Little Steps. Beautiful Beginnings

Little Steps. Beautiful Beginnings Nurturing New Life - Little Steps. Beautiful Beginnings:

Supporting maternal and infant wellbeing for over 20 years. When a baby is born so is a parent.

Infant Massage Classes & Trainings đŸŒ» Doula Support đŸŒ» Yoga for Pregnancy, Postnatal & Menopause đŸŒ» Baby Yoga đŸŒ» Life Coaching đŸŒ» Emotional Wellbeing Programmes for Kindy & Primary Tamariki đŸŒ» Helping you to thrive not just survive đŸŒ» IAIM NZ Infant Massage Trainer & Instructor – Doula Tuesdays – Baby-led spaces to rest, connect, and grow. Because nurturing touch matters

P-J is passionate about the first 1000 days from conception and the wellbeing of parent and baby and believes her alternative and holistic practices are a preventative measure towards PNA, PND and PTSD. She understands the ups and downs of being pregnant and also the challenges as a newborn parent, how this can affect them emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually, and how important it is for the parent to rest and heal whilst getting to know their newborn. Those first 42 days after birth sets the pavestone for the next 42 years!!!! P-J's practices are run term by term either online or in-person, so ensure you look up the events on the page to see what is happening or pm me if you can’t find anything. Planning ahead is vital as there are limited spaces for each class. Pregnancy and Postnatal yoga classes - no experience is needed as these classes are specifically run to support the pregnant and postpartum body. Pregnancy is one of the biggest transformations a parent can go through. Support and guidance is necessary. Enrolling into a weekly pregnancy yoga class will help to support you on your journey into parent hood, the birthing journey and beyond for mind, body and spirit. Partner Yoga sessions - in-person - a wonderful way for parents to connect, honoring this time, connecting with baby, whilst giving a role to the partner to help support the mama as they lead up to the impending birth. These yoga poses can be used in the birthing journey and beyond. Infant Massage and gentle yoga movement classes - a 5 week IAIM infant massage programme, now run in over 100 countries - learning about baby's behavioural states and cues, promoting the bond and connection through the art of infant massage. Once we understand babies behavioural states and cues then we can begin to include a massage which will help to release tension and promote health and wellbeing for mind, body and spirit. Babies thrive on physical connection. Skin to skin is a wonderful way for babies to help self regulate. Come and join in on a community class. If you work in maternal and infant mental health why not become a Certified Infant Massage Instructor yourself by attending a 4-Day IAIM NZ Training - visit www.infantmassagenewzealand.org for more information. Postnatal and Baby Yoga classes - a great lead on from from the infant massage class to bring balance to both for mind, body and spirit. Ayurvedic and Traditional Moroccan Postpartum Doula support and Birthing Doula support is available. Re-igniting the digestive fire to provide optimal balance from the birthing journey. Helping to nurture and nourish the parent so they can nurture and nourish their baby. For more about this PM me. Holistic Life Coaching is also available - staying true to yourself - be the authentic you - for you are fearfully and wonderfully made - be transformed by the renewing of your mind.

A little after-school project with Coleman. đŸŒ±đŸŒ» Connecting through playdough.Even at 20 (and at my age 😉), we still love ...
10/02/2026

A little after-school project with Coleman. đŸŒ±đŸŒ»

Connecting through playdough.

Even at 20 (and at my age 😉), we still love pulling out the ingredients and making a fresh batch together. And here’s the sweet part - while our hands are busy measuring, stirring, squishing and rolling
 our nervous systems are quietly doing the same thing: settling, syncing, softening. That’s co-regulation in real life.

As you can see, green is the clear favourite - it reminds him of The Hulk.

Playdough is such a brilliant tool for building strong fingers, fine motor skills, and hand strength, learning about shapes, letters, maths, science and so much more. Coleman has low muscle tone, so it affects his hands and his writing - play like this supports him in a way that feels fun, not “work.”

Today we did some emotion naming too, and he shaped his playdough into what each feeling looked like to him - it was a great laugh.

Then he created the letter “C” and I’m anticipating, “C for Coleman!” 
but nope.
“C for cease it,” he says.
I’m like, “What?”
And he’s like, “From Glee!” 😂

Coleman measured and mixed while I poured in the boiling water. He stirred with a wooden spoon until his hands got tired, then I took over - and he liked it so much we made another batch.

Thanks, Coleman
 because that second batch is coming with me to work to share with the juniors as a hands-on way to learn about co-regulation.

When was the last time you made some playdough for some fun?

