feeling you are a bother or you are talking too much

11. You get to have someone you are intertwined with to be your strength when you are weak

12. You get to have a prayer partner who prays fervently because whatever affects you affects him/her

13. You get to have a dependable helper you can count on

14. You get to have someone to share responsibilities and roles with at home, lessening the weight

15. You get to have someone to flirt with and be naughty with without judgement

16. You get to have someone who has spent so much time with you that they understand you and can represent you, cover you and get you even without saying a word

17. You get to have someone who worries about you when you are not OK, when an accident happens, when you are quiet or when you come home late

18. You get to have someone to pour your love to knowing that you are not wasting it because this is long term

19. You get to have someone who has given you authority to call on them, ask them for help or do things for you with no pay or demands; all because your spouse loves you and you do the same for your spouse

20. You get to have someone who will be a custodian of your secrets and memories for life instead of talking with person A, then person B, then person C... It is comforting to build with one

21. You get to have someone who teaches you things you never knew, only if you are willing to learn

22. You get to have someone to grow old with whose love has been tried and tested

23. You get to have someone who will continue with your vision and family in case you die

24. You get to have someone you loved and who loved you for life in your brief journey on earth

25. You get to have someone who helps you to fulfil purpose and you two coming together means you can do more

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17/10/2022

8 THINGS THAT HINDER INTIMACY

Intimacy is not just about s*x. Intimacy is the deep connection between two people that are in love. The following are some of the things that hinder intimacy between you and your spouse/partner

1. OVER DEPENDENCY ON S*X
When your time alone together largely focuses on s*x, then you might miss out on the richness of love. S*x can distract. Stop looking at your spouse/partner as a source of pleasure but as a spirit to connect with. Lay naked and cuddle, hug, have pillow talks. It's not always about s*x

2. NO ALLOCATION OF QUALITY TIME
Intimacy can never be rushed. If you and your spouse/partner are constantly in a hurry, you will never have a deep connection. You need time to open up and be vulnerable. There are things you two will never share if you don't give each other ample time

3. PO*******HY
This can lead to a warped view of adult time. It can cloud your head with images and memories of n**e strangers until the adult time between you two gets corrupted. Keep your spirit pure

4. CHILDREN
Children are a gift from God but sometimes you have to keep them at a distance. Find a way to occupy your child/children or even on occasions, let your child/children go for a sleep over to a neighbor's or your parent's place so that you two can be left alone

5. WORK
As you work hard for your family, don't forget to make time for that family. Set boundaries. Don't go with work at home. have hours where it's just for you and your spouse

6. AFFAIRS
When you are having an affair or flirting with others, it distracts you from being purely and wholly intimate with your spouse/partner

7. SUSPICION
When your spouse/partner suspects you of cheating whether you are cheating or not, he/she will hold back and intimacy will be disrupted. This is why you should not only stay faithful, but also make sure you do not do anything that might make your spouse/partner think that you are cheating

8. FEAR
Fear of how one will be received when they open up and be vulnerable keeps many from engaging at a deeper level of intimacy. This is why it is important to make your spouse/partner feel safe so that you two can be real with each other. And when your spouse does trust you with personal issues, offer security even more by loving them with the good and bad that you know about him/her

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17/10/2022

MARRIAGE IS NOT A COMPETITION

1. Stop competing with your spouse who earns more and who contributes the most money. You two are one with an equal stake in the marriage. Both of you should give as you can. Belittling your spouse who earns less than you doesn't motivate him or her to love you and walk with you better

2. Stop wanting to win every argument with your spouse. Too many marriages suffer because the husband and wife want to prove who is more right. Sometimes you have to let arguments go and focus on what is most important: love. It doesn't matter who is right, what matters is that you both feel loved

3. Stop competing who is more educated than the other. Just because you have a Degree, Masters or PhD doesn't mean you look down on your spouse who hasn't gone to formal school to your level. Education is not just about going to University, appreciate your spouse's intellectual might regardless of how many certificates your spouse has. Intimacy doesn't require good grades and awards

4. Stop competing with your spouse who is more loved by the children between you two. Children love mom and dad just the same

5. Stop competing who has done fewer wrongs than the other. Love doesn't keep a record of wrongs. Love covers a multitude of sins

