Healings With Hayley

23/02/2026

One Space available for our retreat in April 🙌🏻🤍🤍✨ Message Wellness within with Stacie to secure the last spot

22/02/2026

March 3rd !!!!! This year’s only blood moon lunar eclipse we won’t see another one here in Aotearoa till 2028 ✨✨

In just 10 days, Aotearoa New Zealand will have a front-row seat to witness a total lunar eclipse in its entirety - the only lunar eclipse of 2026.

The lunar eclipse will begin on the night of 3 March at around 9:45pm, when the Moon starts to enter Earth’s shadow, slowly dimming before turning a deep red hue at around 11pm. Totality will occur just after midnight, with the best time to catch the eclipse around 12:30am.

Lunar eclipses require no special equipment — just your eyes and a clear view of the sky. Be sure to check the forecast for your local area if you’re planning to watch this dazzling celestial display.

There will not be another total lunar eclipse until 2028, and we are among the few locations able to watch the entire event unfold over the Pacific. Only an estimated 2% of Earth’s population will be able to view this eclipse from beginning to end.

18/02/2026

~Pick a deck for an Oracle Card and message~

Energy Deck 🤍
or The Ancient Stones Deck💚

Comment below with the deck you feel drawn to and I will reply with your card and message. 🙏🏻🙏🏻✨
Update: Closes 3pm Saturday 21st Feb

17/02/2026

Wow this is so fascinating 🙌🏻🤍✨✨

🌑 Starting February 17, 2026, Earth enters what astronomers are calling a "golden age" of solar eclipses. Over the next three years, six solar eclipses will sweep across the planet: three "ring of fire" annular eclipses and three total solar eclipses, all between 2026 and 2028.

Here's the full lineup:

☀️ Annular ("Ring of Fire") Eclipses:
Feb 17, 2026 — Antarctica
Feb 6, 2027 — Chile, Argentina, West Africa
Jan 26, 2028 — Galápagos Islands, Spain

🌒 Total Solar Eclipses:
Aug 12, 2026 — Iceland, Greenland, northern Spain (first total eclipse from mainland Europe since 1999)
Aug 2, 2027 — Spain, North Africa, Egypt (the "Eclipse of the Century" with up to 6 minutes 23 seconds of totality)
Jul 22, 2028 — Australia, New Zealand (totality over Sydney for the first time since 1857)

This double cascade happens because three separate Saros cycles, the ancient patterns that govern when and where eclipses occur, are firing in sync. The last time this happened was 2008 to 2010, but most of those eclipses fell over oceans and remote areas. This time, the paths cross some of the world's most iconic and accessible destinations.

For eclipse chasers, this is generational. Three total solar eclipses across three continents in under two years. It all starts today with a ring of fire over Antarctica 🔥

31/01/2026

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🌕♌️ In a couple of days, the Hay Moon reaches its peak during the sabbat Lughnasadh, the first harvest festival of the year here in the Southern Hemisphere.
You may also hear this sabbat called Lammas, which is Old English for loaf-mass. Although these names come from different cultural backgrounds (Lughnasadh has Irish, Welsh and Gaulish roots and Lammas is an Anglo-Saxon Christian practice) both honour the beginning of the grain harvest and the abundance of the season - when the first bread made from the new grain was blessed and shared in community gatherings.

This time of year sits firmly in high summer. The land is full, the days are long, and energy is strong. It’s a moment to acknowledge the work that’s been done and bless the fruits that are beginning to show.

There’s another layer to Lughnasadh that’s worth remembering. As summer starts to pass, much of the plants begin to turn to seed. Grasses harden, flowers fade into pods, and the focus shifts from growth and fruition - to fertilisation and future potential.
Seed carries intention forward. Seeds ensure continuation, nourishment, and life beyond oneself.

Because the masculine offers the creative potential of seed, aswell as the historical Celtic tales of the sun god, (Also called Lugus or Lleu Llaw Gyffes), Lughnasadh is one of the few points in the ritual year that openly honours the divine masculine. So much so, that during the feminist spiritual movements of the 1960s and 70s, some witches chose to step away from Lughnasadh because of its masculine associations.

Here are some ways to mark this Full Hay Moon, acknowledge the constellation of Leo & the holy days of Lughnasadh:
🌾 Give thanks for what is already growing or ready to harvest in your life.
🍑 Share food, especially what’s seasonal, local, or made by your own hands. It's the perfect time for picnics and pot-lucks.
🍞 Make or break bread. If you're a wheat-free or gluten-free witch like me, enjoy other grains like Rye, Buckwheat or Quinoa.
💪 Honour your strength - physical, emotional, and practical.
🦁️ Allow your talents to shine.
✨️ Reflect on where your energy has been well spent, and where it needs tending.
🌱 Set intentions for carrying momentum forward into the coming months.
☀️ Offer thanks to the land, the gentle, nourishing rains and our mighty sun.