Wanted: Parents and babies (aged 0-1 year old) to attend 3 free session of Infant Massage during an Instructors training...
09/02/2026

Wanted: Parents and babies (aged 0-1 year old) to attend 3 free session of Infant Massage during an Instructors training to give students an opportunity to share a small part of the 5 week infant massage programme. Over 4 Days I will be running an infant massage instructors training for persons who support maternal and infant mental health and wellbeing. We need you to come along to three free sessions to add to their learning and yours too.

When: February 27th, 28th and 1st March 2026
Time: 11.15-12.30
Where: Long Bay, Auckland

It would be wonderful to have you along - infant massage under the right setting helps to ease wind and colic, growing pains, tension, promotes relief, relaxation, attunement, bonding and secure attachment.

Come along, observe, learn and love the practice. We meet you as you are. If it works and you can join in, if baby needs nursing or sleep, this is OK too, and we welcome all crying.

Investment: 1.25-1.5 hours of your time over 3 days. I look forward to hearing from you - email trainer@infantmassagenewzealand.org
subject: 3 free baby massage sessions - Auckland - Long Bay

P-J McCrea
IAIM NZ Trainer
www.infantmassagenewzealand.org

What a beautiful 2026 Waitangi long weekend. The message felt loud and clear: connection, belonging, unity, aroha.First ...
08/02/2026

What a beautiful 2026 Waitangi long weekend. The message felt loud and clear: connection, belonging, unity, aroha.

First photo: Coleman gets a surprise 10 minute slot to sing Michael Jackson’s “Thriller” at a 60th last night - and what a moment - bold, cheeky, and he had the whole backyard smiling. You could feel the joy moving through him - a full-body dopamine hit, and a reminder of what’s possible when a child feels safe enough to be seen.

Coleman has Down syndrome. His words aren’t always clear (due to low muscle tone), he’s not always in pitch (sounds just like his mama đŸ€Ł) and most of the time he is lost in translation - but he still manages to get the words out in his way. A lot of people wouldn’t put someone up when it doesn’t sound “perfect.” But these people did ❀ They gave him the mic, the space, and a full ten minutes to be himself. Thank you for choosing heart over perfection - it was epic.

Second photo: a heartfelt thank you to his beautiful kapa haka whānau for welcoming him in and joining in on stage with the celebrations. Same story. Same mana. They accept Coleman exactly as he is - no awkwardness, no “othering,” just a genuine, open-armed welcome. Not on the sidelines
 in it. Moving, learning, belonging - keeping it real ❀

This is what belonging looks like. Being welcomed as you are. Being given time. Being given space. Being allowed to contribute in your own way.

Because every child is wired for connection. Every child longs to be seen, heard, and to feel, deep down, I matter here. And every child is unique.

And when they do, something beautiful shifts: confidence grows, nervous systems soften, communication expands, and joy becomes easier to reach.

Belonging isn’t a “nice extra.” It’s a foundation. It’s how our tamariki learn they don’t have to earn love - they get to receive it. đŸŒ±đŸŒ»

06/02/2026

Waitangi Day 2026

✹ Why we teach infant massage (and why it matters so much) ✹Today’s infant massage session wasn’t just about learning st...
05/02/2026

✹ Why we teach infant massage (and why it matters so much) ✹

Today’s infant massage session wasn’t just about learning strokes. It was about brains. Nervous systems. And connection.

Babies are born with unfinished nervous systems. They can’t calm themselves - they borrow calm from the adult holding them. Through touch, rhythm, voice and eye contact, their brains learn one powerful message:

👉 I am safe.

But here’s what we often forget: when a baby cries, it activates the adult’s nervous system too. Heart rate up. Breath short. Stress kicking in. Without understanding what’s happening, parents can start thinking “I’m doing it wrong” - when actually, biology is doing exactly what biology does.

That’s why infant massage is so powerful.

It teaches parents:
‱ how regulation really works
‱ why touch matters for brain development
‱ how to calm both nervous systems at the same time
‱ what’s normal (and what’s not a failure)

This isn’t about fixing parents.
It’s about giving them tools, confidence, and understanding - so connection replaces doubt.

Because when parents feel safe, babies feel safe. And when babies feel safe, their brains grow better.

đŸŒ± Touch is not an extra.
đŸŒ± Connection is not optional.
đŸŒ± This is early brain-building in action.


Home time - Coleman’s first day back at school, and I could just tell that “new season” energy from his smile - a positi...
05/02/2026

Home time - Coleman’s first day back at school, and I could just tell that “new season” energy from his smile - a positive note he had a good day!

At dinner, we did our 3 Gratitudes practice and this is what he shared.

đŸŒ» Doing work at school (“I did Maori - and said my name - Ko Coleman tƍku ingoa.”

