Secret Of Human Happiness, Calabar-Cross Rivers, Ugep (2025)

28/03/2024

The greatest feeling in life is to find someone who knows your faults and weaknesses but still willing to embrace you with so much love ❤️ without doubt...

26/03/2024

“Whatever is happening in your marriage, there is no justification for cheating.”

04/08/2023

Maintaining good relationships with family and friends is good for your health, memory and longevity.

29/07/2023

A successful marriage doesn't require a big house, a prefect spouse, a million dollars or an expensive cars. You could have million dollars, expensive cars, Luxurious mantions and still have a miserable marriage. A successful marriage requires honesty, undying commitment, unselfless love, understanding, good communication and The most high God at the center of your marriage..

24/01/2023

Do you love your wife? I know you will say YES. But that is not the question. The real question is: does your wife feel loved? Think about it and keep the answer aside.

When a woman feels loved, she cannot hide it. The signs appear all over her. She makes it clear in her speech and in her actions. She blushes when her man is mentioned. She hardly completes a conversation without mentioning him. She develops goosebumps when she sees or holds him. She loves him more than she loves anyone else. She rushes to talk to him whenever she needs to talk. She feels totally safe around him.

When a woman feels loved, She obeys her husband wholeheartedly. She treats him like a king without feeling like a servant. She behaves like a queen without any sign of arrogance. She defends his honour and protects his property. She guards him jealously. She stays with him, no matter what. She supports him when he is rising and encourages him when he falls.

Dear men, when you love your woman, make sure she feels it. Say it loud and clear. Show it openly. Love the people who matter to her. Love her aspirations and dreams. Love the things she's passionate about. If there is anything you don't love about her, tell her and help her change. Marriage is meant to be laden with love and mercy. When a woman feels loved, she can move mountains just for you. Love her with your whole heart because She is a gift from God to you!!!!

04/01/2023

❣️Rules for a Happy Marriage❣️

1. Never both be angry at the same time.

2. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.

3. If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate.

4. If you must criticize, do it lovingly.

5. Never bring up mistakes of the past.

6. Neglect the whole world rather than each other.

7. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.

8. At least once every day say a kind or complimentary word to your life partner.

9. When you have done something wrong, admit it and ask for forgiveness.

10. Remember it takes two to make a quarrel. and the one is the wrong is the one who does the most talking.

My Jah bless all our marriages❣️❤️🌹🌹❣️❤️

20/11/2022

*ADVICE TO ALL MEN*

1. You cannot settle all financial expenses in one day. Those who did are stressfully sick and some are buried already.

2. Please create time to rest, it is not a sin to sit down , put up your legs on the table and pick popcorn whilst reading a book or just relaxing

3. Please sleep if need be; that headache will go. Those who refuse to take vacation, or leave, or time out or rest time, their families are missing them because they have gone untimely to their maker.

4. Stop taking sedatives to sleep, you are destroying your brain and organs. At a point you will begin to forget things. Relax the brain , worry less, think less, laugh more , smile more. Everything will pass with time.

5. Sometimes go and sit outside quietly on your own, do nothing say nothing , just admire God's handiwork, breathe in fresh air calmly. Hurry not.

6. Stand by your mirror smile to yourself, laugh , dance, sing, that turns on a positive aura around you so you can glow.

7. Go buy yourself a snack or two with drink if you choose to do so. Just do something for yourself, so you offload the things in your head.

8. If you are not feeling well say it , do something about it, go to health centre, hospital or call a nearby nurse, do not sit around, your life matters .

9. Check your blood pressure and sugar level occasionally, whether you are sick or not. It has saved a lot of men in the past. Trust me on this.

Remember to share with all the men you love and let them enjoy life in good health and abundance.

Gentlemen this is a reminder to all of you.

