06/02/2026
This past year I’ve been doing some quiet but powerful work on my mindset.
I’ve been intentionally shifting from “I can’t do that” to “not yet… but when can I?”
It sounds simple, but it hasn’t been easy. For years I carried guilt....guilt for not being good enough, strong enough, smart enough, or capable enough. Guilt for needing rest. Guilt for learning as I went. Guilt for not having it all figured out already particularly in my work.
Somewhere along the way I started to realize that guilt was never a good teacher. It didn’t make me better it just made me smaller.
“Not yet” has given me permission to grow without punishment. It leaves room for curiosity instead of criticism, compassion instead of comparison, and progress instead of perfection.
I’m learning that growth doesn’t mean you were lacking before it means you were becoming.
If you’re in a season where you feel behind, stuck, or doubting yourself, please know this: you are not failing. You are learning. You are evolving. And you are allowed to take your time.
Not yet isn’t a weakness it’s a promise 🤍
What are you doing this year to increase your mental health?