Living Well Counselling Centre

Living Well Counselling Centre Bringing Hope to Horowhenua since 1990 Our Vision: to provide affordable and professional counselling to the Horowhenua community.

Te Whare Whai Oranga: The House of Pursuing Wellbeing. We are a safe place for people to come with life's difficulties
We welcome the opportunity to serve you as you seek health and growth. Providing compassionate confidential care. Promoting positive changes in emotional and psychological wellbeing. Improving social connectedness.

Looking for a bit of extra support right now? Living Well Counselling Centre has some rare appointments available! We of...
03/03/2026

Looking for a bit of extra support right now? Living Well Counselling Centre has some rare appointments available! We offer compassionate, professional counselling right here in our community. If you've been thinking about reaching out, now could be a perfect time. Feel free to get in touch to learn more or join our waitlist.

Even on difficult days, there are still little sparks of light waiting to be found. ✨Let’s uncover them together.Living ...
27/02/2026

Even on difficult days, there are still little sparks of light waiting to be found. ✨
Let’s uncover them together.
Living Well Counselling Centre has rare openings right now — connect with us to help you uncover all your sparks!

Even a little hope can grow into something strong and beautiful. 🌈Let us help you nurture it — Living Well Counselling C...
24/02/2026

Even a little hope can grow into something strong and beautiful. 🌈
Let us help you nurture it — Living Well Counselling Centre currently has space for new clients.

Is everything feeling very full-on? Try this:Close your eyes for five seconds and count backward from five.Place one han...
09/02/2026

Is everything feeling very full-on? Try this:
Close your eyes for five seconds and count backward from five.

Place one hand on your chest, just to feel your breath move.

Say this silently: “I’m allowed to pause.”

Even brief stillness restores momentum. You’re doing enough.

Living Well Counselling Centre is here for when you'd like some help to regain a little equilibrium.

From the Living Well Counselling Centre whanau, thank you for your support this year. We hope you've felt seen, supporte...
17/12/2025

From the Living Well Counselling Centre whanau, thank you for your support this year. We hope you've felt seen, supported and encouraged. We wish you your favourite kind of Summer joy, and look forward to helping you navigate life next year.

The Centre is closed from 19 December and reopens on 20 January 2026.

Today is the first ever Give a Little Day and we would love your support.Charities across New Zealand are under pressure...
02/12/2025

Today is the first ever Give a Little Day and we would love your support.

Charities across New Zealand are under pressure, and this national day of giving is designed to help.

For today only, Givealittle is platform fees free, which means every dollar you give to us goes directly to our work.

Living Well Counselling Centre receives no government funding - we rely entirely on private funding to bridge the significant gap between what it costs to keep the Centre open, and what our clients are able to afford.

If you wish to support us, you can donate here: https://givealittle.co.nz/org/LivingWell

Thank you for being part of our community. Please feel free to share widely.

The Scenario: You finally opened up to a close friend about something weighing on you. You’re feeling the weight of stre...
10/08/2025

The Scenario: You finally opened up to a close friend about something weighing on you. You’re feeling the weight of stress at work, a fight with your partner, or a creeping sense of burnout.

Instead of just listening, they immediately offered a solution: “You should really try waking up earlier,” or “Well, just talk to your boss about it.” It came from a good place, but it didn’t land right. You felt dismissed, not heard. Still, you smiled, nodded, and changed the subject.

The Insight: We all have different “support languages”. Some people offer comfort through action, others through presence. But when those styles don’t match in the moment, it can create a disconnect that feels like rejection.

Instead of leaving the conversation feeling lighter, you walk away more alone. The fix isn’t to shut down or withdraw, it’s to communicate your needs more clearly.

The Strategy: Name What You Need

Get clear on your ask before you reach out. Do you want to vent, brainstorm, cry, or be distracted? Knowing helps you guide the tone of the interaction.

Start the conversation with a cue:

“Can I just talk through something without fixing it for a sec?”

“Not looking for solutions, just someone to sit with it.”

“I know what needs to be done, I just need to get it off my chest for a bit.”

These phrases act like social setting instructions, giving your friend a better chance to meet you where you are.

Revisit the moment later if needed. If you didn’t set expectations and felt let down, it’s okay to go back and say: “Hey, when I shared that earlier, I really just needed someone to sit with me in it. Next time, can I let you know what kind of support I need?”

Why It Matters: Friendships aren’t built on mind-reading, they thrive on mutual understanding. Teaching someone how to support you is a form of emotional intimacy, not confrontation. You’re not being “too much” by naming your needs; you’re giving the relationship a chance to deepen in trust.