6. Stop competing who is more spiritual than the other. Grow together in prayer and fellowship, build each other up. Knowing God is not a race

7. Stop competing along gender lines, belittling your wife because she is a woman, wishing your husband ill and failure because he is a man just so that you show him what a man can do, a woman can do too. Complement each other, don't fight each other

8. Stop competing who does the most good in your marriage. Stop keeping scores of your good deeds against the good deeds of your spouse. You are not doing your spouse a favor by loving him/her

9. Stop competing who is more romantic or more s*xy between you two. You both have different ways of expressing your desires. Find a rhythm out of your unique expressions instead of forcing your spouse to be like you. Find your dance

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10/10/2022

MARRY YOUR FRIEND

Dear singles,

Please marry your friend

I repeat, marry someone you can talk to

Marry someone who is ready to listen to you any day anytime

Communication is one of the best pillar in marriage and not s*xual intimacy

Couples who often talk, discuss their lives or communicate with each regularly not only have a better understanding with each other, but it also helps them to have a stronger bond with each other.

If you have opened the doors of effective communication with your spouse, you are more likely to experience a happy and peaceful relationship. Better communication means better satisfaction in a relationship in which you discuss everything with each other and thus lesser fights or quarrels

So if you are in a relationship and you find it very hard to communicate with your spouse, or you are always afraid of him because he's the lion of the tribe of himself

You need to think and rethink before you decide to settle for that kind of person

Remember marriage is a lifetime journey that has no end, expect death do you both apart

Communication is very essential, it cannot be pull out

Speak up!
Don't assume!
Ask questions!

Talk to each other, so that you won't have issues in your relationships and Marriage

I pray that the lord gives you your own right partner, that will love you genuinely and unconditional in Jesus name

Cc

02/10/2022

HOW TO LOVE A SUCCESSFUL CAREER WOMAN

1. Don't pursue her for her money or to make yourself look good by having her as a trophy. When she finds out you are using her, she will cut you off instantly. She is not afraid to protect herself

2. Don't expect her to slow down her career growth. She can balance both career and family if you show her support

3. Be the man who talks to her about her heart and emotions. Everyone is talking to her about money, profits and career. Be the one who sees the her others don't

4. Be there for her. Most career women are super women to many but she too, needs someone to lean on

5. Pamper her even when she can afford it. She is not looking at how much money you spend on her, but your kind gestures that make her feel special

6. When she does spend money on you, appreciate her. Don't make her feel you take her kindness for granted just because she has success and wealth

7. Don't fight her success, you two are not in competition. Celebrate her, when she succeeds, you succeed. A secure King doesn't fight his thriving Queen

8. Be her oasis of peace, fun and pleasant escape. Let her run to you to feel like a woman who is cared for, her professional life can be stressful, cut throat and unforgiving

9. Understand when she cannot give you time or when she has to travel, her profession can be demanding. When you treat her right, she will deliberately make time for you

10. Don't fight her social life or be intimidated by her high flying friends. Trust her even as she networks. She is yours, she has chosen you

11. Find out if the smile she wears is genuine. Alot of career women are wearing fake smiles as they break down inside. Go beyond her beautiful mask and Instagram beauty

12. Don't silence her voice. She is opinionated and hasn't been educated and successful to be silenced by an insecure man. As she respects your point of view, respect hers too. Learn to dialogue, her difference of opinion is not an attack. If you don't find her approach loving, tell her "Honey, kindly use a more inviting tone" instead of intimidating her

13. Don't expect her to shelve her dreams for you or for marriage. She has a strong identity, marriage is not meant to stop her but to bless her. She knows there is more to life than marriage. Encourage her in her pursuit of purpose

14. Challenge her. Don't be lazy. She doesn't want a man to baby sit, she wants a man with his own vision and who roars like a King, a life partner she can be proud of

15. Don't be a male chauvinist or hold on to outdated thinking. She has been exposed and will not allow you to put her down in the name of culture that demeans women and elevates men. It is not that she is rebellious, but that she wants to be treated with the love and respect she treats her man

16. Don't expect her to stay with you because of your money. If you mistreat her, she will pack and leave, she can take care of herself, what she needs from you is loyalty and companionship. You cannot keep her hostage

16. Realize that underneath the make up, presentable voice, high heels and fashion; she is actually a simple woman in need of love and is not that complicated

