06/02/2026
Like many of you, I’ve felt it all this week. 🥺
Shock, horror, disgust,
hopelessness, rage.
The world we’re living in right now
is really not a pretty place.
And I really feel that the system we’re living in, patriarchy, is really, really, really showing its ugly face right now. In so many ways.
It even has me wondering,
am I doing the right work?
Am I being useful enough?
Should I be working with men, doing men’s work?
I feel that there’s a huge amount of
work with men that needs to happen.
Because women can’t shift this system,
this power play, this hierarchy, on their own.
We need you!
Everyone needs to wake up.
And I realize also that women
need to be empowered to rise,
to speak up, to no longer be silenced.
And I feel that that is my work,
that is my path.
But I could feel real frustration this week,
realizing I feel like I’m just cleaning up the mess, picking up the pieces of the damage done in a huge part by the patriarchy with the women that work with me.
And whether it’s actual sexual abuse,
physical abuse, neglect, being ignored emotionally, being oppressed,
and honestly also women who don’t dare to speak up, who don’t dare to say what they want and what they don’t want, who are still stuck in this old way of living.
Women need to learn how to use their voices.
We ALL need to make this change.
It’s time to wake up, to say no.
Enough is enough!
We as a collective have a lot of inner work to do,
Voices to use
And many choices- on where we put our money 💵
for example.
If you are angry, so am I,
Use it constructively
I would love to hear your thoughts on how we can create positive change - please share in the comments 👇🏻
❤️🔥
Aileen
Ps.
I of course do not mean that women are by definition innocent, or men are to blame for everything… however the numbers on abuse do show the perpetrator is almost always a man. This needs to stop.
Part of the change I want to see is a return to matriarchy - a system in which both feminine and masculine are honored, and life at large is cared for for good of all including our planet 🌍