16/11/2018
Nice insights about womens body.....
WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME TO ENTER THE MYSTERY (yes, it’s about s*x)
There are many women who think that their libido is very low, but in most cases it is just the result of trying to have s*x in a masculine way.
Most of these women are trying to get into penetrative s*x before they are fully aroused.
Generally speaking, the male arousal is a yang type of arousal. And the female arousal is a yin type of arousal.
It means that masculine s*xual energy is like fire, it ignites in the center (the p***s) and after that spreads out.
And the feminine s*xual energy is like water – it is collected from the edges, the limbs, from the heart and flows to the centre (the va**na).
Men’s lingam can be touched without much foreplay. It is actually very nice to connect with the lingam first and then continue by spreading the pleasure and activating his chest, belly and limbs.
In the case of women the yin energy proceeds from the edges, gradually moving inward and flowing downward towards the s*x center. The yin energy needs to pass through the heart center before it descends lower.
That’s why women find it generally harder to separate s*x from love.
Most women need to feel connected and safe, they need to feel their heart open before they can open up s*xually.
Which is not always the case for men. They can have s*x with someone without much of an emotional or heart connection.
Yoni and heart are similar — neither can be forced to open. You can’t force yourself to fall in love, and you can’t open your body by force.
So naturally it means that women take longer than men to get aroused. But once you heat the water up it can stay hot for a long time.
Also the more frequently you bring feminine erotic energy to the boil, the easier it will be to get activated the next day.
If you touch the yoni too soon – she will contract, freeze and close up.
But this is important to know not only to honour the feminine, this is equally important for the masculine.
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We need to understand that s*x is not about his/her pleasure, it is about cultivating something that is beyond him or her, that is more than the sum of its parts… A field, that we can expand into together, and become infinitely vast.
The erotic energy flows more naturally through someone who is deeply in touch with the feminine, which is often times women. And therefore when the woman is fully aroused, once her entire body is loved and worshipped, she will open her yoni, she will be fully or****ic, and she will share the nectar of the depth of her being with her partner. When the entire system is activated women can access amazing arousal states and discover their deep erotic nature. Then the masculine partner will be able to ride her waves of pleasure and expand into the magnetic field of their union.
So… the deeper he goes, the deeper she opens… it affects both.
Dear men, please don’t rush your woman into pe*******on.�
It does take presence and patience from you. If you offer her and her arousal plenty of time, it will come back to you tenfold.
Dear women, please learn to listen to your body and communicate your needs.
By only going half way, by not honoring the degree of your openness, you are stealing from both of you. Because if you go into pe*******on before you are actually ready, neither you nor he will have the opportunity to experience the real depth of what s*xuality is.
Read more on this: http://sofiasundari.com/what-did-s*xual-education-that-we-never-had-failed-to-teach-us/
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