Try This Next Time: Before you reach out, pause and ask yourself, “What would feel most supportive right now? Does it look like advice, comfort, or just someone on the other end?” Then say it out loud. That small shift can make all the difference.

Today’s Affirmations   “Even small clarity is still clarity.”  Let this affirmation be a gentle reminder that you don’t ...
07/08/2025

Today’s Affirmations



“Even small clarity is still clarity.”



Let this affirmation be a gentle reminder that you don’t need a full plan to move forward, just one clear reason, one honest instinct, or one next right thing.

Try this: Write down one thing you’re sure of today, no matter how small. Let that be your compass, even if the path ahead is still forming.

Gratitude Spotlight

Today's Invitation: “What is something routine that made life easier today?”

Maybe your shoes fit just right, your morning coffee was exactly how you liked it, or your calendar aligned in your favor.

Why It Matters: We often overlook the helpers hidden in routine. Naming even one turns the mundane into a quiet form of support, a reminder that ease exists, even in repetition.

Try This: Snap a photo of today’s small helper, whether it’s your mug, a sticky note, or your walking path, and save it to a gratitude folder on your phone. It’s a visual reminder that support can look simple.

I hope your today is filled with small helpers. And remember that Living Well Counselling Centre is another small helper; contact us if you'd like help with finding more clarity in your everyday.

Gratitude SpotlightToday's Invitation: “What is something routine that made life easier today?” Maybe your shoes fit jus...
13/07/2025

Gratitude Spotlight

Today's Invitation: “What is something routine that made life easier today?”
Maybe your shoes fit just right, your morning coffee was exactly how you liked it, or your calendar aligned in your favor.

Why It Matters: We often overlook the helpers hidden in routine. Naming even one turns the mundane into a quiet form of support, a reminder that ease exists, even in repetition.

Try This: Snap a photo of today’s small helper, whether it’s your mug, a sticky note, or your walking path, and save it to a gratitude folder on your phone. It’s a visual reminder that support can look simple.

Feel like you're carrying the stress of the week into your weekend? Try this quick and effective body scan meditation:Wh...
12/07/2025

Feel like you're carrying the stress of the week into your weekend? Try this quick and effective body scan meditation:

What it is: Body scan meditation is a guided awareness practice where you slowly move your attention through different areas of your body, from your feet to your head and back again. It’s often used to ground your attention, ease stress, and reconnect with physical sensations that may have gone unnoticed.

Why it works: Stress doesn’t just stay in your thoughts, it settles into your shoulders, your jaw, and your lower back. Body scan meditation helps bring attention to those hidden pockets of tension.

Instead of trying to “fix” or fight them, the practice invites you to notice them with curiosity. This shift alone can signal your nervous system to downregulate, easing discomfort and calming your mind.

How to practice it: Find a quiet space and lie down or sit comfortably. Close your eyes if that feels okay.

Begin at your feet, gently noticing any sensation: warmth, pressure, tingling, or even numbness. Take your time moving up through your ankles, legs, hips, belly, chest, shoulders, arms, and face.

If you notice tension, try breathing into that area, imagining the breath creating space and softness. When you reach the top of your head, you can either end the session or gently trace your awareness back down to your feet.

When to use it: Try a short body scan whenever you feel scattered, agitated, or physically tense. It’s especially helpful before bed or during moments when you’re caught up in “fight or flight” mode but want to return to calm.

Pro tip: You don’t have to notice something in every area. The point isn’t to force relaxation, it’s to increase awareness. Even just noticing that your shoulders feel heavy or your jaw is clenched gives you data to work with. Over time, you’ll start to notice patterns and catch tension earlier in the day.

Research backing: Studies show that body scan meditation, especially when practiced regularly, can lower levels of cortisol (the stress hormone), improve sleep, and enhance emotional regulation. In one 8-week program, participants reported both physical and psychological relief from chronic stress symptoms.

It's the tail end of another week. Was it a good one? Was it tough? You made it through and, fun fact, you've survived 1...
04/07/2025

It's the tail end of another week. Was it a good one? Was it tough? You made it through and, fun fact, you've survived 100% of your worst days. What a legend!

If you'd ever like someone to work with you to process the tricky parts of life, or to help you find clarity, the professional and empathetic counsellors at Living Well Counselling Centre are. Get in touch to find out more, or to see how we can help.

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29 Queen Street West
Levin
5510

Opening Hours

Wednesday 9am - 4:30pm
Thursday 9am - 4:30pm
Friday 9am - 4:30pm

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