Anastasia Alabi-Imokiri-MOE

Anastasia Alabi-Imokiri-MOE I AM A LAWYER, AUTHOR, PREMARITAL & MARRIAGE COUNSELOR, TEEN & CAREER COACH. This page is to share o

The words “I love you” mean nothing to your wife after your betrayal of her trust and your wedding vows.Here is why 👇🏾 1...
27/02/2026

The words “I love you” mean nothing to your wife after your betrayal of her trust and your wedding vows.

Here is why 👇🏾

1.You said it while you were saying it to someone else.
Those words lost exclusivity. Love cannot exist where there is duplication and secrecy.

2.You said it while lying.
Love spoken alongside deception teaches her that words are tools, not truth.

3.You said it without protection.
If you loved her, you would have protected her reality, her body, her safety, and her dignity. You did not. Most time you even brought back infections to her or had other children outside that she needs to keep seeing like as trauma trigger reawakening her pain and rubbing salt endlessly on her injury keeping it fresh.

4.You said it while choosing yourself.
Your behaviour showed that your comfort, validation, and escape mattered more than her wellbeing. And the fact that you persisted in that betrayal without genuine repentance, remorse or restitution. You kept provoking her by becoming a perpetual cheat.

5.You said it with no cost to you.
Real love costs something. Integrity. Transparency. Discomfort. Loss of fantasy. Your words were cheap because they required nothing and nothing changed in your behaviour and actions.

After betrayal, love is no longer proven by language or mere words alone.

Nite: After betrayal, love is proven by restraint, consistency, accountability, and changed character. 👌🤏🤏🤏🤏

Until your life and actions backs up your mouth,
“I love you” is just noise and a ridicule.👎🙅

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26/02/2026

"Trauma is influenced by what we see, hear and experience, it shapes us in ways we don't even know."
Ignoring trauma, rather than addressing it, is the fastest way to self destroy and affect everything we have and have built.

Is the Nigeria Law AI savvy???🤔💭🤷👂✍️I was asking my husband this the other day, if Nigerian laws and the legal system (c...
25/02/2026

Is the Nigeria Law AI savvy???🤔💭🤷👂✍️

I was asking my husband this the other day, if Nigerian laws and the legal system (courts and judges) are even ready for what is coming?

Do we have AI experts, technicians and laws to tackle, distinguish and verify fabricated and AI generated evidence like pictures, videos, audio and documents, all doctored, altered and fabricated, from the real authentic stuff?

If not, we are on a long thing legally in this country while using social media and becoming versed in AI usage.

Just imagine scenarios like the fabricated and doctored tweets on the current Simigate saga, what if a mob rose up from online to physically stalk and assault her or someone else in her similar situation offline based off of what they are accused of saying or posting online but later they are vindicated as untrue and doctored, who will compensate such a victim or bring the mob to justice? Jungle justice? Can we curb it?

It's crazy. We must nab and stop this abuse and misuse of AI and such technologies from becoming a norm or it will do more harm even beyond here.

Also laws should be made to differentiate fake from real evidence and also set a deterrent punishment and punitive damages for when the use of AI is abused, erroneously or maliciously used and in aid of crime in any way.

The earlier the better. A stitch in time.....🧐🧠🫆👣

25/02/2026

"The test of your true character is how you respond to bad character.
If you are good to people who are good to you, that is a normal thing, everybody does that. BUT if people are mean to you or do you wrong and you are still nice to them, then, that is your TRUE CHARACTER!."

25/02/2026

She said "I am sitting right next to you .... and I miss you."😲🥹🫢
Bro, Sis you need to do better, don't leave your spouse lonely even by your side, don't freeze them out, nothing is more important than him or her. Hug them, kiss and gist about the day's events or your plans for each other and your future together.

25/02/2026

"Anything that happened to you that drives you towards God is not evil, pls don't call it evil, it's the mercy of God.
Whatever happened to you, whether pain, heartbreak, struggles, sickness, loss or disappointment, if it brought you closer to the person of Jesus, then the mercy of God is at work."

"If you ever felt st&p!d know that I was dating a guy who was che@ting on me with a girl, and I found out and he said he...
24/02/2026

"If you ever felt st&p!d know that I was dating a guy who was che@ting on me with a girl, and I found out and he said he loved both of us and can’t choose, so it’s either I stay and share or go. So I stayed.

If you’ve ever felt st&p!d, know that I tried to become friends with my boyfriend’s other girlfriend to make the relationship work out.

If you’ve ever felt st&p!d, know that the day my boyfriend was traveling to go see his girlfriend because she was in another city, I helped him pack his bags and even accompanied him to the airport.

If you’ve ever felt st&p!d, know that whenever the girlfriend was in our city visiting, I would either give them space completely or take turns. If I slept there today, I would give them three days to be alone.

If you’ve ever felt st&pid, know that at the time when he told me they had br0k£n up, I found out he l!£d, but I had to pretend because telling him I knew would make him m@d and he would br£ up with me, and I didn’t want that to happen. He eventually found out and broke up with me.

If you’ve ever felt st&p!d, know that after the breakup he would call me for g£n!t@l meet and greets, and I would rush there, and in the middle of mekwe he would tell me, “Don’t overthink this, this is just g£n!t@l meet and greet, not a relationship,” and I would cry and still continue.

If you’ve ever felt st&p!d, know that this person proudly introduced both of us to his friends as his girlfriends. If you’ve ever felt st&p!d, know that the other girl and I even started anco(matching outfit).

If you’ve ever felt st&p!d, know that I still did not have any shred of decency to walk out of it. He did it for me, and I begged and w@iled, and he didn’t take me back. And that was the only thing that ended that relationship..."

- Lady shares how she stayed with a boyfriend who loved two women, helped him visit his lover, and endured p@in even after bre@kup.

From gistreel.

Just imagine this stpidity just bcos he had money, two girls devalued themselves.🙄😤😳🙅

24/02/2026

I just heard a criminal investigator on ID say "women kill too, whether from jealousy, possessiveness or the need to be the only woman in man's life, they kill the other woman, so nothing new or shocking here." I shock 😲🤯😱😳🙆🙅

24/02/2026

Na who be that, na diplomatic MOE on the beat 😂🫣🤪🥴

24/02/2026

The disagreements in the early days of marriage to understand each other as two newly weds from different backgrounds is not a toxic relationship. It becomes toxic when that becomes the norm. No joy, no friendship, no laughter or peaceful days. Toxic is consistent conflicts with hurtful words and actions. Run oh. You both need help, come for counseling pls. 08055643722

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