31/12/2025
I am still trying to figure out how some men reason . Why the refuse to be responsible and account for how the way then use their preeks!
Selfish, self centered. Narcissists!
Read ! 👇
"I have begged and begged you to come back home with my daughters, and I am done begging.
I made a mistake; yes, I agree, and I have apologized countless times. However, you continue to be stubborn and cold-hearted toward me, acting as if I have been the worst husband on earth. I sent you to school, Beatrice, and the job you have today is because of my connections. Yet, over this one mistake, you are giving me attitude and forgetting everything I have done for you.
After we got married, I warned you several times that you were now a wife & should no longer be keeping friends. You remained stubborn and cajoled me into letting you stay in contact with them and allowing them to visit our home. Eventually, I became close to one of them, & out of temptation, something happened between us. She became pregnant and gave birth to twins; I had to relocate them to another town.
I kept this from you for two years to protect your feelings because I truly love you. We have been married for eight years, and you have given me three daughters. While I appreciate that, I am not a fulfilled man because I still need sons. I cannot abandon my boys. I want to bring them home and marry their mother as a second wife so they can grow up with both parents and have a normal upbringing.
I have pleaded with you to allow me to marry this woman, but you refuse, saying you don't want another woman in your home. This is all your fault. You kept friends despite my refusals; perhaps if you had given me a male child, we wouldn't be in this position. Now, you have turned it all around to play the victim. No good wife who wants her marriage to work still keeps friends. Any man in my shoes would understand my situation & would have fallen for the same temptation. What responsible married woman still keeps friends after marriage?
You took my daughters away from me without my permission and left the house. Beatrice, I have made my decision: I have married the mother of my sons. The traditional rites were completed today.
See, this is my wife. I want the world to know that I am not a bad father, nor am I a bad husband. I never asked you to leave, and I have treated you well all these years. I am tired of begging, Beatrice. You're not the only beautiful woman in the world. If you want to leave you can go!, but one thing is for sure:
You are not leaving with my children. Our eldest is only seven years old; they are still too young and they need their father. I am also not signing the divorce papers let’s see how you try to marry another man. And that job you got through my connections? Get ready to lose that, too''
