16/03/2026
Dear postpartum mama,
You are 6 weeks postpartum.
The doctor said you are "cleared."
But you still feel:
— heavy "down there"
— disconnected from your body
— like your core is just... absent
— embarrassed by your tummy
— afraid to jump, run, or sneeze
And nobody told you this was still happening.
Nobody gave you a plan.
They just sent you home.
This post is what that appointment SHOULD have included.
10 things you deserved to know at your 6-week postpartum checkup:
1. "Cleared" does not mean "healed"
2. Your pelvic floor needs proper rehabilitation, not just time
3. You may have diastasis recti and not know it
4. Pain with intimacy after childbirth is not something you just accept
5. Your bladder should never control your life
6. Postpartum depression and pelvic dysfunction are often linked
7. The "bounce back" culture is lying to you
8. You don't need to lose weight to heal your core
9. Back pain after childbirth is not forever.
10. You deserve a specialist - not just general advice
Read everything in the comments. I wrote it for YOU. 👇