24/11/2025
✨️Top Tip Tuesday✨️
A woman’s mental load has a huge impact on her level of desire — and most people don’t realise just how connected the two are.
When her mind is constantly juggling tasks, planning ahead, remembering everyone’s needs, and keeping the household or life running… her brain stays in “go mode” instead of “receive mode.”
And intimacy requires safety, calm, and space — mentally and emotionally.
When her mental load is too heavy:
• Her nervous system is overstimulated
• She struggles to switch off
• Her body can’t transition into desire
• Intimacy feels like another task instead of something she can enjoy
But when that load is shared or supported?
Her mind relaxes.
Her body follows.
Desire has room to return and deepen. ❤️
Reduce the mental load → Increase the connection.
Small shifts can make a big difference.