26/04/2026
โYou tell them.โ ๐
Not rudeness. Not avoidance.
Often itโs overwhelm - and a sign youโre their safe person.
For some tamariki, especially those who are neurodivergent, being put on the spot (especially by someone they don't know) can feel like too much.
A gentle read on why stepping in to support them matters more than we think.
When kids say โyou tell them,โ it may be overwhelm, not avoidance. Holly Brammall explains how supporting children in communication builds safety and confidence