26/02/2026
Emotional shutdown is not indifference.
When someone becomes quiet, distant, or “fine” during conflict, it may be a sign that their nervous system is overwhelmed. Shutting down can feel safer than expressing anger, sadness, or fear.
Reconnection starts with safety, not pressure. Slowing down, validating the experience, and creating space for emotion allows communication to return. Learn more at https://www.icbs-nl.com/