26/08/2025
Safety Between the Masculine and Feminine
One of the strongest insights to emerge from recent gatherings is this: both men and women want the same thing—safety.
For women, safety means being able to relax into their true femininity, to express freely, to feel held and supported without fear of judgment. For men, safety means being able to show up authentically as themselves, to stand in their presence without being criticised or corrected.
What struck me most is how universal this need is. Masculine and feminine may appear opposite, but both are seeking the same foundation. Without safety, the dance between them becomes guarded, full of masks and defences. With safety, polarity comes alive. There is flow, trust, and a deeper sense of communion.
The land where this reflection came through—where mountains meet ocean, and rivers carve their path—mirrored the same principle. The masculine and feminine are not meant to compete; they are meant to complement, to find balance in union.
At its heart, the message is simple: the greatest gift we can give each other, no matter our role or energy, is safety. From there, everything else unfolds naturally.
