30/03/2026
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We all need to constantly remind ourselves that girl s*x is completely different to boy s*x.
For females — we have to be ‘in the mood’ for s*x.
For males — well, you guys just have to ‘be’…
The number of women I talk to in my practice who have little to no interest in s*x is huge. And this, lovers, is a huge problem for a number of reasons:
Firstly
While ma********on is always an option, s*x is something best done in pairs. Our ‘bits’ are helpfully designed to slot into each other. Therefore, a female’s low libido can cause a huge problem for her significant other.
Secondly
A female’s lack of libido is often a symptom of a health condition. Please see a previous article of mine about this: https://lisasaidso.co.nz/benefit-of-healthy-s*x-life-is-normal-good-for-your-health-relax/ #.WYUmQVxmnOV
Thirdly
S*x is good for you. It can help to balance your hormones, improve your relationship with your lover, and lift your mood. It can lower your blood pressure, and it can improve your self esteem. S*x, as many of you will already know, is also a good work-out (it burns quite a few calories, and boosts the metabolism). It also helps you to sleep better, reduces stress, and makes you feel calm.
Therefore, while I’m working with my clients on addressing the underlying cause of their lack of interest in s*x, in the interim, I like to recommend a traditional little aphrodisiac — hard liquor!
Note: The underlying causes of a low libido may include other health conditions such as stress, poor thyroid function, depression, frequent headaches or migraines, and recurring thrush. The side-effects of some medications can also cause a poor s*x drive.
I find it incredibly fascinating that many (many) women are surprisingly unaware of the different effects that different types of alcohol can have on you. They don’t realise that wine — for example — does nothing to enhance their s*x life (regardless of what GOOGLE says about red wine). When we have ‘s*x and alcohol’ talks at OOMPH — we have a right royal, rip-snorting time. It’s like opening up a whole new fantasy world for these women. It really feels like you’re administering hope to them.
From what I’ve seen, us girls are totally down for some ‘liquid libido’. We love the idea of having a little something to help take the pressure off; to make us feel s*xy; to make us feel uninhibited; to make us actually feel like engaging in a bit of Shoo-bop Sha-wadda-wadda Yippity-boom-de-boom…
https://lisasaidso.co.nz/how-to-increase-libido-quickly-with-alcohol-natural-remedy-s*x-drive/