đŸŒ» Going for a walk - with his classmates and new teacher

đŸŒ» “I love my mummy” â€ïžđŸ™ (for taking me to the op shop (he turned up the previous day at closing time so I shared I would take him the next day) and doing the weekly food shop - it’s an epic social outing for him - saying hello to just about everyone in the shop - definitely not a short affair đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł)

Then he wrapped it up by giving thanks for his meal
.

Gratitude is a trainable skill - and today it showed up as memory, presence, and choice. For Coleman, being able to recall his day and name the moments he was grateful for was nothing short of amazing.

As Louise Hays shares “On good days it makes everything sweeter, and on difficulties days it helps to lift spirits.” I couldn’t agree more.

What a full-hearted day.I’m so grateful for the carers in my life who open their doors for Coleman while I work. Without...
04/02/2026

What a full-hearted day.

I’m so grateful for the carers in my life who open their doors for Coleman while I work. Without these beautiful people, I simply couldn’t do the work I’m called to do.

I’m also thankful for my time at Selwyn Park Kindergarten and Tangowahine School - supporting tamariki, even for a season, is such a privilege.

And today
 I got to cook in the new kitchen. I’m really looking forward to sharing something nourishing with the mamas at tomorrow’s infant massage class.

We ended the day with a whānau BBQ, then cooled off in the pools - games, laughter, such confident little swimmers, the kind of tired that feels good - my bucket is full

I love my job. Truly. How lucky are we when we get to live what we love.

These are the things I’m grateful for - what are yours today?

  day today - and it wasn’t a casual “maybe.” This was a mission. Coleman wanted to walk into his first day back feeling...
03/02/2026

day today - and it wasn’t a casual “maybe.” This was a mission. Coleman wanted to walk into his first day back feeling sharp, , ready. And when he decides something matters, he’s all in.

Today’s request was crystal clear: Finn from Glee Season 1. Photo in hand. Vision locked. And Kim - another one of his favourites - is brilliantly “fluent” in Coleman’s haircut language too. So lucky.

Now here’s the part people don’t always see: when Coleman was younger, he went through - and eventually lost all of his hair. And as a , watching that happen can shake you. It was scary. It was tender. It was a lot.

But then something powerful happened. With a school move, extra , and a steadier sense of safety
 his system began to settle. And over time, most of his hair grew back. Not all of it - and that’s why haircuts can still feel loaded. Because it’s never just hair. It’s identity. It’s control. It’s the nervous system saying, “Am I safe? Am I seen?”

And this is where Tre is magic.

Tre has this beautiful way of adapting - working with what’s there, not what should be there. She meets Coleman with care, respect, and a whole lot of heart
 and then she creates a result that helps him feel proud when he looks in the mirror.

Tre and I go back years - we first met through my infant massage and postnatal classes when she came along with her boys. Over time, life kept weaving our paths together. I’ve also had the privilege of supporting her through doula care and some nourishing practices. Isn’t it something when the right people keep returning - in new chapters, new roles, deeper connection?

And Tre - you’re the real deal. Clever, capable, always growing, always learning, always giving. And training to become a flintlock as well? That tells me everything: depth, grit, range - and a genuine blessing to your community.

So thank you, Tre. For listening so carefully. For honouring Coleman’s requests. And for sending him out the door laughing and smiling - not just looking good
 but feeling good.

đŸ’›đŸŒ» Question: What’s something you once took for granted - until it was gone?

Everything was planned and organised.Then the weather said, “Not today.” đŸŒ§ïžIt poured down for hours, and with only a few...
02/02/2026

Everything was planned and organised.

Then the weather said, “Not today.” đŸŒ§ïž

It poured down for hours, and with only a few days until school starts, we had a full-on schedule: school meet-up, lunch, library, gym, then pools. (Yeah
 that’s a mission - especially for Coleman.)

We nailed the first three. But the gym? Coleman hits me with: “No. I want to go home.” Fair call, but why was I feeling a tad uptight about it.

It was super humid, we’d already been through a bunch of downpours, and he was sweating like crazy - overheating. He won’t wear shorts because it’s a sensory thing, so it was all getting too much and his tank was running low.

So I had to do what you do when life pivots: adjust - and let it go - it’s OK, we will try another day. So it was a no to the gym. Too hot. Need a new plan. So I ask a different question.

“Are you hot?”
“Yes.”
“Do you want a cool down?”
“Yes.”

Alright then - to the pool we go.

The second we got there and he saw familiar faces, and smiled with glee. Straight into the water, playing games with friends - good vibes (so thankful these pool are open).

