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Series 5

IF YOU ARE EASILY HURT, READ THIS!!

💥 AVOID TOXIC PEOPLE:

Do you know why? Because you are flexible, their deposition may easily affect you. This is why you are always hurting by their behavior

Who is a toxic person?

A toxic person is anyone whose behavior adds negativity and upset to your life.

Many times, toxic people are dealing with their stress and traumas, and this makes them behave irrationally toward people around them

They are angry birds

They are bitter

They are sadist

They are fault-finders

They always spread negative vibes everywhere

They never see anything good in anyone or anything

They are the first-grade complainer, you are just the opposite of such a person, you are always happy, always positive, always cheerful, and looking beautiful, if you keep hanging around them, they automatically see you as a treat because you two are just like light and darkness that can never cohabit. Do yourself a favor and walk pass

In my little life and as an emotional pastor's wife, I have suffered a lot at the hands of toxic people, they always see me as a treat, they spread rumors that I show off and my joyful disposition is always a problem to them, this makes me to always have an ark enemy whenever I have a toxic person around me. I believe you can also relate to this, right?

The best solution is, when you have such a person around, avoid them, when they turn right you turn left, and do whatever you can to avoid them. But always know that you are not at fault and nothing is wrong with you, they are the one that has problems and since you can't help them, leave them. You may ask, what if they are my spouse or close family? I pray for grace for you but don't take anything they do to heart instead pray to God on their behavior because they need healing on your part, make a choice not to be hurt by whatever they do anymore, by the time they realize that you keep smiling despite what they are doing, they will let you be.

Your life is in your hands, choose to enjoy it, don't allow anyone to dump their refuse into your beautiful life, keep smiling, keep moving, you are just too beautiful to be too emotionally drained. God bless you

I just hope this helps someone just as it has helped me.

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©Olu Comfort.
Family life coach and Author

14/10/2023

Series 6

IF YOU ARE EASILY HURT, READ THIS!!

💥 DON'T ALLOW YOUR MOOD TO DEPEND ON HOW PEOPLE TREAT YOU

Remember that I mentioned in Series 1 that you are easily hurt because you are too emotional and another reason why emotional people get hurt is because they allow their mood to depend on how people treat them.

Let me explain

An emotional person always looks at people's faces a lot, you take note of who greeted you and who did not, who greeted you properly and who did not and you allow all of these to affect you badly

An emotional person can start crying because someone looks at them somehow or because someone makes a mean comment about them

If their spouse did not call on time, they may refuse to eat and start crying.....he or she didn't love me😭

If their friend did not give them a compliment about the beautiful dress they put on, wahala, they may go back home and change the dress thinking it's not beautiful just because nobody complimented the dress.

This set of people finds it difficult to enjoy any kind of relationships, especially marriage

They have enemies everywhere they go

They can not sustain friendship for a long time, and they will eventually break up with them

The problem is not the people, the problem is "you" you seek people's validation too much

See, I am not condemning you, how would l? I was once like this and it ruined many things for me but now I have rebranded myself and I can say boldly, that I am enjoying the best of God in all my relationships

It's easy to fall into the trap of seeking validation and approval from others, but this can be detrimental to our emotional well-being. When we base our emotions on someone else's behavior or opinion, it puts us in a vulnerable position to be hurt.

It's important to remember that how people treat us is a reflection of their thoughts, emotions, and experiences, and not necessarily a reflection of our worth. We should strive to build our self-worth and confidence from within so that we can maintain emotional stability, regardless of how people may treat us.

Learning to detach from these emotional dependencies can be challenging, but no worries, I am ready to work through this journey with you.

Remember, you have the power to control your emotions and reactions. Don't allow others to hold that power over you. Work on finding inner peace and confidence, and don't let anyone take that away from you.

Three powerful secrets as helped me out of this emotional hurt and I am ready to teach them for a giveaway price

Remember, you can not stop people from hurting you as long as you are in the land of the living but you can rebrand yourself to be in control of your emotions instead of your emotions controlling you.

Stay empowered and in control of your emotions. You got this!

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Take advantage of the early bird discount now!! Pay N2500 instead of N4000 Pay to Zenith
Agbekuyide Comfort Omolanke
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The early bird's discount ends on Friday





©Olu Comfort.
Family life coach and Author

11/10/2023

𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐲 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐒𝐩𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐲 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐂𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞𝐬

What is marry?
Marry means to join together or combine something together

When you accept to marry someone that means you two are joined together physically, spiritually, emotionally and culturally

Culture is a way of life

Everyone one with their own culture
Different people with different cultures.

This implies that accepting to get married to someone automatically means you accepted to marry his or her culture too

You can't separate culture from human existence

Whoever you get married to, whatever is their culture shouldn't be a problem to you, especially when it's not against your faith

If you get married into a tribe that loves honor, give it to them, you know them before accepting to get married to their son or daughter

If you open your eyes and accept to marry a Yoruba man, you must be prepared to knee down and honor the family members all the days of your life, that's their ways and culture, if you are too proud to do it or your own culture do not do it, you shouldn't have agreed to get married to their child in the first place, so stop complaining.🤫

If you are married to a tribe who honors their in-laws by giving wrappers, money and drinks, you must continue to do so all through your life with them, you knew that is their culture before accepting to get married to their child 🤷

Embracing your spouse's culture is one of the ways to show your love, loyalty and acceptance. If you can't do it, don't go there.

However, as a Christian before getting married, it is important to talk about cultures, agreed on what is right for you as a child of God and what's not, stick to the ones which align with your faith and with the word of God, especially when it has to do with honouring your in-laws or giving and showing care for your in-laws.

Stop complaining that your in-laws do not love you, when you are disrespecting their cultures and ways of life, there are no two ways to it, if you can't behave like them, you can't belong to them.

Accepting your spouse's culture is respecting the person of your spouse and sacrificing for your love, marriage is about sacrifice.

However, know that you can't please the world but be sure that you are always doing the right thing.

God bless you.

©Olu Comfort
Family life coach