24/01/2026
Greetings all!
Iāve been pondering changing the name of these monthly, and perennially popular, one-day retreats.
A marketing expert may advise against it, given how established theyāve become over the last 5+ yearsā¦
And given that the retreat itself is not about to be re-designed or re-imagined (although over the years it has slowly, imperceptibly evolved.)
But Iāve been thinking a lot about REST.
Iāve been thinking about how, as a species, we are not very good at it.
Yet, rest is essential if we want to be healthy, joyful, inspired and at peace in our lives.
How do you rest? Watching tv / movies? Gardening? Being in nature, hiking, biking, kayaking? Being with friends? Walking the dog?
Me too!
But these are all examples of ādoingā rest. How about ābeingā rest?
Being rest, at the deepest level: the nervous system.
Not being with friends & family, scanning for approval / disapproval. Not meditation, yoga, or pilates, wondering whether youāre doing it ārightā. Or my personal favourite - sitting with a good book and a coffee looking peaceful, whilst internally evaluating and judging myself.
Nervous system rest does not depend on the body being still, though slowing down helps us identify the constant background hum of our nervous system scanning, reporting, alerting, notifyingā¦
Meditation, including the styles Iāve offered in the past, were something guests were invited āto doā. Now, they are invitations to do absolutely nothing and simply receive. So this is the word in the retreat title I am thinking of fading out. Because for many, the idea of ādoingā a meditation has the fragrance of anti-rest.
These day retreats, plus our 4-day āReturn To Centreā retreats, unveil deeper layers of you BEING you. Not you, DOING you. No performance anxiety. No vigilance. Nothing to get right. A soft invitation to rest the body, the mind & emotions, and if youāre up for it, to rest the nervous system.
Who might you even be, without the constant hum of your nervous system, trying so hard to keep all the balls in the air?
2 spaces left on Sunday 1st Feb, and the 1st of each month thereafter. All welcome. Full details online or send me a message.
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