The Being Way

31/03/2026

Have you ever found yourself in a beautiful moment, only to think: “gosh, I wish I did this more often”?

Like being on holiday, or on a walk, or in the middle of something quietly special, and the thought that follows is: “I wish that…”

I notice that the magic of the moment disappears the second I leap into the future. The moment I introduce a new destination point into the now, what’s here suddenly feels like it’s not enough.

I often feel that pull, the urge to leapfrog. The eternal chasing of the next moment. And I have to remind myself, again and again, that the journey isn’t about arriving somewhere, it’s simply whatever is right here, right now.

Can I breathe in the magnificent presence of the sun? Can I just stop, and breath, and feel?

For me, instead of being enticed by “I wish…” or “when I get…”, it’s a decision to become still.
To come back into the space and time I’m in and just feel.

To be in the fullness of what is right here, right now.

Bree x

23/03/2026

How beautiful was that weather on the weekend!! 🥰 filled the cup all the way up ⛲️

Writing location
Beaches: Murray’s bay walkway to Mairangi Bay + Omaha

18/03/2026

What I have learned about forgiveness lately, is that when you really drill down, it’s not so much about forgiving others, it’s about finally forgiving yourself. ⛓️‍💥 🕊️

This story stemmed from a moment that caught me completely off guard.

Link 🔗 to the full piece is at the bottom of the photo, and via my stories.

Bree x

18/03/2026

Letting go of grief and guilt

Letting go of grief, and guilt.

18/03/2026

Letting go of grief and guilt.

Letting go of grief, and guilt.

17/03/2026

My 800th post on Facebook 😍❤️✨

15/03/2026

Something I have been feeling in relation to my work lately is being SO DANG GRATEFUL for all of my clients that I get to work with. I often marvel when I think of each of you, showing up continually to work on yourselves and be the best version of you. I remember when I was younger being reluctant to part ways with $ to work on myself, preferring to use it in other ways, until I got to 24 and my Counselling degree required that I do 80 hours of counselling a year. Thankfully - it took me three attempts to find the right match for me - a wonderful psychotherapist called ChristineJohannis took me on at a much reduced rate. Working with Christine changed my life. I found myself underneath all of the muck. Circling back to now, when I think of you all freely making the brave leap, it fills me with so much respect. 🤍

Thank you for choosing to come here, and work with me. I feel humbled, appreciative, amazed and a bit teary when I think about it.

Bree 🌼

10/03/2026

I haven’t shared much here about our conception journey. A part of me wishes I had been braver to share more, but it’s felt deeply personal, as I know so many of you will understand.

Lately I’ve felt a pull to change that a little, knowing it may support others who find themselves in similar places.

This morning I wrote a piece on faith and the bigger picture. If your season of life that you’re in feels a bit wobbly or uncertain, it might speak to you, and has a little coaching tool that’s super helpful.

You can find the link 🔗 in my stories or head to my Substack: www.substack.com/

🤍 🕊️ 🤍