07/09/2025
How to avoid being depressed after a stressful event
Stressful events can weigh heavily on the mind, and while it’s normal to feel down or shaken afterward, there are healthy ways to reduce the risk of slipping into depression. Here are some practical steps you can try:
1. Acknowledge and process the event
▪️Don’t suppress your feelings—allow yourself to grieve, vent, or reflect.
▪️Journaling or talking about it with a trusted person can help release emotional buildup.
2. Lean on social support
▪️Spend time with friends, family, or support groups.
▪️Sharing your experience and being listened to often prevents isolation, which fuels depression.
3. Take care of your body
▪️Prioritize sleep and rest, since stress often disrupts sleep.
▪️Eat balanced meals and stay hydrated.
▪️Exercise (even gentle walks) helps reduce stress hormones and boosts mood.
4. Practice stress-relief techniques
▪️Mindfulness, or meditation can calm your nervous system.
▪️Engage in hobbies or activities you enjoy to reintroduce pleasure and balance.
5. Create structure
▪️Keep a simple daily routine—waking, eating, working, resting—to prevent feeling lost or overwhelmed.
6. Limit unhealthy coping
▪️Try to avoid alcohol, drugs, or excessive screen time as “escapes”—they can worsen mood long-term.
7. Reframe your thoughts
▪️Instead of focusing only on what went wrong, try identifying what you learned, what you still control, and small positive steps forward.
8. Seek professional support early
▪️If you notice persistent sadness, loss of interest, hopelessness, or thoughts of self-harm lasting more than 2 weeks, it’s important to speak with a doctor, counselor, or mental health professional.
9. Involve God
▪️Pray, read the scriptures, praise and worship, surrender and trust, serve others.
💡 A simple prayer you might use:
“Lord, I give you my broken heart. Heal me, strengthen me, and help me trust Your plan. Fill me with peace, joy, and hope for the future. Amen.”
👉 Everyone responds differently to stress. Some people bounce back quickly, while others need time and extra support. The key is catching yourself early and building habits that protect your mental health.
Stay informed, stay safe
Dr Famba Famba
MD