27/01/2026

For all those parents with kids heading back to school 🙌🏻✨✨

𝗕𝗮𝗰𝗸 𝘁𝗼 𝗦𝗰𝗵𝗼𝗼𝗹 – 𝗘𝗻𝗲𝗿𝗴𝗲𝘁𝗶𝗰 𝗦𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁 𝗟𝗶𝘀𝘁 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗬𝗼𝘂 & 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗖𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱

The start of a new school year can bring nerves, emotions, and a lot of energetic change — especially for sensitive children (and mums!).

Here are some gentle ways to support both of you through this transition:

1️⃣ 𝗘𝗺𝗲𝗿𝗴𝗲𝗻𝗰𝘆 𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲𝘀 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗻𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝘀𝘆𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗺
Australian Bush Flower Emergency Essence or Rescue Remedy - A few drops before school can help settle anxious energy and bring calm to the body. Not always loved for the taste in our house 😅 but it definitely helps take the edge off the nerves when needed.

2️⃣ 𝗧𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺 𝘁𝗼 “𝗽𝘂𝗹𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗿𝗴𝘆 𝗶𝗻”
Before they leave, guide them to imagine their energy gently drawing back into their body like a warm, glowing light. This helps them be less likely to absorb other people’s emotions during the day.

3️⃣ 𝗠𝗼𝗿𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝘁𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗯𝘂𝗯𝗯𝗹𝗲
Imagine stepping into a bubble of light that lets love in but keeps everyone else’s energy out.

4️⃣ 𝗖𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗴𝘂𝗶𝗱𝗲𝘀
Remind them they are never alone. If they feel overwhelmed or unsure, they can quietly ask their guides for help and comfort.

5️⃣ 𝗔 𝘀𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗰𝗿𝘆𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗼𝗰𝗸𝗲𝘁 𝗼𝗿 𝗯𝗮𝗴 (can easily be hidden)
A little energetic anchor for the day:

🖤Black Tourmaline – protection from others’ emotions
💜Amethyst – calm and emotional balance
🤍Clear Quartz – clarity and gentle support
Even if they don’t “believe” in it, it works at a subtle level.

𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝘄𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀 𝗣𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗮𝗺𝘂 (𝗚𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗻𝗲)
This is a powerful taonga for protection, strength, and grounding. Encourage them to hold it if they feel nervous or unsettled — it helps bring them back into their body and into calm.

Because pounamu absorbs a lot of energy through the day, it’s important to let it rest and reset at night. Place it on a windowsill, in moonlight, or beside a piece of selenite to gently clear it.

6️⃣ 𝗦𝗰𝗵𝗼𝗼𝗹 𝗯𝗮𝗴 & 𝘂𝗻𝗶𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗺 𝗰𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗻𝘀𝗲
Once a week, pop Selenite or Clear Quartz in their school bag overnight.
Bags and uniforms hold onto the energy of the day — this gently resets them.

7️⃣ 𝗪𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗲𝘁 𝗮𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝗰𝗵𝗼𝗼𝗹
Encourage them to drink water as soon as they get home. Water helps flush emotional and energetic buildup from the day.

8️⃣ 𝗦𝗵𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿 “𝘄𝗮𝘀𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝗼𝗳𝗳” 𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹
Teach them to imagine the day washing off their body in the shower — emotions, stress, other people’s moods — all going down the drain.

9️⃣ 𝗚𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝗰𝗵𝗼𝗼𝗹
Barefoot time outside, or holding a grounding crystal like Hematite or Smoky Quartz can help discharge the energy they’ve picked up.

🔟 𝗔𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿-𝘀𝗰𝗵𝗼𝗼𝗹 𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗲𝘁 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲
No questions, no noise, no expectations for 20–30 minutes. This is often when their system recalibrates.

11️⃣ Bedroom = safe energy zone
Keep a calming crystal near their bed like:

🩷Rose Quartz for comfort
💜Amethyst for restful sleep
🤍Selenite to keep the room energetically clear

12️⃣ Gentle check-ins, not interrogations

𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘂𝘀 𝗮𝘀 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 🤍
Keep a piece of Black Tourmaline or Hematite nearby after school — kids often emotionally download their whole day onto us.

This time of year is a big energetic adjustment for little humans… and for us too.🖤

14/01/2026

✨Healings with Hayley | 2026 ✨

A new year, a new energetic chapter.
An invitation to slow down, tune in, and reconnect with what truly matters.

