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I Must Marry Right & My Marriage Must Work., Wuse (2026)

06/02/2026

7 GODLY VIRTUES THAT ATTRACT GOD INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIP

A relationship becomes stronger, sweeter, and more secure when God is invited to be at the center. But God is not attracted by outward beauty, sweet words, or social status, He is drawn by virtues that reflect His heart. When these virtues are present in a relationship, His presence, peace, and blessings naturally take over.

1. Love That Reflects Christ
True love is not selfish or manipulative; it is patient, pure, sacrificial, and kind. When two people choose to love the Christ-way, God delights in dwelling with them.
“Let all that you do be done in love.” 1 Corinthians 16:14

2. Honesty and Transparency
God cannot bless a relationship built on secrets, lies, or pretense. Honesty opens the door for trust, healing, and divine guidance.
“The Lord detests lying lips…” Proverbs 12:22

3. Prayerfulness
A praying couple becomes a powerful couple. When both partners make prayer a lifestyle, God steps into their challenges, decisions, and future.
“Pray without ceasing.” 1 Thessalonians 5:17

4. Humility
Pride destroys relationships; humility builds them. A humble heart allows God to correct, guide, uplift, and bring peace.
“God gives grace to the humble.” — James 4:6

5. Forgiveness
Relationship grows when the heart learns to forgive quickly and sincerely. Unforgiveness invites bitterness, but forgiveness invites God.
“Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” Colossians 3:13

6. Obedience to God’s Word
When partners follow biblical principles, purity, respect, self-control, patience, God becomes the foundation and pillar of the relationship.
“Blessed are they that hear the word of God and keep it.” Luke 11:28

7. Compassion and Kindness
Where kindness is lacking, love grows cold. Where compassion flows, God’s presence settles. Treating each other with gentleness attracts God’s favor.
“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted…” Ephesians 4:32

If you want God to dwell richly in your relationship, cultivate these virtues daily. A relationship built on godly values becomes unbreakable, unstoppable, and unforgettable.

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06/02/2026

“I’m in my 4th marriage and I have still not found peace.”
I just read a message where someone said the above statement.
My heart ached, because this is a reality for many.

But let me say this clearly: Peace is not found in marriage. Peace is first found in Christ.
Marriage does not create peace, it only reveals the peace you already carry within.

When a man or woman finds true peace in Christ, the Prince of Peace Himself will lead them to someone who has also found that same peace in Him. Then He brings both hearts together to form a home where He reigns as the foundation.

The peace Christ gives is not the temporary type the world offers.
It is a peace that flows from the Fountain of Life, a peace that settles the heart, guides decisions, and sustains marriage through storms.

You cannot find peace in a marriage you did not bring peace into. Peace is not inside the marriage, peace is brought into the marriage.

So before you step into marriage, find the Prince of Peace first, let Him shape your heart, calm your spirit, and prepare your character. Only then can you build a home where peace truly dwells.

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06/02/2026

"The First Ministry"

The crusade was over. The shouts of “Man of God!” still echoed in Pastor Daniel’s ears as he returned to his hotel room. The stage lights were gone, but the praise of the crowd still rang in his mind.

He knelt to thank God for another successful meeting, yet, for the first time in years, there was no flow. His words felt heavy. His spirit felt empty.

As he sat in the dimly lit room, suddenly… the atmosphere changed. A holy stillness filled the space. His breath caught in his chest. Then, a voice, gentle yet piercing, spoke.

GOD: “Daniel.”

PASTOR DANIEL: (trembling) “Yes, Lord?”

GOD: “I have seen your zeal for My work. I have seen the stadiums filled, the souls saved. But I am not pleased.”

PASTOR DANIEL: (shocked) “Not pleased? Lord… I have given You my life, my strength, my all!”

GOD: “Your all? You have given Me the nations… but withheld your home. You have carried the burdens of strangers, but dropped the hearts I entrusted to you first. Daniel… your wife is lonely. Your children are fatherless while their father yet lives.”

