02/11/2025
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We spend years teaching children how to solve equations, memorize facts, and chase success — yet we rarely teach them how to sit with their pain. We tell them to be strong, but we never explain that true strength sometimes looks like tears, like asking for help, like admitting you’re not okay. We prepare them for exams but not for heartbreak, for careers but not for loss. And so they grow up learning to silence their emotions, to wear resilience like armor, all while carrying the weight of unspoken feelings they were never taught to understand.
Emotional intelligence is the lesson life keeps repeating until we finally listen — not with our minds, but with our hearts. It teaches us through broken relationships, through moments when logic can’t fix what empathy can heal. It reminds us that understanding ourselves and others is not a soft skill; it’s a survival skill. The world doesn’t need more people who know the right answers — it needs more people who know how to sit in discomfort, to hold space for pain, and to choose compassion over control. That is the education that truly changes us.
— Balt