02/02/2026
FE@R WOMEN. AFTER OVER 5 YEARS TOGETHER
Ladies are really wick€d.My girlfriend who officially left my house and broke up with me in October last year,got married on Saturday.This is a woman I had been with since 2020 a woman I shared my life with.We stayed together for years.We laughed together,struggled together,and planned a future together.Yet all of that ended just like that.Our pr0blems started about three years ago when she began pressuring me to learn tech and get a job.I kept asking her,how much are they even paying in Nigeria that I should rush into getting a job? Tech people are not even making good money.i asked her to calm down and trust me,but she never did. Instead,she focused on the fact that I play video games often and kept calling me lazy,and keep saying she can’t marry a street boy(yahoo) that I should get a life and being responsible,Street money does not come often,but I believed with my whole heart that one day big money would come and my story would change.i had hope.I had dreams.But she said I was not ready for life.She mocked my faith in the future and told me to stop waiting for imaginary money,especially since my father does not have any inheritance to leave for me.Those words cut deep.Because she used her own money to buy food in the house,she slowly began to talk to me with disrespect.The respect disappeared.as if I had suddenly become nothing to her.Despite everything, I made sure I paid the house rent,even if it meant borrowing money to do so.I was not playing with life,we all know how the country is.i had real plans to marry her.She was doing online business at first,but in October she got a remote job and packed out. She never told me about it.We were not sleeping in the same room and we had not been on talking terms for months because of her constant complaints of me playing games,I was an*gry and hvrt,and I didn’t call her either.The only time she reached out to me was to ask that I return the money I borrowed from her.Nothing else mattered to her again.And now,this same woman went ahead and married an older white man in his 40s on Saturday.I keep asking myself was she already d@ting this man while she was still living in my house? Because she didn’t allow me touch her again for like 3months before she packed out,After everything we went through together,after all the sacrifices and years,five years just vanished like they meant nothing.Why are ladies like this? How do you leave a young man of 33 for a man in his 40s? She is just 30 years old.Why couldn’t she wait just one or two more years for me to rise,for my story to change?When I called her friend to ask why she did this to me,the excuses I heard broke me even more. She said my girlfriend told her that I am not ready to be responsible.she said I am not a kind person because I didn’t buy her med!cine when she was sick,and she had to go and get it herself,Can you imagine? As if love is measured by one moment.It’s not even as if the place she went to get the m€dicine was far.she said I disrespect her,even in front of my friends.she said I only want the outside world to see me as a good person while inside I am a devil.that she didnt even have even wig from me,that not like I give her money,that she take care of her bills and I also drain her with my own bills,that I only talk and talk no actions,that I don’t have any plans,just living for the moment,that she regretted wasting 5years of her life thinking I will change,There are many other things her friends said things too p@inful to repeat just silly excuses used to justify her leaving.I have tried to call her again and again,but her number is no longer connecting.That silence hvrts more than words.Fear women.After over five years together,how could she move on so fast,as if I never mattered at all?fear who no fear women,in all of these I only che@ted ones and that was the first year we started dating,and she didn’t find out,I was faithful in the relationship but she said it’s because I’m broke reason I’m not cheating,Nigeria women sha