Tears began to fall. The Lord continued, His words cutting like a sword.

GOD: “Have you not read? ‘If a man cannot rule his own household, how shall he care for the church of God?’ (1 Timothy 3:5) And again I said, ‘Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church.’

(Ephesians 5:25) And to fathers I said, ‘Do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.’ (Ephesians 6:4)”

The visions came like lightning, his wife crying alone, his children blowing out birthday candles without him, his family altar cold.

GOD: “Daniel… I will not bless a ministry that grows at the expense of the home I gave you. Set your house in order. Your marriage is your first pulpit. Your children are your first congregation. Win them, and you will have truly won.”

The voice faded, but the weight remained. That night, Pastor Daniel made the hardest decision of his ministry, he canceled every upcoming meeting. People murmured, “He is backsliding,” but Daniel knew… he was obeying.

When he walked into his home, his wife stood frozen in the doorway, tears in her eyes. His children ran into his arms, holding him as if afraid he would disappear again. Days turned into weeks of laughter, prayer, and healing. The family altar was rebuilt. Joy returned.

One quiet morning, as he prayed with his wife and children, the Lord appeared again, not with rebuke this time, but with revelation.

GOD: “Now that your house is in order, I will entrust to you mysteries about marriage and the home that many ministers are missing. Tell them, no revival is complete if it skips the living room. No anointing is pure if it flows around the family but never through it.”

From then on, Pastor Daniel’s greatest sermon was not preached from a platform, it was lived at his dining table. And the world saw a truth: a man’s public ministry is only as strong as his private home.

Do not sacrifice your home on the altar of public success. Your spouse, your children, these are your first flock. If you lose them, no crowd can replace them. Build your home first, and Heaven will smile on all you do.

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06/02/2026

SIX CLEAR WAYS GOD LEADS A PERSON INTO MARRIAGE.

Marriage is not something God leads people into carelessly.
When God is involved, His guidance is peaceful, scriptural, and purposeful, not pressured, rushed, or confusing. God does not play games with destinies, and marriage is too important for guesswork.

Below are six clear ways God leads a person into marriage, supported by Scripture:

1. Inner Peace and Deep Conviction
When God is leading, there is an inner witness of peace that settles the heart, even when circumstances are not perfect. This peace does not mean absence of challenges, but it means absence of confusion and fear. Anxiety, constant unrest, and emotional turbulence are often signs to pause and seek clarity. “Let the peace of God rule in your hearts” (Colossians 3:15).

2. Alignment with God’s Word
God will never lead you in a way that contradicts His Word. Any relationship that encourages compromise, disobedience, immorality, or spiritual decline is not from God, no matter how attractive it appears. Scripture is God’s measuring line for every decision, including marriage. “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path” (Psalm 119:105).

3. Godly Counsel and Repeated Confirmation
God often confirms His will through trusted spiritual leaders, mentors, parents, or mature believers who are not emotionally entangled in the situation. When God is leading, counsel will align, not confuse. Isolation and secrecy are red flags, but confirmation brings clarity and stability. “In the multitude of counselors there is safety” (Proverbs 11:14).

4. Shared Values and Purpose
God brings together people who can walk in agreement spiritually, morally, and directionally. Purpose alignment matters more than hobbies or personality similarities. When two people are moving in opposite spiritual directions, unity becomes a struggle instead of a blessing. “Can two walk together unless they are agreed?” (Amos 3:3).

5. Character Before Chemistry
God prioritizes who a person is becoming over how they make you feel. Physical attraction fades, but character sustains marriage. God looks for humility, integrity, responsibility, self-control, and reverence for Him, because these qualities carry a marriage through seasons. “Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord shall be praised” (Proverbs 31:30).

6. Providential Circumstances and Divine Timing
When God leads, He arranges events, timing, and opportunities in a way that feels ordered, not forced. Doors open naturally, obstacles align, and both parties grow into readiness. God’s will does not require manipulation, desperation, or pressure. “A man’s heart plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps” (Proverbs 16:9).