17. If you notice flaws in her, don't judge her, understand her. She might be defensive because many have abandoned her after using her, be patient in your interaction with her. She might seem tough but inside she needs a man to love her and who she can love. Prove to her she can let her guard down, inspire her to be better

18. Give her assurance. Many seek to use her, many gossip about her and hate on her success. Let her count on you to be by her side

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30/09/2022

12 THINGS YOU SHOULDN'T LET YOUR SPOUSE DO

1. DON'T LET YOUR SPOUSE MAKE YOU FEEL WORTHLESS
Even if your spouse insults you, belittles you or rejects you; don't allow him/her to make you feel like a failure, hopeless or suicidal

2. DON'T LET YOUR SPOUSE KEEP YOU FROM GROWING AS AN INDIVIDUAL
Being married doesn't mean you stop growing professionally, mentally and in education. Travel, network, go to school, study as you remain faithful and love your spouse. Your personal growth is your responsibility

3. DON'T LET YOUR SPOUSE KEEP YOU FROM RESPECTING YOUR PARENTS AND THEIR PARENTS
If your spouse doesn't know honour, don't join in. You be one who shows respect to the ones who raised you and your spouse

4. DON'T LET YOUR SPOUSE KEEP YOU FROM LOVING YOUR CHILDREN
Even if you and your spouse are not in good terms, let that not affect the kind of parent you are. Your children are innocent, love them come what may

5. DON'T LET YOUR SPOUSE RUIN THE BOND YOU HAVE WITH TRUE FRIENDS
If you know for sure you have good quality friends who respect your family and mean well, keep those friendships as your spouse remains a priority. Being married doesn't mean you isolate yourself and have no friends. If your spouse is anti-social don't become one too

6. DON'T LET YOUR SPOUSE RUIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD
Never allow your spouse to make you less devoted and committed to the God who created you. Don't turn your spouse into an idol

7. DON'T LET YOUR SPOUSE KEEP YOU FROM TAKING CARE OF YOUR BODY
If your spouse will eat unhealthy, does nothing to take care of self, engages in destructive habits despite your numerous advice; don't do the same. Physical health is all up to you

8. DON'T LET YOUR SPOUSE KEEP YOU IN THE PAST
If you did wrong in the past, you owned up, apologized and changed; but your spouse still keeps judging you based on the past, don't dwell there. Remain honouring your spouse and treating your spouse as you focus on the future

9. DON'T LET YOUR SPOUSE KEEP YOU FROM PEACE
If your spouse is not a lover of peace and he/she keeps quarreling, provoking fights, instigating drama; don't fall for the bait. Don't engage in constant battles, choose peace instead. Speak to your spouse with love, politely disengage from attacks, enjoy your life, enjoy peace

10. DON'T LET YOUR SPOUSE KEEP YOU FROM FULFILLING PURPOSE
If your spouse doesn't believe in your dreams and the legacy you are trying to build despite you trying your best to involve him/her; it hurts but it's OK. Keep on at it. You are the one who will give an account as to why you fulfilled or did not fulfil purpose

11. DON'T LET YOUR SPOUSE KEEP YOU FROM LOVING YOURSELF
As you love your spouse, don't forget to love you. Remember to have a relationship with yourself, to have your "me" time, to pat yourself on the back, to celebrate what makes you you

12. DON'T LET YOUR SPOUSE KEEP YOU FROM BEING THERE FOR HIM/HER
Sometimes your spouse will push you away and put up walls. Your spouse might feel you being there for him/her will make them a burden. Love your spouse with a stubborn love, love your spouse even when they don’t know or want to admit he/she needs you

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24/09/2022

THE TEN COMMANDMENT OF MARRIAGE TO MEN

1. Don't have another woman apart from your wife.

2. Thou shall not speak evil about your wife to your family.

3. Remember the labour of your wife when you were poor. So when you're rich honour her.

4. Don't compare your wife to any woman even your mother.

5. 6 days maximum shall thee work 1 day shall be a Sabbath day for your wife.

6. Honour your father and mother in_ law so that their daughter will not return to them.

7. Don't insult your wife in public so that people will not know her weakness and your foolishness.

8. Forgive your wife 70 x7 in 1 day.

9. Thou shall make your wife happy at all times. Always ask her: Are you okay?

10. Thou shall not say to your wife, leave my house. No matter what. Because she also owns the house.

May God bless your marriage in jesus name!

