20/07/2021
At some stage in our life, we will experience anxiety. It can be uncomfortable, uncontrollable and even debilitating to our everyday lives. Our bodies natural response is to enter a flight or fight mode.
Here are three tools to use next time that wave of anxiety hits.
𝐁𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐞
𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘸𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘯𝘹𝘪𝘦𝘵𝘺, 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘣𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘰𝘸, 𝘧𝘢𝘴𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘶𝘱𝘱𝘦𝘳 𝘤𝘩𝘦𝘴𝘵. 𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 𝘯𝘢𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘢𝘭 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘦. 𝘖𝘶𝘳 𝘫𝘰𝘣 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘺 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘭𝘺 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘭𝘰𝘸-𝘣𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘹𝘦𝘳𝘤𝘪𝘴𝘦𝘴.
Breathe in for 5, hold for 5 and out for 5. (I like to call this the 3 5’s) Take the deepest breath that you can. Image trying to touch the bottom of your stomach and filing your entire diaphragm. Hold it and exhale, pushing that breath out as far as you can.
If you struggle to take deep breaths practising can be a good tool. An exercise I was taught when I was a teen was to Lie on the ground and place a couple of books on my stomach and I would practice breathing in and raising only the books when I took a breath in.
Breathing brings oxygen to the brain and body which sends a message to the receptors that the body and mind need to calm down and relax fast.
𝐆𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 (𝐔𝐬𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐨𝐫𝐬)
𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘥𝘰 𝘐 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯 𝘣𝘺 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴? 𝘛𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘢 𝘮𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘢 𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘴𝘶𝘳𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴. 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘥𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘦𝘦, 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘥𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘥𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘮𝘦𝘭𝘭?
𝐔𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝟑-𝟑-𝟑 𝐫𝐮𝐥𝐞.
Look around you and name three things you see. Then, name three sounds you hear. Finally, move three parts of your body -- your ankle, fingers, or arm. Whenever you feel your brain going 100 miles per hour, this mental trick can help centre your mind, bringing you back to the present moment.
𝐄𝐱𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐢𝐬𝐞
𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐥𝐲, 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐠𝐨 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐥𝐤 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐭 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝟐𝟎 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐮𝐭𝐞𝐬.
𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐚 𝐬𝐮𝐝𝐝𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐚𝐧𝐱𝐢𝐞𝐭𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐚 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐫𝐰𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐠𝐨 𝐮𝐩 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐚 𝐟𝐞𝐰 𝐟𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐫𝐬.
When we start exercising, our brain recognises this as a moment of stress and automatically goes into fight or flight mode. The brain automatically releases BNDF. This BDNF has a protective and reparative element to your memory neurones and acts as a reset switch. That’s why we often feel so at ease, things are clear after exercising and eventually happy.
At the same time, endorphins, another chemical to fight stress, is released in your brain. So, BDNF and endorphins are the reasons exercise makes us feel so good.
𝐍𝐞𝐱𝐭 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐝, 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫:
Breathe
Ground
Move