When God leads into marriage, it becomes more than a romantic decision, it becomes a divine assignment. Such marriages are marked by peace, purpose, growth, and grace, even in difficult seasons.

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05/02/2026

The hands of mother and son😁 🎉❤️

My Best 💖 and I were telling our son Kadosh that if he disturbs us too much in this house, we will pack his bag and es**rt him out, oh 😁💃
We told him he will carry his pampers on his head and be leaving our house, oh 😂😂

As we were saying it, we just couldn’t stop laughing. The boy was looking at us like, “These people are not normal” 🤣🤣

Truth is, childbearing is another serious stage in marriage. At this stage, experience speaks louder, patience is tested daily, and teamwork is not optional, it’s compulsory.

Every stage in marriage demands intentionality and teamwork, but this one? Ah! It demands extra grace, extra laughter, and strong partnership 😁❤️

Marriage without teamwork is stress. Marriage with teamwork is joy, even in the chaos.

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04/02/2026

Marital breakthrough begins with spiritual understanding. When you don’t know how God leads, you may miss Him when He leads. God rarely shouts; He guides through patterns.

Those who recognize His voice can follow His steps with confidence, patience, and obedience. Knowing God’s ways saves you from rushing into relationships He didn’t authorize and positions you for a marriage He has prepared.

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04/02/2026

Your time is coming soon beloved 🙏

03/02/2026

Silence may look peaceful, but in moments like this, silence can be misunderstood as support for the wrong side. When your spouse is being insulted and you say nothing, you speak volumes without words.

Marriage is about oneness, and oneness means standing together even when it’s uncomfortable. If your family crosses the line, speak up respectfully but firmly. Protect your spouse’s dignity the same way you would protect your own, because in marriage, the two have become one.

Remember, a wise partner doesn’t keep peace by silence, but by truth spoken in love. ❤️

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03/02/2026

Men bleed in relationships too. 💔
Just because they don’t cry out loud doesn’t mean they don’t feel the pain. Many men carry silent tears behind strong faces, hearts that once trusted but were betrayed, souls that once gave love but met manipulation.

Dear Christian lady, please don’t be the reason a man loses faith in love, trust, or God. You are called to be salt and light, not a wound and darkness. Salt preserves, it heals, it seasons life with grace. Light shines, it guides, it gives warmth and direction.

When a man meets you, he should feel the peace of God, not the pressure of deceit.
He should feel inspired to love deeper, not afraid to try again.

Your words, actions, and attitude should reflect Christ’s nature, gentle, kind, patient, and truthful.
Let your presence be proof that good women still exist, and your love a testimony that godly relationships can still thrive in a broken world.

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03/02/2026

God by His mercy will lead you to His perfect will 🙏

03/02/2026

Your marriage will work 🙏

02/02/2026

Let me share this truth with you: marital preparation is not a one-way road, it has two sides.

There are people who look at themselves and boldly say, “I am ready for marriage.” They feel prepared emotionally, spiritually, financially, and mentally. Yet, when they go to seek God’s approval, they hear something unexpect “Wait. You are not ready.”

Sometimes God explains why. Other times He keeps you in the dark. But whether He explains or not, His instruction is always for your good, for your safety, and for the destiny He’s guiding you into.

Then there’s the other side…
Some people have completely disqualified themselves. They feel unprepared, inadequate, and unfit for marriage. But suddenly, God tells them, “Go ahead, this is your time.”

Yes, the same God who told one person to wait is the same God pushing another forward, because He is dealing with purpose, timing, and destiny, not human perfection.

God is a perfect Father. He leads us differently because our paths, assignments, and futures are not the same. He knows when to slow you down, and He knows when to launch you forward.

His timing is never late, and His leading is never wrong.
When God says wait,trust Him.
When God says go,obey Him.
Because in both directions, He is preparing you for the best that He has planned for you. In the end, the safest place to be is not where you feel ready, but where God says it is your time.

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