Then the rain comes in hard and he wants out immediately
 but with a bit of support and some slow breathing, he settled, stayed with it, and ended up enjoying himself. Confidence unlocked. Love to see it.

We even bumped into a heap of mamas with their little ones - kids learning to jump in, tiny mermaids diving down, and that beautiful reminder: the steady moments we invest really do pay off
 in their own good timing.

Rain eases
 wind picks up
 classic.
And what does Coleman share tonight before he goes to sleep? I am grateful for going for a swim, and the library being open, and the op shop, and seeing my teachers today - melts my heart.

Question: What expectation did you have to let go of today - and what did you choose instead?

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What an epic way to finish a big day down at the community pools on a hot summer’s afternoon
 and the moment we walk in,...
30/01/2026

What an epic way to finish a big day down at the community pools on a hot summer’s afternoon
 and the moment we walk in, there’s Eva, greeting us with a beautiful smile she brings every single time - always so welcoming.

For Coleman, water is everything. It’s his happy place - as much as I’d like to take him to the beach - it’s just a little too rough where we live, needs to be on an incoming tide and we need extra adults to support - cos our Coleman turns into Aquaman - and the lakes are a little too far away to get too.

So many familiar faces, a few new ones
 and the sweetest moment of all: one wee baby’s very first swim. đŸŒ±đŸŒ»â€ïž

Coleman brought a friend along with her mama, so I packed some underwater fish rings to play with. We had others join in too - lots of movement, smiles, underwater swimming, and little swimmers showing off big skills - Just awesome.

And of course, Coleman finished where he loves best - the hydrotherapy pools - getting absolutely entertained by the younger crew
 and a water gun. This time they were getting him. 😂💩

Feeling extra grateful the pools are open - there’s only a couple of months left in the season. If you’ve been meaning to go
 maybe this is your nudge. đŸŒ±đŸŒ»

Question: What’s your favourite way to cool down and reset on a summer day - pools, beach, river, sprinklers at home
 or a good old Fruju?

Two hours later we wrapped up and popped to the dairy for a treat, because today is Ice-Cream Friday!

Have a good one. đŸŒ±đŸŒ»

Session 3 of our Infant Massage Class - and honestly, it felt like a warm little yes for every mama needing connection a...
29/01/2026

Session 3 of our Infant Massage Class - and honestly, it felt like a warm little yes for every mama needing connection and a place to breathe.

We came back into our circle of māmā and pēpi and you could feel it straight away: everyone settled faster, the rhythm felt familiar, and trust in the room kept growing. We revisited what we learned in Sessions 1 and 2, then added something new to the kete. Simple, practical ways to say through touch: “I see you. I’m listening.”

And let’s celebrate the delicious support behind the scenes - Coleman was in his element. First thing he asked: “Can I help with the baking?” And the moment he heard chocolate
 he was all in. 😂 With yoghurt sachets kindly gifted from Selwyn Park Kindergarten and a perfectly timed Salvation Army yoghurt-maker find, he made yoghurt from scratch the night before. And what a bonus we needed it in the baking mix - and once cooled morning tea was served with a little more yoghurt and seasonal blueberries on the side
it was honestly so yum. Feeling very grateful for the help.

By the end of our session, the māmā left feeling nurtured and nourished, and the babies were honoured the whole way through - baby-led, cue-based, no rushing.

Today’s flow included:
‱ Leg massage (for growing pains and releasing tension)
‱ Puku massage (to help with tummy niggles)
‱ Chest routine (when little breathways feel tender)
‱ Arms, hands, and fingers (a gentle release)

If you’re longing for a calm, welcoming space that supports growth and wellbeing for the both of you (parent and baby) - you’re so welcome to join our next circle đŸŒ»





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And who do we bump into after Coleman’s work out at the gym 
 the lovely Bianca and her mama Barbara.We go way back - Te...
28/01/2026

And who do we bump into after Coleman’s work out at the gym 
 the lovely Bianca and her mama Barbara.

We go way back - Te Kopuru School days and the Te Kopuru Swim Club days - swimming really has been the thread that’s connected us.

Bianca has walked alongside Coleman right through the school years - twelve years in fact. And now she’s off into her next chapter
 and what a chapter it is.

This year Bianca heads to uni with not one, but two scholarships - how amazing is that?! She’ll be studying a Bachelor of Science in Ecology and Biodiversity. Go you, Bianca - the world needs more people who care for our natural world. đŸŒ±đŸŒ»

We left with a couple of high fives (along with a “cheese touch” to Bianca) and a big “see you soon.” Pop in during your uni breaks - don’t be shy. Coleman is still wrapping his head around the fact you won’t be back at school -

All the very best, Bianca. đŸŒ±đŸŒ»

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