11/09/2025
So worth sharing... an add on.. if you have children ask if it's OK to bring them to visit too, and give the Mum the option to say no 🥰
✨ Visiting a New Mom? Read This First ✨
New babies bring a lot of excitement—everyone wants to meet the little one and show love. But here’s the thing: what new moms really need is support, not surprise visitors and extra stress.
If you’re planning to visit a new mom soon, here are a few gentle reminders to help make it a positive experience for her (not just you):
Are you well ? If not stay away until you are!
Bring something—anything.
Snacks, coffee, a sandwich. Better still that nights dinner !! Don’t show up empty-handed.
Wash your hands.
Before touching the baby, always. Germs are no joke for tiny humans.
Keep it short.
20–30 minutes tops. She’s tired, healing, and doesn’t need to host anyone right now.
Don’t expect baby cuddles.
If she’s not handing the baby over, that’s okay. Respect her space.
Be helpful.
Load the dishwasher. Put out the washing or bring it in. Fold washing. Real support looks like action, not advice.
Leave your drama at the door.
She’s dealing with enough. Keep it light and supportive.
No judgment zone.
Her baby, her rules. However she’s feeding, sleeping, or parenting—respect it.
Always text first.
Don’t just pop by. Give her a chance to say yes (or no).
NO kissing the baby.
Even if you love them to bits. Health and safety first.
Check on her, too.
Yes, the baby is the star—but mom is recovering and adjusting. She needs love, too.
💜 Bottom line: Your visit should lift her up—not wear her out.
