19/05/2025
Thank you to this gorgeous family for sharing their birth story! Let us know if you would like to share your birth story with us ❤️
As a first time mum, it wasn’t easy to decide where to give birth. Ideally, staying in Wanaka would have been best, but something was telling me to be closer to a hospital. There are so many reasons why people end up in hospital during labour, and I think I just wanted to avoid any travelling while in labour. I simply wanted to be in one place, and close to medical care. In the end, I was really happy with my decision.
One big advantage was that my partner’s family lives in Invercargill, so we were able to stay at his parents’ house. We went to Invercargill on my due date. I ended up being five days overdue, so we had lots of time to relax and spend time with my partner and his family. We went for nice walks on the beach and in parks, did some shopping, and enjoyed good food.
I also met a new midwife, Bonnie Kite. I contacted Bonnie a couple weeks before my due date, so she knew about my arrival. I met her at the hospital before the birth, she did a basic check up and we made a plan.
A few days later, I went into labour at around 3 am and stayed at home until about 9 pm, when the contractions became quite intense I called Bonnie and she offered to meet me at the hospital 30 minutes later. When we arrived, we were given this double room with lots of space, couch and pool. Bonnie dimmed the lights to help me feel more comfortable. We brought a little speaker and played a cool playlist. I started using gas straight away, which was actually kind of fun 😊. A couple of hours later, I got into the birthing pool too. The atmosphere was actually really good. Bonnie and her assistant were calm, relaxed, and super kind.
The only challenge was that I was dilating very slowly. After 24 hours of contractions, I had only dilated to about 5–6 cm. At that point, I asked for an epidural. Once I got it, thankfully, it was quick, it was such a massive relief. My partner and I were finally able to get some rest.
Eventually, we reached the pushing stage, and then, there she was! Our little legend, Jade, was born.
Bonnie was amazing, especially during the pushing stage. It was quite hard because I couldn’t feel anything, but she motivated me and had so much trust in me. She even stayed on past the end of her night shift to help me finish the birth naturally. I was so grateful.
We spent one night in Invercargill Hospital and had our own room with a bathroom, so cool! All the nurses, doctors, midwives, and staff were incredible. They looked after us so well. Honestly, we had such a beautiful birth experience and made lasting memories. I’m so happy with my decision and wouldn’t change a thing.
We also spent one night at the Alexandra birthing unit and one night at the Wanaka birthing unit, which was super fancy 😊. There’s such great support for mums here in New Zealand.