Doula Sole

27/03/2020

One year ago my first birth as a doula. Happy first birthday, little girl. You're amazing ❤️

15/11/2019

This page went suddenly really quiet. There is a reason: I've been hired by a company and I'm training to become a maternity nurse (sort of, the Dutch name is kraamverzogster). So, for the time being, I'm not getting new doula clients. But if you need information about the Dutch system or personalized childbirth classes,, feel free to contact me., I always love talking about birth, pregnancy and babies in front of a cup of tea. :)

31/08/2019

When a new sibling makes their appearance into the world and the older sibling isn't the littlest one anymore

22/08/2019

In the Netherlands it's costumary to send a birth card to family and friends announcing the birth of the baby, their name, date of birth and sometimes weight and length. Some parents use a picture of the baby, some other use a simple card. My heart melted today, when I opened my letter box and found one from a client and her family, with the picture of their precious little boy.
But even without it, I can assure I will never forget their babies and the moment they were born.

05/08/2019

I love meeting new potential clients, especially when they're expecting their first baby. The joy, the fear, the expectations, the love in their eyes when they look at each other. Words after words a connection is created, they start relaxing, you start relaxing and at the end you really hope they will hire you because you already like them a lot and you would really like to see them becoming a family.
Today I met a beautiful young couple, and let me tell you: this particular baby is going to be a very lucky one ❤️

04/08/2019

When you need to feed a baby, who can't momentarily feed at the mom's breast, bottles are not the only or best solution. Babies can be fed using a cup, and as you can see it's very easy and it won't cause any ni**le confusion, especially in the first 6 weeks.

31/07/2019

Looking for a doula? Here I am!

12/07/2019

So many times I've wished I could make nights shorter and years longer.

04/07/2019

Today I had the pleasure to follow a Spinning Babies® workshop in Amsterdam with "our" beloved Jennifer Walker. Together with other doula colleagues, midwives and yoga teachers we learned new "tricks' to support our clients even better during pregnancy and labor.

Are you my next client? ❤️

Check the Spinning babies® website if you want to know more about it.

www.spinningbabies.com

Easier birth with fetal positioning. Use this site & videos to improve fetal position (breech, transverse, posterior) and birth. Reduce the chance of cesarean.

29/06/2019

This amazing woman labored for hours without a single sound escaping her mouth. Her husband and I looked at each other in amazement, she looked beautiful, fierce, strong. With every wave I'd stroke her back gently while she leaned on her husband's, music was playing but for the rest we were all silent. I felt I wasn't doing enough but she didn't need more than I was doing, and often being there is enough. Only towards the end I helped her a little suggesting to lift her belly and tuck her spine to make room for the baby as labor stalled for two hours at 9 cm. Within 3 waves, she started grunting, a sign that the she was finally feeling the urge to push, we called the midwife who said she was fully dilated and in 3 pushes baby was here. Abd I'm forever grateful that I had the honor to meet them all,, a most beautiful family. Welcome baby, you're so loved.

29/06/2019

I love this song, it describes so well the feelings of a woman in labor. To all my past, present and future clients, you roar! https://m.soundcloud.com/user-3128364/she-roars

Listen to She Roars by Olivia Tupper on

28/06/2019

Welcome baby I. ❤️

28/06/2019

27/06/2019

There's is a lot I can DO, but sometimes I'll just BE.

21/06/2019

Finish every call with your client with: maybe I'll see you tonight

And the best part is that one of these days it will actually be true!

16/06/2019

Happy fathers' day

15/06/2019

Saturday night, I'm in bed already, bag is ready, it was ready even before but this is a "let's go" kind of ready 😊