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Carl Jung's philosophy is the kind that unsettles you.

Have you ever wondered why you keep finding yourself in the same kinds of situations, even when you've promised yourself it would be different this time?
Or why you can't seem to break certain patterns, no matter how aware you think you are?
Why some reactions feel instant, almost rehearsed… like they were decided long before the moment arrived?
And the harder question…
What if it isn't fate at all?

"Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate."

There's something deeply confronting about that. Because it suggests that a large part of your life isn't being consciously chosen, but quietly shaped beneath the surface.

Not by destiny.
But by what you haven't yet brought into the light.
The unconscious isn't distant or abstract. It's personal. It lives in the beliefs you never questioned, the roles you learned to play, the ways you adapted just to feel safe, seen, or loved. It holds the parts of your story that were never fully processed, only carried.

And because you can't see it, it feels external.
It feels like life happening to you.
So you call it coincidence.
You call it patterns.
You call it "this always happens to me."

But Jung's work invites something deeper, and more honest.
To slow down.
To notice not just what keeps happening, but why it feels so familiar.
To sit with your patterns instead of outrunning them, until they begin to reveal where they come from.

Because awareness transforms everything.
What once felt automatic becomes visible.
What once controlled you begins to loosen.
And what you called fate starts to look more like something you learned… and therefore, something you can unlearn.

This isn't about remaking yourself overnight.
It's about seeing yourself clearly enough that your life is no longer being written in places you refuse to look.

Because once you do…
even gently, even imperfectly…
you stop living on autopilot,
and start choosing, with your eyes open.

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22/02/2026

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22/02/2026

"My name's Dylan. I'm 36. I'm the voice of over 200 children's audiobooks, and last week I found out I'm the closest thing to a parent some kids have ever known.

It's a decent gig. I record audiobooks for kids. Picture books mostly. "Goodnight Moon." "The Very Hungry Caterpillar." Chapter books for older kids.
I work from a home studio. Record 4-6 books a week. Different voices for different characters. Make animals sound fun. Keep kids engaged.

It pays the bills. Nothing glamorous. Most people don't know audiobook narrators exist.
I've been doing it for twelve years. Recorded everything from board books to middle grade novels. My voice has probably been in thousands of homes. Millions of kids have heard me read them stories.
But I'm anonymous. No author photos. No book tours. Just a voice.

Last month, I got an email through my agent. From a social worker named Patricia.
"This is unusual, but I work with foster children. We use audiobooks extensively - many of our kids can't read yet, or reading reminds them of school trauma. Your voice specifically has become...... important. Is there any way you'd be willing to meet some of the children? They don't know your name, but they call you 'the story man.'"
I almost deleted it. I don't do public appearances. I'm a voice. That's it.

But something made me respond. "What do you mean my voice is important?"
She called me. Explained.
"We have 40 kids in our facility. Ages 3-16. Most come from severe abuse or neglect. Many have never been read to by a parent. Never had bedtime stories. Never had that routine comfort."
"Okay......"
"We play audiobooks every night. At bedtime. During quiet time. Your voice specifically - they request you. We have kids who won't sleep without hearing 'the story man.' Kids who've learned to read by following along with your audiobooks. Kids whose first positive adult male voice was yours."

My throat tightened.
"One of our kids, Marcus, he's 8. Came to us at age 5. Severe neglect. Didn't speak for six months. The first words he said to us were 'more stories' while pointing at the audiobook player. That was your recording of 'Where the Wild Things Are.'"
She continued, "Another girl, Lily, she's 6 now. Been with us since she was 3. Calls your voice 'my dad's voice' even though she's never had a father figure. Just...... the consistent male voice reading to her every night."
"I don't know what to say."
"Would you visit? Just once? Meet them? They don't need to know it's you. But...... I think you should see what your work means."

I visited the foster facility last week. Brought my recording equipment. Told Patricia I'd record something special just for them.
The kids had no idea who I was. Just some random guy visiting.

Patricia gathered them for "story time." Twenty kids. Ages 4 to 12. Sat on a carpet in the common room.
I started reading "The Giving Tree" aloud. Live. My normal narration voice.
Three sentences in, a little boy - Marcus - jumped up.
"That's him! That's the story man!"

The room erupted. Kids mobbing me. Touching my arm like I was famous. Like I was someone important.
"You're real?" one girl asked.
"You're here?" another said.

A tiny kid, maybe 4, just hugged my leg and wouldn't let go.
I read them three books. Live. They sat transfixed. Some mouthed the words along with me - they'd heard these stories so many times they'd memorized them.

After, a girl named Jasmine, maybe 10, approached me quietly.
"Thank you for the stories."
"You're welcome."
"My mom never read to me. Nobody ever did. But you did. Every night. You were there."

I started crying. Right there in front of these kids.
"I didn't know anyone was really listening," I said.
"We're always listening. You're the only grown-up who doesn't yell. Who doesn't hurt. Who just....... talks nice."

Patricia told me later, "Most of these kids have no positive adult associations. Their parents abused them. Failed them. Abandoned them. But your voice? It's safe. It's consistent. It's kind."
"I just read books in a studio."
"You did more than that. You showed up. Every night. Predictably. Safely. You became the parent they never had."

I've recorded audiobooks for twelve years thinking I was just doing a job. Making kids' books accessible. Helping parents on long car rides.
I had no idea I was parenting children whose actual parents destroyed them.
That I was reading bedtime stories to kids who'd never had bedtime stories.
That my voice was the only gentle adult voice some kids had ever heard.
I'm still recording. Same studio. Same books.

But now I record differently. I think about Marcus. About Lily. About Jasmine. About the twenty kids who called me "the story man."
I record like I'm reading to them specifically. Like they're in the room with me. Like they need to hear that someone cares.
Because apparently, they do.

And apparently, they are.
Here's what I learned, Your work matters more than you know. The thing you do routinely, mechanically, for money - it might be saving someone.

That email you send. That call you make. That service you provide. Someone's life might depend on the care you put into it.
I'm a voice actor. I read children's books for a living.
But to some kids, I'm the father they never had.
And I never knew until last week.
Pay attention to your work. Do it with care. You never know who's listening."

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