As we move through the first few weeks of this year, I hope your nervous system feels soft, your heart feels supported, and your energy can realign with calm, clarity, and balance.

If you feel you need a Reiki session, follow the link in my bio to book online. I’m so grateful to continue holding space for your healing, growth, and self-connection this year 🤍

02/01/2026

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If I hear one more New Zealand witch call this week’s full moon "the Wolf Moon", I might actually scream!

🐺 Wolves are not howling in January in Aotearoa. Wolves don't even exist in this land.
The use of these names for the lunar cycles originated from European Folk calenders, old farmers almanacs and Native American traditions.
Indigenous cultures around the world named their moon cycles based on what was happening in nature at that time — the harvests, the cold, the flowering, the dying back. These names were never meant to be universal or copy-pasted across hemispheres. They were place-based, seasonal, and relational.

And they all differed. Some clans naming the summer solstice moon; the Strawberry Moon, others called it Honey or Mead Moon.
The Wolf and the Storm Moon may be the same cycle to different tribes - all reflecting what mattered locally at that time.
Within te ao Māori, the maramataka differs between iwi and regions. There isn’t one maramataka, there are many, each shaped by local knowledge and lived experience.

Moon phases are usually named after:

🍂 environmental events

🌾 seasonal activities

🦌 fishing, hunting and gathering habits

🌱 planting cycles

⛈️ the tides, cosmic and weather patterns

➡️ So, I’ve created this Southern Hemisphere Folk Moon Poster, adapting folk moon names to better reflect our Kiwi climate, seasonal rhythms, and relationship with the land.

🌸 When we name and notice these cycles, we strengthen our connection to time, the whenua, and our own bodies - turning the Moon from a date on a calendar into a living pattern we can feel and respond to.
Using seasonally aligned moon names helps us stay grounded where we actually are, rather than adopting irrelevant labels or borrowing an animal from the other side of the world.

✨ This calendar is offered - not as a rulebook - but as an invitation to work more consciously with our own seasonal cycles. Create your own names based on your observations and experiences.
Tell me:
💬 What would you call this moon cycle in Aotearoa?
Thunder? Buck? Hay? The Pohutukawa Moon?

If this picture resonates with you:
🔁 Send it to your coven, friends, and fellow lunatics! Please feel free to share, copy, and distribute this calendar.

~ Dawny

04/12/2025

Just insight as we head into a busy time of year 🙌🏻💖🎄

Lately I’ve been noticing something in a lot of the families I work with — and honestly, in so many of us trying to do life well.

A lot of the pressure we feel at home doesn’t come from “bad decisions.”
It comes from too many good things stacked on top of each other. ✨

We say yes because something matters to us.
We take things on because we care.
We commit because it feels important.
We want to contribute, grow, help, be involved… all with the best intentions.

But even good things can become too much.

And that overload doesn’t stay in one part of our life.
It spills into the places (and the relationships) that matter most. 💛

I saw this in a session today — a couple who are both genuinely good people, doing their best, juggling work, family, and a long list of meaningful commitments.

None of their choices were “wrong.”
But together, they were heavy.

She felt the stress.
He felt the impact.
And their daughter felt the ripple effects too — even though no one meant for that to happen.

This isn’t about blame.
It’s about honesty.

If we say our kids matter most…
If we say family is our top value…
If we want a home that feels calmer and more connected…
Then we need to check whether our choices actually line up with what we say is important.

And here’s the reassuring part:
We don’t fix this by burning our lives down or quitting everything.

We fix it slowly. Gently.
With small adjustments that make life feel lighter again:

• taking one thing off the plate
• creating a clearer boundary
• slowing the pace just a touch
• having the difficult conversation
• choosing alignment over overwhelm

Tiny changes can shift the whole atmosphere at home.

When adults lower the pressure, kids feel it. And everyone breathes easier. 🌿

That’s the work I love most - helping families live in a way that actually matches their values, not the pace the world tries to push them into.

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What’s one small change that’s helped ease the pressure in your home lately?

30/11/2025

This Heart Healing Summer retreat is now sold out 🙌🏻🩷🩷✨ How exciting !!

WOW WOW WOW we have a sell out we are now fully booked for the heart healing summer retreat.

This is my 3rd fully booked sold out day retreat in the space of a year and I am so bloody grateful ✨️✨️✨️✨️ and I'm so so excited. Healings With Hayley this is going to be epic ✨️✨️✨️

20/11/2025

Watch this video if you are interested in attending our summer retreat in January ✨✨💞 x

18/11/2025

Tickets Available now 🙌🏻✨💕 Click on the original post to find out all the details and message Wellness within with Stacie to secure your place 💫