Julia Reeve MD Vaginismus Expert & Coach

19/01/2026

27/12/2025

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08/12/2025

👉 Stop scrolling — this might help your best friend.
🎙️ Spoken Script:
Most of us know someone who quietly struggles with pain or fear during intimacy...
but almost no one talks about it.
For many women, it’s not a lack of love — it’s something called vaginismus —
a protective reflex of the body, not a choice.
It makes intimacy painful or even impossible,
and it often leaves women feeling broken, ashamed, or alone.
But it’s treatable.
And the hardest part isn’t the recovery —
it’s finding the courage to take that first step.
That’s why I created a Free Vaginismus Starter Package —
so women can understand what’s happening in their bodies,
and start healing privately, at home, with compassion.
If this doesn’t apply to you — please share it.
Because statistically, someone in your circle is suffering in silence right now.
And your share might be the first step she ever takes. 💜

15/10/2025

Are you experiencing a fear during intimacy? You’re not alone about one out of 10 women worldwide suffer with what is called vaginismus. When intimacy feels like fear or pain it’s not all in your head. It’s often a protective reflex the body’s way of saying I’m not feeling safe yet this reflex can be gently retrained and disappear. I’m Dr Julia Reeve gynaecologist psychotherapist and psychologist. I’ve been treating women suffering with virginals for over 30 years now I’ve created a free online vaginism must start a package just for you. It explains exactly what’s happening and how you can take your first steps and begin calming the fear/pain cycle privately and at home.

15/09/2025

Spread the word!
Tell everyone about vaginismus and that it exists and is real.
And that there is a cure.

15/09/2025

Vaginismus: He thinks it`s rejection - she thinks it`s impossible...
Both are wrong.

15/09/2025

Vaginismus is not the end. What has been learned can be reprogrammed.

15/09/2025

Vaginismus can break hearts. Awareness and support can mend them.

15/09/2025

Vaginismus isn’t a choice — it lies in the subconscious and is hard to overcome. Choosing help takes courage, and accepting help requires trust.

15/09/2025

Overcoming vaginismus takes courage. Awareness is the first step.

15/09/2025

Vaginismus is an amygdala hijack. The brain`s watchdogs are falsely programmed to trigger fear instead of safety.

15/09/2025

But what is vaginismus? It`s a fear response cycle that is triggered as soon as anything come nears the vaginal opening. Often a pelvic muscle spasms and this can cause intense pain.