30/12/2025
There’s something sacred about the pause between years… that quiet moment where reflection becomes clarity and clarity becomes intention.
This past year stretched me, softened me, challenged me, and reshaped me in ways I didn’t see coming.
These aren’t cute one-liners, they’re the truths that carved me open and rebuilt me.
As I walk into 2026, these are the lessons I’m taking with me:
1️⃣ Action beats perfection every time.
Perfect kept me stuck. Showing up messy, real, in motion moved my life more than waiting to feel “ready” ever did.
2️⃣ Be the egg, not the s***m.
Regulated, receptive, intuitive energy is magnetic. I realised I don’t have to chase, I choose.
3️⃣ Your feelings create your reality.
Alignment isn’t conceptual, it’s emotional. When I opened the valve to joy, presence, gratitude… everything shifted.
4️⃣ Let go of the small things so you can rise into the big things.
I wasn’t lacking discipline, I was lacking focus. Busy isn’t effective. Refinement changed everything.
5️⃣ True evolution is choosing differently, again and again.
The work isn’t about being perfectly regulated, it’s catching the moment you drift and recalibrating.
6️⃣ People can only meet you where they are.
Not where you wish they’d be. Their capacity has nothing to do with your worth.
7️⃣ Your environment determines your expansion.
You rise faster in rooms where dreaming big is normal and delusion is celebrated.
8️⃣ You have the capacity for more than you could ever dream of
It wasn’t fear of failure, it was fear of success. My capacity had expanded, I just had to acknowledge it.
9️⃣ Your big dreams require you to be a little delulu.
Conviction in the absence of evidence is the common thread of every extraordinary woman I met this year.
🔟 Get comfortable in the uncomfortable.
Discomfort isn’t the barrier, it’s the invitation. The resistance you feel is proof you’re expanding.
Here’s to walking into 2026 with clarity, courage, softness, and a wildly expanded sense of what’s possible ✨
What were your biggest lessons this year?