You are important and must take care of ourselves

14/11/2022

HOW TO SETTLE DISAGREEMENTS IN YOUR MARRIAGE

1. Pray for calmness and unity in your marriage

2. Praise your spouse more for what he/she has done. This makes your spouse less defensive and open to your suggestions

3. Do not introduce difficult conversations when you don't have enough time to talk

4. Do not introduce difficult issues when things between you two are shaky. The best time to talk about them is when things are at peace between you two

4. Don't develop a record of judging your spouse's past

5. Do not talk down to your spouse as if to suggest you know better or you are superior

6. Before you suggest something to your spouse, ask your spouse what his/her suggestion is

7. Do not force your point of view

8. Be ready to lose arguments. Cede ground for the sake of your marriage. The more peaceful you are, the sooner your spouse will come around

9. Don't perpetually talk about issues. They will drain your marriage. Change the conversation. Make the talks brighter

10. Pray together about the issue as a couple. The Holy Spirit will bring about understanding and unity

11. Do not magnify the issue. Relax. Don't panic

12. Don't be in a rush to conclude the issue. Rush will give the both of you too much pressure and tensions will rise. Don't make the issue a matter of life and death of your marriage

13. Always speak with a tone of love even when correcting your spouse. Use words such as "My love...", "Honey I think..." Your love should never be in doubt.

10/11/2022

"Facts About Your Wife"

1- Your wife is not perfect, forgive her.

2- Your wife is the bone of your bone, do not break her.

3- Your wife is a gift, appreciate her.

4- Your wife is a rare gem, guide her jealously.

5- Your wife is your best friend, be friendly with her.

6- Your wife is your joy, nourish her.

7- Your wife is to be cherish, be cheerful to her.

8- Your wife is your portion, cherish her.

9- Your wife is not a devil, don’t dump her.

10- Your wife is not only good for s*x, carry her along in every issue.

11- Your wife is not your enemy, encourage her.

12- Your wife is not a family material, never commit her unto the hand of your family members.

13- Your wife is not your rival, don’t compete with her.

14- Your wife is a female gender, honor her.

15- Your wife is not common, don’t compare her.

16- Your wife is not a wash hand base, stop abusing her.

17- Your wife is a weaker vessel, handle her with care.

18- Your wife is a beautiful queen, celebrate her.

19- Your wife is not a fighter, don’t fight her.

20- Your wife is not a punching bag, don’t beat her.

21- Your wife is not a game, don’t play her.

22- Your wife need foreplay, don’t r**e her.

23- Your wife is a hook, get hook to her.

24- Your wife is all you love, praise her.

25- Your wife is important, honor her.

26- Your wife is what you make her to be, accept her.

27- Your wife is your joy, pursue her.

28- Your wife needs your honor, never embarrass her in the public.

29- Your wife is not a knife, be nice to her.

30- Your wife is a distinct personality, never compare her to any work.

31- Your wife is loyal, don’t be suspicious of her.

32- Your wife is not a fool, listen to her advice.

33- Your wife is not malicious, do not keep malice with her.

34- Your wife is the best friend you can have, befriend her.

35- Your wife is not a napkin, do not misuse her.

36- Your wife is not your house girl, support her in the kitchen.

37- Your wife is passionate, do not by- pass her.

09/11/2022

Sisters, As a wife, you should be your husband’s greatest supporter. Encourage him to achieve his goals in life and give him a shoulder to lean on when he is upset. Be a counsellor and a source of inspiration to him when things go wrong. Allow him to help you too.

Brothers, As a husband, you should be your wife’s greatest supporter. Encourage her in her activities and give her a shoulder to lean on when she is upset. Be a counsellor and a source of inspiration to her when things go wrong.

07/11/2022

BIG SECRETS IN MARRIAGE!

Secret 1

Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.

Secret 2

Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

Secret 3

Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

Secret 4

Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

Secret 5

To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:
Ignorance
Prayerlessness
Unforgiveness
Third party influence
Stinginess
Stubbornness
Lack of love
Rudeness
Laziness
Disrespect
Cheating
Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

Secret 6

There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages.

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