Narcissist Quotes NZ

24/10/2025

GETTING PAST "DENIAL"...
Know what the narcissist is, and admit it to yourself. NEVER be in denial about that. Know it, say it, live it. The narcissist is viscous and evil, but also a master of deception. Know what's behind that mask.
Dr. Annie Kaszina explains: Never underestimate the importance of this. You need to see the best in good people. You also need to see the bad in bad people.
One of the things that bad people are very good at is recognizing your capacity for denial. They know that you will see the good in them - and they will gaslight you into believing good of them - even when you actually know that they are behaving horribly.
Your denial enables them to continue to hurt and humiliate you.
If you don’t believe in the tooth fairy anymore, and you don’t believe in Father Christmas [Santa], you might as well get over this thing about only having to dig deep enough into a bad person to find their hidden core of goodness.
First of all, that is their job. Second of all, they see their badness as their superpower. Third, some people just choose to live on the dark side. The sooner you accept that – that word “accept “again – the sooner your life will start to improve.

24/10/2025

Some people are masters of deception: they create chaos behind the scenes, then step into the spotlight pretending to be the victim.

It’s a manipulative tactic and it’s how toxic people avoid accountability while gaining sympathy.

Don’t fall for the performance. Watch patterns, not tears. The truth always reveals itself when actions and stories don’t align.

24/10/2025

Who’s been with one of them understands: Narcissists want a fan club 😂

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DO I APOLOGIZE A LOT? I was constantly criticized.
DO I HIDE MY FEELINGS? I was blamed and attacked for expressing them.
DO I NEED TO BE REASSURED? I was told over and over how worthless I was.
DO I SUDDENLY GET ANGRY? I've been triggered by something that reminds me of the horror and pain of the abuse.
If you love me...please be patient. I'm working on it. It'll take time.

24/10/2025

When I’m done, it’s all done. I don’t want closure. There’s no need to talk. No final words. And you will never hear from me again. My silence will speak louder than anything I ever said. My absence will haunt you.
Never take consistency, care, or presence for granted. When someone gives their all and is met with indifference, they eventually learn the power of walking away without explanation. Silence can be the loudest response, and absence the strongest reminder of what was lost.