16/01/2026
Caring for someone whoโs experiencing continence changes can make such a big difference โ and sometimes itโs the little things that help the most. ๐ฟ
Here are a few gentle ways to support someone you love or care for:
๐ฅ Create toilet-friendly routines โ things like easy access, timing, or quiet reminders.
๐ Choose clothing thatโs simple to manage and make sure thereโs plenty of time and privacy.
๐ Notice any changes in their usual patterns โ new urgency, more leaks, or bowel changes can be signs to check in.
๐จ Keep conversations kind and shame-free โ feeling heard and supported goes a long way. ๐
You donโt need to have all the answers. Just being there, walking alongside them, can mean everything.
For more support, tools, and resources, call our free helpline 0800 650 659, visit continence.org.nz, or contact (carers.net.nz).