22/03/2026
Black Sunday.
Today feels like another black Sunday for me… my story is short, but really p@inful.
Growing up, my mom always taught us that for a wife to keep her home and make her husband happy, she should do her best to support him spiritually, emotionally, s3gxually, and even through good care at home. She used to say that if a man is truly satisfied at home, he won’t look outside just like a well-fed child won’t crave or steal from strangers.
I’ve honestly done all these and even gone the extra mile, but I guess I’m among the unlucky ones in marriage. Ladies, if your husband is faithful, pls appreciate him you are truly blessed. Treat him well, value him, and don’t take him for granted. Sadly, many men today don’t act like real men.
Today, my husband did the worst. I’ve always suspected he was che@ting I’ve seen signs but I never caught him in the act. Whenever I confronted him, he denied it, even when it was obvious. Sometimes he apologized and promised to change, even swearing he would.
This morning, after dropping me and our baby at church, he secretly made plans to meet another woman in our home. We entered the church compound together, and I went to the nursing mothers’ section. Unknown to me, he left, took the car, and went back home.
When I came out to get something from the car, I noticed it wasn’t there. I msg’d him on WhatsApp, called him several times no response. My instincts told me to go home. I booked an Uber, and when I got there, I saw the car parked outside.
I went in… and met my husband with another woman on our matrimonial bed.
I broke down completely. How could he do this in our home, on our bed?
Did I marry wrong,Haven’t I done enough as a wife,Have I ever denied him anything love, care, or intimacy? Why am I being treated this way,
I always wanted to marry once and build a lasting home. I never planned to move from one man to another.
What did I do to deserve this,how will lay on this same bed and have segz with him without mixed feelings,I don't starve him s3gxually, I always give him more than enough...My body belongs to him,everything about me I have given to him to do as he wishes so tell me what's left that he has to go out and not be satisfied with me... I still love him very much,how do I get him to change completely, I can't go out there to start over again looking for another man... What do I do... Pls post this and hide my ID...