26/01/2026
IShowSpeedâs encounter with Nigerian women yesterday was a breath of fresh air... a stark contrast to what I saw from the men.
Whoever told you that Nigerian women arenât classy clearly hasnât observed them closely. Yesterday, no Nigerian woman begged IShowSpeed for money or unwarranted attention.
First photo: IShowSpeed sat beside a lady. She didnât pay him any undue attention. He had to start the conversation himself.
Second photo: He stood in a shop with a lady, surrounded by security. She didnât care who he was. To her, he was just another person, and he was the one explaining his personality.
Third photo: A random woman at the mall. He walked up, greeted her, and even complimented her beauty. She remained composed, untouched by a celebrity, fully in control of her aura.
Fourth photo: Jardolita, a talented creator, styled and prepared for the event. She did her thing and left... no fangirling, no begging, no loss of dignity.
Now, compare that with the men. Iâm deliberately not including photos, because it was mostly an embarrassment:
Men begging on the streets, riding on horses, in keke, on foot.
Men; climbing into convo, desperate for attention.
Men kneeling in front of a transparent door, pleading for a crumb of recognition.
Men; being bundled out of the way for obstructing movement and causing a nuisance.
A Male interviewers claiming to be the most popular influencer in Africa, and your question to a 21-year-old was how come he's healthy and strong? Like, you expect a 21-year-old to be in a wheelchair? đ€Łđ
Men forcing him to skate, ignoring his refusal, pushing aggressively.
Men dragging his shirt and putting their hands on him without consent.
Older men chasing, screaming, crying, over a 21-year-old entertainer, utterly oblivious to basic decency and self-respect.
The contrast is just so staggering. The lack of awareness and dignity among Nigerian men is out of hand. Pride, composure, and class seem to have become optional... while Nigeria