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13/09/2022

Dear married woman learn to minimise your mistakes.

Your husband is not your father or your brother, he won't forgive you like your father and brothers would

Learn to be excellence, don't allow those kids to go to school late, do their home work on time
Make sure they are not dirty

Keep his house clean, stop wasting food, burning food, destroying things

Men hate wasting money, help them to manage their resources, stop allowing your kids get sick all the time

Care for them, stop cooking bad food, go to youtube and learn new recipes, I do that

Take care of your body, don't get sick because of overweight, dont be lazy in bed because of overweight

Minimise being sick, a man wants a healthy wife

Stop saying you are not in the mood, you don't have to be in the mood, just be availabl and sweet. If you must refuse him, do it with love and an honest reason.

It takes wisdom to build a home, no man is terrible, your attitude makes him terrible.

Cc:

13/09/2022

JUST BEFORE YOU ASK YOUR WIFE FOR S*X...

Arouse her desire for s*x by doing what no other man will ever do to her for her! The tenderness, affection, understanding, compassion and patience of a husband will melt any Margaret Thatcher's heart!

Just this afternoon, my blender broke down! I was preparing to make moin moin and the thing started behaving like a centenarian!

Hubby suggested I use the grinding stone to finish off since we can't repair the machine today. I looked down on the remaining beans and mumbled no one will help me grind...I have loads of other work to do. Couldn't imagine bending my back over a grinding stone!

While checking the lines to see if my clothes are dry, I discovered the grinding stone had disappeared! On getting to the kitchen, hubby was over the stone, rolling and grinding away! He did a more excellent job than I could ever do. My admiration for him was over the tops! He looked much more handsome, s*xy, sweet, regal and wise and wouldn't mind having s*x to the tenth rounds if he asks! Truly, S*X BEGINS IN THE KITCHEN. You need to read that book by Dr Kevin Leman.

However, hubby didn't do it because he wanted s*x. He simply did it out of love and compassion for me. The ripple effect is, I don't mind having s*x if he asks...

No woman is tough. Every tough woman is protecting her broken heart from being shattered! If you see women who act tough, hard, stubborn and cruel, they are the remnant of the heart break, heart attack, cruelty, broken trust, abuse, molestation, domestic violence, shattered hopes and lots more they have suffered!

Every woman is soft at heart and will willingly open up her heart and body to a man who is tender, loving, understanding and very compassionate.

Next time, your wife is resisting your s*xual advances, ask, "Have I shown compassion to her lately? Have I been tender loving, forgiving, patient and understanding?"

If you haven't, please do. It will save your marriage unending frustration and bring eternal bliss to your home.

It is well with your marriage in Jesus' name!

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13/09/2022

4 SIGNS THEY DON'T LOVE YOU

1) THEY DON'T MAKE YOU A PRIORITY

When you love someone, you don't give them attention in your SPARE TIME, rather you SPARE TIME for them no matter how busy your schedule is.

When everything and everyone else comes before you, their family, their job, their career, their friends, their hobbies....... Smell the coffee.

They don't love you enough as they claim.

2) THEY DON'T MAKE COMMUNICATION A BIG DEAL

Someone who loves you wants to talk to you, hear you, DAILY.

That someone can do without hearing from you for as much as a day or worse more with no reasonable reason is a sign that they aren't so into you as you or they think.

3) THEY ARE ONLY THERE WHEN THEY NEED YOU

You are willing to do anything to make them happy, but you'll find out they aren't equally willing to do same for you.

They'd make excuses why they can't do this...... Why they can't do that, why they can't be there, why they can't give you... That you should try and understand.......

Na lie, they don't love you.

4) THEY DON'T SHOW YOU AFFECTION VOLUNTARILY

They never voluntarily do anything sweet for you.

Except you demand for it.

You have to beg them to call you.

You have to remind them before they tell you they love you.
You basically carry the Relationship on your head like gala.
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Refuse to be in a Relationship where you're just an option. It'll end in Tears.

You deserve to love and be loved in return.

"Go Where you are Celebrated, not where you are being Managed and Tolerated"...

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